(共21张PPT)
Unit 4
Why don’t you talk to your parents
1. Can you get on well with your family
2. Do you have any brothers or sisters Can you get on well with him/her
3. Who do you ask for help when you have problems
What kind of problems do you think “Sad and Thirteen” might have
What is the passage talking about
Look at the picture.
I guess…
1.What are the two letters about
advice
problems
Letter One
Letter Two
(Sad and Thirteen)
(Robert Hunt)
Read and answer
2.Who are they
Sad and Thirteen's parents
Dear Mr. Hunt,
My problem is that I can't get on with my family. Relations between my parents have become difficult. They fight a lot, and I really don't like it. It's the only communication they have. I don't know if I should say anything to them about this. When they argue, it's like a big, black cloud hanging over our home. Also, my elder brother is not very nice to me. He always refuses to let me watch my favorite TV show. Instead he watches whatever he wants until late at night. I don't think this is fair. At home I always feel lonely and nervous. Is that normal What can I do
Sad and Thirteen
Letter 1
1. What’s Sad and Thirteen’s main problem
He can’t get on with his family.
2. How does he feel at home
He always feels lonely and nervous.
Dear Mr. Hunt,
My problem is that I can't get on with my family. Relations between my parents have become difficult. They fight a lot, and I really don't like it. It's the only communication they have. I don't know if I should say anything to them about this. When they argue, it's like a big, black cloud hanging over our home. Also, my elder brother is not very nice to me. He always refuses to let me watch my favorite TV show. Instead he watches whatever he wants until late at night. I don't think this is fair. At home I always feel lonely and nervous. Is that normal What can I do
Sad and Thirteen
短文全解
Problems
1.Sad and thirteen can’t get on with his family.
2.His parents fight a lot and he doesn't know what to do.
3.His elder brother is not nice to him and refuses to let him watch his favorite TV show.
Fill in the blanks.
1. Sad and Thirteen has some _________. He can’t ____________ his family. His parents ______ a lot. It’s the only ______________ they have. When they _______, it’s like a big black cloud _____________ their home. Also, his elder brother
always ________ to let him watch his favorite TV show. Instead his elder brother watches TV whatever he wants until late at night. He always feels _______ and ________.
get on with
problems
argue
fight
communication
hanging over
refuses
lonely
nervous
Dear Sad and Thirteen,
It's not easy being your age, and it's normal to have these feelings. Why don't you talk about these feelings with your family If your parents are having problems, you should offer to help. Maybe you could do more jobs around the house so that they have more time for proper communication. Secondly, why don't you sit down and communicate with your brother You should explain hat you don't mind him watching TV all the time. However, he should let you watch your favorite show. I hope things will be better for you soon.
Robert Hunt
Letter 2
What’s Robert Hunt’s main advice ?
Sad 13 could talk about these feelings with his family.
Dear Sad and Thirteen,
It's not easy being your age, and it's normal to have these feelings. Why don't you talk about these feelings with your family If your parents are having problems, you should offer to help. Maybe you could do more jobs around the house so that they have more time for proper communication. Secondly, why don't you sit down and communicate with your brother You should explain hat you don't mind him watching TV all the time. However, he should let you watch your favorite show. I hope things will be better for you soon.
Robert Hunt
短文全解
Advice
1.Sad 13 could talk about these feelings with his family.
2. He should offer to help parents. He could do more jobs around the house.
3. He could sit down and communicate with his brother. He should explain that he doesn’t mind his brother watching TV all the time, but he should let him watch his favorite show.
2. Robert Hunt thinks Sad and Thirteen should __________ these feelings with his family. If his parents are having problems, he should ______ to help. Maybe he ______________ jobs around the house so that they have more time _________________________. Secondly, he could sit down and __________________ his brother. He should ________ that he ____________ him watching TV all the time. However, his brother should let him watch his _____________.
offer
talk about
doesn’t mind
could do more
for proper communication
communicate with
explain
favorite show
Fill in the blanks.
Sad and Thirteen’s main problem Mr. Hunt’s main advice
About parents
About brother
1.You should offer to help.
Relations between my parents have become difficult. They fight a lot
It's the only communication they have.
When they argue, it's like a big, black cloud hanging over our home.
1. Why don’t you sit down and communicate with your brother
Also, my elder brother is not very nice to me.
He always refuses to let me watch my favorite TV show.
Instead he watches whatever he wants until late at night.
2. You could do more jobs so that they have more time for proper communication.
2.You should explain that you don’t mind him watching TV all the time. However, he should let you watch your favorite show.
Listen and retell
I can’t get on well with my family
I feel lonely and nervous
Why don’t you talk about these feelings with your family
Do you agree or disagree with Mr. Hunt’s advice Why
I agree / disagree with his advice because…
A: What do you think about Mr. Hunt’s advice Do you agree with him
B: Yes, I do. I agree with him because… /
I’m afraid I don’t. I disagree with him because…
Lack of communication if the cause of many problems. In this case, the family may truly not be aware of how the writer feels as they are too absorbed in their own problems. The parents many also be touched if the writer tries to help them by doing jobs around the house. In addition, it is not healthy for the writer to keep his negative feelings to himself. Talking is likely to help him fell better.
The parents and elder brother may get even angrier as they may think that the writer is being disrespectful. They may feel that children should not comment on the behavior of their seniors.
Which words or phrases in the letters have the same or similar meanings as the following Write a sentence using each word or phrase.
make sth. clear — explain
Can you explain to me how to do this math problem
talk —
communicate
Family members should communicate with each other so that they can understand each other better.
nervous
I am always very nervous before a test.
get on with
John and I get on with each other because we have the same interests.
not allow —
worried —
get along with —
Molly refuses to let her younger brother use her computer.
refuse
__________________ 和睦相处;关系良好
__________________ 拒绝做某事
__________________ 提议或主动提出做某事
__________________ 介意某人做某事
__________________ 和某人交流
__________________ 同意
__________________ 不同意
get on with
refuse to do sth.
offer to do sth.
mind sb. doing sth.
communicate with sb.
agree with
disagree with
Don’t be upset. Because trouble is a friend.
Why don't you talk to your parents or friends
Ways are more than problems.
Exercise
1. 我不介意你在这儿跳舞。
I don’t ______ ______ ________ here.
2. 今天你回家后应该和父母交流一下。
Today after you go home, you should ____________ ____________ your parents.
3. 我们为什么不主动给他打电话呢?
Why don’t we ______ ______ ______ him
mind you dancing
communicate with
offer to call
4. 刚才她拒绝来参加我的聚会。
Just now she ________ ______ ______ to my party.
5. 这本书主要是关于如何和你周围的人和睦相处的。
This book is mainly about how to ______ ______ ______ people around you.
refused to come
get
on with