(共51张PPT)
Module 3
Interpersonal Relationships
-- Friendship
What is friendship
When it rains, I think friendship
is a small______________It can give
me a patch of clear sky.
When I’m crying, I think
friendship is a white_____________
It can wipe my tears away.
handkerchief.
umbrella.
What is friendship
When I am sad, I think friendship is
a warm______ It can bring me happiness again.
When I am in trouble, I think friendship is a strong______
It can pull me out of my troubles.
word.
hand.
What is friendship
What is a friend
“A friend is one who believes in you
when you have ceased to believe in
yourself.” ——Lysha
“Friends are the sunshine of life.”
——John Hay
1. Most people have only one close friend, someone they know really well.
2. A good friend is someone you can discuss personal matters with, knowing that you can trust him/her.
3. Your friendship is as important as your relationship with your family.
Textbook P.29-1 Read aloud and think
4. It takes time to really get to know someone and find out what they are like.
5. Everyone feels shy and lonely at some time in their life.
6. To make friends easily, you need to be very kind.
7. To make friends easily, you need to be able to chat about unimportant things.
Read aloud and think
Read the following definitions of “friend”
and think about your definition of “friend”.
A friend is
— someone who understands your silence.
— the one who comes in when the whole
world had gone out.
— a person who remains true and faithful
to us the whole life.
brainstorm
F:
R:
I:
E:
N:
D :
funny,
responsible,
interesting,
easy-going,
nice,
devoted,
forgiving, fair, faithful, friendly …
real, reliable, respectful …
important, independent …
enjoyable, equal, encouraging …
neat …
different …
…
use some adjectives to describe a friend. A good friend is______
1. A friend in need is a friend indeed.
2. A friend is easier lost than found.
3. A life without a friend is a life
without a sun.
4. He is a good friend that speaks well
of us behind our backs.
5. A friend without fault can never be
found.
患难见真情
知己难觅,且行且珍惜
吾生无友如寒冬
小人当面口如蜜,君子背后撑朋友
人无完人。/ 没有缺点的朋友永远也找不到。
translate the proverbs about friendship into Chinese
小人口如蜜
小人口如蜜
小人口如蜜
Vocabulary Consolidation
P.29-2 match the words with their meanings.
P.29-3 match the words in Box A with the words in Box B.
Match the words with the meanings: P.29-2
the way in which two or more people behave towards each other
nervous when with other people
to believe that someone is good and honest
relationship
shy
trust
2
a relationship between two people who are friends
to talk in a friendly way, especially about unimportant things
unhappy because you are alone or have no friends
friendship
lonely
chat
Fill in the blanks with words in box.
chat; friendship; lonely; relationship; shy; trust
In my spare time, I often _____ about interesting things with my best friend, such as films we have seen, sport games we have watched. We have good _____________ between us. This good relationship is ___________. If I have no friends, I will feel _______. I think good friends should _____ each other and won’t feel _______ in communication.
chat
relationship
friendship
lonely
trust
shy
matters
friends
to know
friend
A
B
Match the words in Box A with the words in Box B. P.29-3
3
make
get
personal
close
Can you make all these words into one paragraph
Do you think that good friends should never quarrel
Listening and Vocabulary p.33
1 Are Liao Mei and Wang Chaosu still friends
Yes, they are.
2 Why do you think the girls have kept in touch
Because they are old friends.They kept in touch through email and still stayed best friends.
1
Twenty-year-old Liao Mei is an only child. Since the age of 11, she has had a best friend called Wang Chaosu. They get on very well because they both have very lively personalities and have a great interest in books. They have quarreled seriously three times but each time they have made up and become best friends again, Liao Mei really regrets these quarrels. Even when the two girls went to different colleges at the age of 18, they kept in touch through email and still stayed best friends.
Useful expressions
二十岁的
独生子女
相处很好
合好
性格活泼
对…很感兴趣
吵架
在…岁
保持联系
3
best
get
have
keep
lose
make
only
child
friend
an interest (in)
in touch
on (with someone)
touch
up
Match the words in Box A with the words in Box B.
A
B
4
Listen to Liao Mei talking about her friendships.
She says five things that are different from the statements in the passage in activity 1.
Say what they are.
Twenty-year-old Liao Mei is an only child. Since the age of 11, she has had a best friend called Wang Chaosu. They get on very well because they both have very lively personalities and have a great interest in books. They have quarreled seriously three times but each time they have made up and become best friends again, Liao Mei really regrets these quarrels. Even when the two girls went to different colleges at the age of 18, they kept in touch through email and still stayed best friends.
Five errors
1) They have “quite” lively personalities
2) They share an interest in “sport”
3) They have quarreled “ from time to time”
4) their one serious quarrel
5) They are no longer “best friends”, just “good friends”.
Listen again and answer the questions
on p.34 activity 5
Part 1
5
1 Why has Liao Mei never felt lonely
Because her parents always made sure she had friends to play with.
2 Where did the two girls meet
At secondary school.
3 Where did they live
Very near each other.
Part 1
4 What do we learn about the girls’ parents
They got on very well.
5 Why did the two girls quarrel
Because Liao Mei made friends with two other girls whom Wang Chaosu didn’t like.
Listen again and answer the questions
on p.34 activity 5
Part 1
Part 2
1 Where is Liao Mei’s college
200 kilometers away.
2 What does Liao Mei say you need to do to keep your friends
Keep in touch.
3 How many friends has Liao Mei lost touch with
Four or five.
4 Why has she lost touch with them
Because they changed.
Part 2
Everyday English
p.38
Everyday English
1. We’re two of a kind
means____________.
A. We’re very similar
B. We’re both kind people
2. get together means
_______________.
A. have a party
B. meet in order to do something nice
3. (Our parents) get on well means ______________.
A. (they) are very healthy
B. (they) like each other a lot
4. It’s my guess means ______________.
A. this is what I predict
B. this is what I hope
5. Click (with someone) means to_________.
A. talk a lot
B. like each other and
understand each other
My name is Liao Mei and I’m 20 years old. I’m an ____ _____, and my friendships are very important to me. Ever since I was a kid, my parents always _____ ____ that I had other children to play with, so I never felt ______. I’ve also been very lucky because I’ve always had a best friend, someone who I’ve been really ____ ___.
Listen again and fill in the blanks.
only child
made sure
close to
lonely
My best friend since the age of 11 was a girl called Wang Chaosu. We met at _________ school. We’d both just started there. I _________ _______ her for the first time. I was walking home from
school and she was going ___ _____ ___. So we walked home together and discovered that we lived very near each other. We ___ __ _____ each other immediately. We’re ___ __ __ ____, Wang Chaosu and I — we’re both quite lively.
secondary
got on with
two of a kind
remember meeting
the same way
We found that we ______ a lot of the same ________. She loved all kinds of sport and ___ ___ __. We soon became best friends. We ____ ___ go around to each other’s houses all the time. ____ _______ got on very well too.
But having said this, I must say that Wang Chaosu and I quarrel ______
____ ___ ____.
shared
interests
so did I
used to
time to time
Our
parents
from
We had a really ______ quarrel when I was 16. I became friendly with ____ _____ that she didn’t get on with, and I stopped ______ her for a while. It wasn’t a nice thing to do and I _____ ______ that now. Wang Chaosu was really hurt. She didn’t talk to me for about ___ _______. But then we _____ ___ and became friends again.
serious
seeing
made up
two
girls
regret doing
six months
Listen to part 2.
Wang Chaosu and I stayed best friends ___ __ the age of 18, but then we both went to ________ _______. She stayed in our home town and I went to a college 200 kilometres _____. We’re still good friends, but we’re not best friends anymore. ____ _______ when you’re so far away from someone. I think that to keep your friends, there are _______ ______ you have to do.
up to
away
Listen again and fill in the blanks.
different colleges
It’s difficult
certain
things
For example, you must remember to ____ ___ _____ if you want to stay friends with someone. Wang Chaosu and I keep in touch _______ _____ when we’re at college, and of course, we see each other _____ I come back home. We always have a lot to say to each other. We talk about our feelings and are ____ ______ ____ each other. I think that’s very important.
in touch
keep
through email
when
very honest with
I regret ___ ___ that I have ____ _____
____ four or five friends since I’ve been at college. It’s a pity, but I’ve changed and they’ve changed too. We just don’t ____ anymore. I think the reason why Wang Chaosu and I are still friends, as I said earlier, is because we have ______personalities, and we’re both still crazy about sport. ___ ___ _____ that we’ll always be good friends. I hope so.
to say
lost touch
click
It’s my guess
with
similar
Talking about relationships
Function and speaking p.35
Read together these ways of talking about relationships.
1)I’ve known him/her for six years.
2)We first met six years ago.
I remember meeting him/her for the first time.
3) We’re good /close/best friends.
4) We get on very well. We trust each other.
5) We sometimes quarrel.
6) We see each other from time to time.
7) We’ve lost touch./We still keep in touch.
Presentation. Talk about your best friend.
Use the questions to help you. p.36
2) What’s she/he like What kind of person
3) How long have you known her/him
4) How did you first meet
5) Why do you think you are such good friends
6) How often do you see each other
7) What kind of things do you talk about together
8) Do you ever quarrel
9) Do you think you will always keep in touch Why
T
Do you have a close friend Who is he or she
What did you ever do for your friends
Interview
language points
1. quarrel
1) vi. 吵架; 争吵
e.g.: She quarrelled with her brother about their father's will.
2) n. 吵架
e.g.: He had a quarrel with his wife about their children.
quarrel with sb. over/ about sth.
因某事同某人吵架
have a quarrel with sb. about sth.
和某人就某事争吵
The local people quarrelled _____ the new settlers _____ the land rights.
A. among; over B. with; for
C. with; over D. among; about
C
2. regret v. 后悔;悔恨
regret doing sth. 后悔做了某事
reget to do sth. 很遗憾地要做某事
e.g.: Tom regetted wasting too much time watching TV.
I regret to tell you that i'm leaving here tomorrow.
regret n. 懊悔;遗憾,抱歉
with regret 遗憾地;抱歉地;后悔地
to one's regret 很抱歉的是
3. keep in touch 保持联系
keep/ stay in touch 保持联系
be in touch with 与......有联系
be out of touch with
与......失去/没有联系
get in touch with 与......取得联系
lose touch with 与......失去联系
4. make up
The two friends have just made up after their quarrel.
The student made up an excuse for his being late.
Farm workers made up only a small section of the population.
I’m trying to make up the time I lost while I was sick.
It took her more than an hour to make herself up.
和好;和解
编造
组成;构成
弥补
化妆
Phrases:
make up for 弥补;补偿
be made up of 由……组成
make up one’s mind 决心;决定
e.g.: Strangely the story _____ is popular _____ the young.
A. made up; to B. made up of; with
C. made up of; to D. made up; with
D