专题13 高中英语名校精选阅读七选五专项训练（10套含答案）
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高中英语名校精选阅读七选五专项训练
专题13.（10套精选含答案）
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（2018·四川省绵阳南山中学一模）How to Love Your Parents
Even if you think that your parents are mean-spirited at times , loving your parents is a normal and fulfilling part of life. You love them for the fact that they created you, raised you, and are in part, a source of who you are. 16．.
A gentle “good morning” and “I love you” will warm a coldest heart. Remember that they brought you into this world. Without your parents, we might still wander at an unknown corner in an unknown world.
Respect them more and cherish these moments. You can use these moments to learn from them when you're off on your own. It's OK to get angry but angry actions don't help you or your parents. Act calmly, cool off, write down your feelings, or talk to a friend. 17．.
Obey their requests. It will make your attitude better and earn you more respect from them. It may seem like you are going through hell when you don't get what you want or you have to clean. However, you had better remember they keep a roof over your head when it's cold, raining, snowing, or too hot. Understand that parents are human beings and make mistakes. 18． Since you can forgive your friends, why not forgive your parents
Keep company with them. Do things with your parents like watching TV, or go somewhere with them. 19． Listen to their old stories and learn from them. You will find they are your teachers in this way or another.
Some people simply may not be able to love their parents. 20． Seek help if you are being abused in any way. Parents do not have a right to harm you.
A．Parents will in turn express their love to you.
B．Forgiveness is the key.
C．Here are some ways to love your parents.
D．There can be realistic reasons for this, family violence for example.
E.Anyway, spend as much time with them as you can.
F.After this, share your feelings with your parents.
G.Please remember parents are as important as friends.
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（2021·江苏淮安·模拟预测） Of all the people to pick from as heroes in a survey, most people cite their mother as their number one hero.
21． They are masters at helping their children meet the full range of human needs. A good mother feeds you, protects you, helps you connect with others and encourages you to become your best self. Here’s how moms do it.
Mothers defend and protect
It is common to see headlines about mothers saving and protecting their children in the most harrowing circumstances. Fischer, a student researcher, found that mothers are “biologically driven to protect and care for their children.”22．No wonder our mothers will risk it all to protect us when we are so small and fragile.
Mothers provide intelligence and wisdom
Scientists are beginning to uncover evidence suggesting that intelligence is inherited more from mothers than from fathers. Beyond this genetic inheritance, mothers tend to be committed to passing on wisdom to their children. Famed musician Stevie Wonder has reportedly called his mother his “greatest teacher.”23．
Mothers enhance and inspire
The respondents (调查对象) to the hero surveys never fail to mention how their mothers made them better people. The typical response includes, “My mother inspired me to become my best self”. 24．She encourages her kids to maximize their fullest potential.
Mothers come out on top in the poll of heroes because of their free offering of love that they provide.25．They comfort you when you cry. They kiss you on your cheeks before school and at bedtime at night.
A．Mothers try to set good examples.
B．Mothers are indeed the mother of all heroes.
C．Mothers are always there when you need emotional support.
D．Human infants are the most vulnerable (易受伤害的) creatures.
E.Mothers serve as consultants when their children need guidance.
F.A good mother cares for her children and wants what’s best for them.
G.Many people reserve a special place in their hearts for their heroic mothers.
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（2021·河北·石家庄二中模拟预测）Talking with Your Parents
Learning to deal with your parents as a young adult is a tough task. Sometimes, parents struggle to admit you have grown up and can care for yourself. Other times, they may simply have thought otherwise. No doubt, communication is the best way to solve the conflict. Here are some tips on that.
26．
Choose a time when your parents can sit down and talk with you without being distracted. Try to talk with your parents alone at first. If you live away from home, call and ask what time would work the best for them. 27．
Be straightforward and honest.
You are only as good as your words, so don't lie. Simply recount the events from your list and include your emotional reactions. If it is easier, you may ask your parents to remain silent until you finish with an initial 'list' of concerns. 28．They can make you a bitter, angry person. Listen and ask questions.
When your parents get a chance to talk, respect them and listen carefully. This is your opportunity to try to understand where they are coming from. There is a possibility that the same event was viewed in two different ways. 29．It may be helpful to write down any questions as they are talking.
Ask for advice.
Keep parts of the conversation positive by telling your parents about your goals for the future. Discuss your financial, romantic, or work plans and ask for their advice 30．
A．Pick a good setting.
B．Choose a suitable time.
C．Wait until they are finished and ask some questions.
D．It's not healthy to hold thoughts and feelings inside.
E.It's best to avoid a public place for a conversation of this type.
F.You can also ask your parents for money to show respect for them.
G.This lets them know that you value their opinion and will request it.
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（2021·全国·二模） Tips to Help You Cope With Your Adult Child's Addiction
Watching your loved one go through an alcohol or drug addiction is an extremely upsetting and scary situation. 31． Here are tips to help you cope with your adult child's addiction.
32．
You cannot really help someone with addiction until you know everything about what their addiction and treatment involve. This includes knowing all of the possible withdrawal symptoms during an alcohol or drug detox, signs of an overdose, and all of the treatment options available.
Have a Respectful Conversation With Your Child.
The next step is to start an open and respectful conversation with your adult child about their addiction. 33．This way your child will feel more comfortable with being honest and expressing their feelings.
Remind Them You Love Them
34． Expressing how much you care about your child's happiness and well being will help to show them that they do have a support system that is willing to help them through addiction treatment once they decide to follow through with it.
Remember That it is Not Your Fault
Throughout this entire situation, it is crucial to remember that your child's addiction problem is not your fault. You can do this by recognizing that your child's addiction doesn't necessarily have anything to do with you or your parenting. 35．
A．Do Your Homework on Addiction
B．Provide Your Child With the Tools They Need to Get Help
C．Nowadays, many children are tired of lessons at school.
D．This is especially true if this loved one is your adult child.
E.It will better allow you to focus on helping your child seek addiction treatment.
F.It is important to create an environment that is trusting and non-judgmental.
G.It is extremely important to remind your adult you love them all the time about their situation.
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（2021·黑龙江·哈九中三模） When Liz Dixon-Spain got married in 1976, there was only one place where she wanted to hold celebrations. That was her parents' garden with the beautiful beech tree overlooking the festivities.36．The perfect ceremony left a lasting impression on her.
37． Her two sisters also celebrated their weddings next to the tree. The beech has been a constant presence in her family's lives. It has been part of all of her family memories because they all happened around the tree.
When she was a child, Liz often played around the tree and enjoyed watching it come to life as a “home to generations of wildlife”. After her husband passed away, she moved back to her childhood home, where she has been living ever since. She used to open up the garden to the public as part of the national garden scheme.38．“Looking at it from inside the house is fantastic, but to stand right underneath feels extraordinary,” said one visitors.
Liz has four grown-up sons, who spent their childhood playing on the grass in front of the tree. 39． However, they often come here to meet up. The tree helps bring them together.
One of her grandchildren, Frank, 10, lives in Hackeny, East London, but visits Liz often.40． One of them begins: “Through the pebble filled driveway, through the old wooden gate, lay a paradise for nature.”
A．Her children and eight grandchildren live across the UK, in London, Scotland, Southport and Stamford.
B．The bech tree inspired him to write poems.
C．Liz is happy that everything is coming full circle.
D．Visitors were impressed when they caught sight of the tree.
E.The tree has also become a major part of her children's lives.
F.She planted various flowers around it just for the special occasion.
G.Holding wedding receptions in the garden has become her family tradition.
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（2012·辽宁·高考真题） Friendship is a very important human relationship and everyone needs good friends. Good friendship has many benefits. It offers companionship, improves self-worth and promotes good health. There are times in our lives such as when we have recently moved into a new town, or changed our jobs or schools. Such changes often leave us without a friend1．But for many of us the process is difficult and requires courage. Below are some helpful suggestions on how to make and keep friends.
1.Associate with others.
The first step to making friends is associating with other people. You can go to public places to meet new people. Besides, you will need to make yourself known by becoming an active member of such places.
2.Start a conversation
Starting a conversation is the second most important step in making new friends.2．You can always start the conversation. Being able to make small talk is a very useful skill in relating with other people.
3.3．
Choosing friends with common interests is important in building friendship as these interests would always bring you and your friend together. Hanging out will always be a pleasant experience.
4. Let it grow.
It is a good thing to stay in touch. However, try not to press your new friend with calls, messages or visits as this would likely wear him or her out and finally you may lose your friend.4．.The best friendships are the ones that grow naturally.
5. Enjoy your friendship
The best way to enjoy your friendship is to allow your friends to be themselves.5．.Try not to change them from who they are to what you want them to be. Become the kind of friend you will want your friend to be to you.
A．Be cheerful.
B．Do things together.
C．Do not wait to be spoken to.
D．Try not to find fault with your friends.
E.Making new friends comes easy for some people.
F.For a friendship to develop you need to stay in touch.
G.So you will need to give your friend time to react to you.
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（2021·湖北·三模） When I was teaching, we talked a lot about high vs. low-stakes (风险) writing. Recently, I’ve been thinking about friendships the same way—high and low-stakes friendships. Since the stakes might be different for men and women, will limit this discussion to women’s friendships with men and women. 6．
Friendships are high stakes when they are intimate (亲密的). 7． We also depend on the other person for support in difficult times; advice in times of conflict, and sympathy in times of regret. We feel “known” by them. The loss of a high-stakes friend is painful: it has a noticeable impact on our lives.
Low-stakes friendships, on the other hand, are more casual and limited emotionally. We may play bridge or tennis together; go out for dinner with our partners. 8． We don’t share any feelings or experiences that would make us feel emotionally fragile and we do not talk about feelings toward each other. The loss of a low-stakes friend may be regrettable, but it does not leave any mark in our lives.
According to Professor Harry Stack Sullivan, the first high-stakes friendship is typically formed in pre-adolescence with friend of the same sex, a “chum” (密友). Chumship is a relationship in which the other person’s interest and security become as important as one’s own.
9． The preadolescent who successfully enters a chumship finds someone with whom she can share her innermost thoughts and feelings. To her chum, she can reveal what she feels to be the most terrible things about herself in an atmosphere of acceptance. Successful chumships offer an opportunity to work through disagreements and learn to compromise. 10．
A．But we do not feel “known”.
B．What do I mean by high and low-stakes friendships
C．The formation of chumship is crucial to personality growth.
D．It is a developmental stage that lays the groundwork for later relationships.
E.We share feelings about important aspects of our lives and about each other.
F.An end to the friendship would have a dramatic impact on our sense of well-being.
G.Chumships occur during preadolescence (10-12), but they can continue much longer than that.
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（2021·浙江诸暨·二模） An American study of 10,000 students found that if you make more friends than the average person at school, you’ll receive a higher salary in later life. People need good social skills at work to work in a team successfully. 11．
On average, teenagers aged between 15 and 17 have 500 “friends” on their favorite social networking sites. Adults have 130. So if you believe this research, you might be very rich.
12． Dunbar, a professor from the University of Oxford, studied the number of messages between users of a popular social networking website, each of whom had between 200 and 2,000 friends. He found that they always communicate with a maximum of 150 people.
Among these 150, around 5 people are close friends. 13． They are probably old friends and you share all your good and bad experiences with them. Then there are 10 more friends. Although they’re close to you, you may not keep in touch with them every week. Next there are 35 people who you might spend time with because of a shared interest. 14． You see or speak to these people at least once a year, but you don’t know them well. Beyond this number, Dunbar says, it’s impossible to make any relationship meaningful.
If you have a lot of online “friends”, try this experiment: First take away anyone you haven’t been in touch with for a year. Then remove those you cannot remember and, finally, take away friends who you wouldn’t mind losing touch with. How many have you left How many of these people are actually good friends 15．
A．You are not close to them.
B．And finally, there’s a large group of 100.
C．You’ve most likely known them for long.
D．However, it probably won’t make any difference.
E.These are the same skills we use to make friends at school.
F.They’ve found that having good friends can help you live longer.
G.According to the research, these are the only people that really matter.
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（2021·河北·一模） Here’s the bad news:Men are hurting, and, according to many researchers, masculinity (男子气) is what is hurting them and making it hard for them to maintain friendships. Society tells men to hide their feelings and expects them to be aggressive, so many men lose their friendship when growing up. The good news is that some skills can be recovered!16．
Accept your own desire and normalize it for the people in your life. Way, an expert, recommends seeking for articles about masculinity and friendship and poring over them. Don’t forget you have the entire Internet at your fingertips, friend!17．
Model vulnerability (脆弱).18．like “I’m afraid nobody will go to my party,” or “I miss my grandma every day.” Doing so will make it OK for other people to follow your lead. We are all on the elevator to a society where emotional availability is normalized, and I want you to be the man in the street.
19．Men sometimes feel they might be prying (爱打听的) if they ask more about some- one’s life-especially when their friend is sharing something tough. But if you get curious in moments of your friend’s vulnerability, you will open the door to all kinds of growth in your relationship. Take the opportunity to really see your friend and show them they matter by following up.
Get close with the children in your life. Way’s research says that the No.1 thing that helps men with masculinity grow up to own enriching friendships is to be close with children who are not afraid to express emotions.20．take the opportunity to be close to them and help them grow up to be good friends, too.
A．Ask more questions.
B．Get curious.
C．Say the thing that scares you,
D．There are a lot of experts who can help, and here’s what they recommend.
E.In order to show your strengths,
F.In this way you can start a normal conversation with your friends.
G.So, if you’re a parent, or working on something to do with children.
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（2021·浙江·一模） There are many friends that will come into your life -- some will gradually lose touch, some will be getting closer, and some you will actively choose not to be friends with. 21． But your old friends seem to stick around, and no matter how near or far they are, they continue to be a part of your life.
From old friends we learn how much we grow. 22． They encourage us to do better and even they force us to do better. We know that if we’re happy with who we’ve become, they may play a role in that process.
The sense of freedom that comes with old friends is new friends failing to bring. You don’t need to make a good impression with people who know you well.
23． The youth is often filled with many playful moments and careless choices. There is a vivid recollection of difficult periods that you have been through.
With old friends, you realize true friendships are difficult to create, to cultivate, and to hold onto. 24．
Old friends hold a mirror in front of us and allow us to see how far we’ve gone, and how far we still have to go to achieve our goals. 25． Old friends remind us that the past is both good and bad, and that the future is something to look forward to. No matter how time goes by, when we’re with our old friends, we will feel at home ---- where we can be stupid and happy with people who love us.
A．When you’re a child, making friends does not require too much effort.
B．With old friends there is often great laughter when you share your past.
C．They are the people who have similar experience and simple innocence.
D．This fact not only exists in our schooldays, but also will continue to the years to come.
E.Old friends show us all the parts that we still need to change, even if some of the parts we may never change.
F.They’re the people who’ve usually witnessed everything from our major accomplishments to our small mistakes.
G.The profound gratitude that you have for having a friend long enough to call them an “old friend” feels wonderful.
专题13.答案
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16．C
17．F
18．B
19．E
20．D
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21．B
22．D
23．E
24．F
25．C
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26．B
27．E
28．D
29．C
30．G
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31．D
32．A
33．F
34．G
35．E
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36．F
37．G
38．D
39．A
40．B
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1．E
2．C
3．B
4．G
5．D
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6．B
7．E
8．A
9．C
10．D
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11．E
12．D
13．C
14．B
15．G
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16．D
17．F
18．C
19．A
20．G
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21．D
22．F
23．B
24．G
25．E
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高中英语名校精选阅读七选五专项训练
专题13.（10套精选含答案）
七选五专练121
（2018·四川省绵阳南山中学一模）How to Love Your Parents
Even if you think that your parents are mean-spirited at times , loving your parents is a normal and fulfilling part of life. You love them for the fact that they created you, raised you, and are in part, a source of who you are. 16．.
A gentle “good morning” and “I love you” will warm a coldest heart. Remember that they brought you into this world. Without your parents, we might still wander at an unknown corner in an unknown world.
Respect them more and cherish these moments. You can use these moments to learn from them when you're off on your own. It's OK to get angry but angry actions don't help you or your parents. Act calmly, cool off, write down your feelings, or talk to a friend. 17．.
Obey their requests. It will make your attitude better and earn you more respect from them. It may seem like you are going through hell when you don't get what you want or you have to clean. However, you had better remember they keep a roof over your head when it's cold, raining, snowing, or too hot. Understand that parents are human beings and make mistakes. 18． Since you can forgive your friends, why not forgive your parents
Keep company with them. Do things with your parents like watching TV, or go somewhere with them. 19． Listen to their old stories and learn from them. You will find they are your teachers in this way or another.
Some people simply may not be able to love their parents. 20． Seek help if you are being abused in any way. Parents do not have a right to harm you.
A．Parents will in turn express their love to you.
B．Forgiveness is the key.
C．Here are some ways to love your parents.
D．There can be realistic reasons for this, family violence for example.
E.Anyway, spend as much time with them as you can.
F.After this, share your feelings with your parents.
G.Please remember parents are as important as friends.
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（2021·江苏淮安·模拟预测） Of all the people to pick from as heroes in a survey, most people cite their mother as their number one hero.
21． They are masters at helping their children meet the full range of human needs. A good mother feeds you, protects you, helps you connect with others and encourages you to become your best self. Here’s how moms do it.
Mothers defend and protect
It is common to see headlines about mothers saving and protecting their children in the most harrowing circumstances. Fischer, a student researcher, found that mothers are “biologically driven to protect and care for their children.”22．No wonder our mothers will risk it all to protect us when we are so small and fragile.
Mothers provide intelligence and wisdom
Scientists are beginning to uncover evidence suggesting that intelligence is inherited more from mothers than from fathers. Beyond this genetic inheritance, mothers tend to be committed to passing on wisdom to their children. Famed musician Stevie Wonder has reportedly called his mother his “greatest teacher.”23．
Mothers enhance and inspire
The respondents (调查对象) to the hero surveys never fail to mention how their mothers made them better people. The typical response includes, “My mother inspired me to become my best self”. 24．She encourages her kids to maximize their fullest potential.
Mothers come out on top in the poll of heroes because of their free offering of love that they provide.25．They comfort you when you cry. They kiss you on your cheeks before school and at bedtime at night.
A．Mothers try to set good examples.
B．Mothers are indeed the mother of all heroes.
C．Mothers are always there when you need emotional support.
D．Human infants are the most vulnerable (易受伤害的) creatures.
E.Mothers serve as consultants when their children need guidance.
F.A good mother cares for her children and wants what’s best for them.
G.Many people reserve a special place in their hearts for their heroic mothers.
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（2021·河北·石家庄二中模拟预测）Talking with Your Parents
Learning to deal with your parents as a young adult is a tough task. Sometimes, parents struggle to admit you have grown up and can care for yourself. Other times, they may simply have thought otherwise. No doubt, communication is the best way to solve the conflict. Here are some tips on that.
26．
Choose a time when your parents can sit down and talk with you without being distracted. Try to talk with your parents alone at first. If you live away from home, call and ask what time would work the best for them. 27．
Be straightforward and honest.
You are only as good as your words, so don't lie. Simply recount the events from your list and include your emotional reactions. If it is easier, you may ask your parents to remain silent until you finish with an initial 'list' of concerns. 28．They can make you a bitter, angry person. Listen and ask questions.
When your parents get a chance to talk, respect them and listen carefully. This is your opportunity to try to understand where they are coming from. There is a possibility that the same event was viewed in two different ways. 29．It may be helpful to write down any questions as they are talking.
Ask for advice.
Keep parts of the conversation positive by telling your parents about your goals for the future. Discuss your financial, romantic, or work plans and ask for their advice 30．
A．Pick a good setting.
B．Choose a suitable time.
C．Wait until they are finished and ask some questions.
D．It's not healthy to hold thoughts and feelings inside.
E.It's best to avoid a public place for a conversation of this type.
F.You can also ask your parents for money to show respect for them.
G.This lets them know that you value their opinion and will request it.
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（2021·全国·二模） Tips to Help You Cope With Your Adult Child's Addiction
Watching your loved one go through an alcohol or drug addiction is an extremely upsetting and scary situation. 31． Here are tips to help you cope with your adult child's addiction.
32．
You cannot really help someone with addiction until you know everything about what their addiction and treatment involve. This includes knowing all of the possible withdrawal symptoms during an alcohol or drug detox, signs of an overdose, and all of the treatment options available.
Have a Respectful Conversation With Your Child.
The next step is to start an open and respectful conversation with your adult child about their addiction. 33．This way your child will feel more comfortable with being honest and expressing their feelings.
Remind Them You Love Them
34． Expressing how much you care about your child's happiness and well being will help to show them that they do have a support system that is willing to help them through addiction treatment once they decide to follow through with it.
Remember That it is Not Your Fault
Throughout this entire situation, it is crucial to remember that your child's addiction problem is not your fault. You can do this by recognizing that your child's addiction doesn't necessarily have anything to do with you or your parenting. 35．
A．Do Your Homework on Addiction
B．Provide Your Child With the Tools They Need to Get Help
C．Nowadays, many children are tired of lessons at school.
D．This is especially true if this loved one is your adult child.
E.It will better allow you to focus on helping your child seek addiction treatment.
F.It is important to create an environment that is trusting and non-judgmental.
G.It is extremely important to remind your adult you love them all the time about their situation.
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（2021·黑龙江·哈九中三模） When Liz Dixon-Spain got married in 1976, there was only one place where she wanted to hold celebrations. That was her parents' garden with the beautiful beech tree overlooking the festivities.36．The perfect ceremony left a lasting impression on her.
37． Her two sisters also celebrated their weddings next to the tree. The beech has been a constant presence in her family's lives. It has been part of all of her family memories because they all happened around the tree.
When she was a child, Liz often played around the tree and enjoyed watching it come to life as a “home to generations of wildlife”. After her husband passed away, she moved back to her childhood home, where she has been living ever since. She used to open up the garden to the public as part of the national garden scheme.38．“Looking at it from inside the house is fantastic, but to stand right underneath feels extraordinary,” said one visitors.
Liz has four grown-up sons, who spent their childhood playing on the grass in front of the tree. 39． However, they often come here to meet up. The tree helps bring them together.
One of her grandchildren, Frank, 10, lives in Hackeny, East London, but visits Liz often.40． One of them begins: “Through the pebble filled driveway, through the old wooden gate, lay a paradise for nature.”
A．Her children and eight grandchildren live across the UK, in London, Scotland, Southport and Stamford.
B．The bech tree inspired him to write poems.
C．Liz is happy that everything is coming full circle.
D．Visitors were impressed when they caught sight of the tree.
E.The tree has also become a major part of her children's lives.
F.She planted various flowers around it just for the special occasion.
G.Holding wedding receptions in the garden has become her family tradition.
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Passage 1
（2012·辽宁·高考真题） Friendship is a very important human relationship and everyone needs good friends. Good friendship has many benefits. It offers companionship, improves self-worth and promotes good health. There are times in our lives such as when we have recently moved into a new town, or changed our jobs or schools. Such changes often leave us without a friend1．But for many of us the process is difficult and requires courage. Below are some helpful suggestions on how to make and keep friends.
1.Associate with others.
The first step to making friends is associating with other people. You can go to public places to meet new people. Besides, you will need to make yourself known by becoming an active member of such places.
2.Start a conversation
Starting a conversation is the second most important step in making new friends.2．You can always start the conversation. Being able to make small talk is a very useful skill in relating with other people.
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Choosing friends with common interests is important in building friendship as these interests would always bring you and your friend together. Hanging out will always be a pleasant experience.
4. Let it grow.
It is a good thing to stay in touch. However, try not to press your new friend with calls, messages or visits as this would likely wear him or her out and finally you may lose your friend.4．.The best friendships are the ones that grow naturally.
5. Enjoy your friendship
The best way to enjoy your friendship is to allow your friends to be themselves.5．.Try not to change them from who they are to what you want them to be. Become the kind of friend you will want your friend to be to you.
A．Be cheerful.
B．Do things together.
C．Do not wait to be spoken to.
D．Try not to find fault with your friends.
E.Making new friends comes easy for some people.
F.For a friendship to develop you need to stay in touch.
G.So you will need to give your friend time to react to you.
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（2021·湖北·三模） When I was teaching, we talked a lot about high vs. low-stakes (风险) writing. Recently, I’ve been thinking about friendships the same way—high and low-stakes friendships. Since the stakes might be different for men and women, will limit this discussion to women’s friendships with men and women. 6．
Friendships are high stakes when they are intimate (亲密的). 7． We also depend on the other person for support in difficult times; advice in times of conflict, and sympathy in times of regret. We feel “known” by them. The loss of a high-stakes friend is painful: it has a noticeable impact on our lives.
Low-stakes friendships, on the other hand, are more casual and limited emotionally. We may play bridge or tennis together; go out for dinner with our partners. 8． We don’t share any feelings or experiences that would make us feel emotionally fragile and we do not talk about feelings toward each other. The loss of a low-stakes friend may be regrettable, but it does not leave any mark in our lives.
According to Professor Harry Stack Sullivan, the first high-stakes friendship is typically formed in pre-adolescence with friend of the same sex, a “chum” (密友). Chumship is a relationship in which the other person’s interest and security become as important as one’s own.
9． The preadolescent who successfully enters a chumship finds someone with whom she can share her innermost thoughts and feelings. To her chum, she can reveal what she feels to be the most terrible things about herself in an atmosphere of acceptance. Successful chumships offer an opportunity to work through disagreements and learn to compromise. 10．
A．But we do not feel “known”.
B．What do I mean by high and low-stakes friendships
C．The formation of chumship is crucial to personality growth.
D．It is a developmental stage that lays the groundwork for later relationships.
E.We share feelings about important aspects of our lives and about each other.
F.An end to the friendship would have a dramatic impact on our sense of well-being.
G.Chumships occur during preadolescence (10-12), but they can continue much longer than that.
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（2021·浙江诸暨·二模） An American study of 10,000 students found that if you make more friends than the average person at school, you’ll receive a higher salary in later life. People need good social skills at work to work in a team successfully. 11．
On average, teenagers aged between 15 and 17 have 500 “friends” on their favorite social networking sites. Adults have 130. So if you believe this research, you might be very rich.
12． Dunbar, a professor from the University of Oxford, studied the number of messages between users of a popular social networking website, each of whom had between 200 and 2,000 friends. He found that they always communicate with a maximum of 150 people.
Among these 150, around 5 people are close friends. 13． They are probably old friends and you share all your good and bad experiences with them. Then there are 10 more friends. Although they’re close to you, you may not keep in touch with them every week. Next there are 35 people who you might spend time with because of a shared interest. 14． You see or speak to these people at least once a year, but you don’t know them well. Beyond this number, Dunbar says, it’s impossible to make any relationship meaningful.
If you have a lot of online “friends”, try this experiment: First take away anyone you haven’t been in touch with for a year. Then remove those you cannot remember and, finally, take away friends who you wouldn’t mind losing touch with. How many have you left How many of these people are actually good friends 15．
A．You are not close to them.
B．And finally, there’s a large group of 100.
C．You’ve most likely known them for long.
D．However, it probably won’t make any difference.
E.These are the same skills we use to make friends at school.
F.They’ve found that having good friends can help you live longer.
G.According to the research, these are the only people that really matter.
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（2021·河北·一模） Here’s the bad news:Men are hurting, and, according to many researchers, masculinity (男子气) is what is hurting them and making it hard for them to maintain friendships. Society tells men to hide their feelings and expects them to be aggressive, so many men lose their friendship when growing up. The good news is that some skills can be recovered!16．
Accept your own desire and normalize it for the people in your life. Way, an expert, recommends seeking for articles about masculinity and friendship and poring over them. Don’t forget you have the entire Internet at your fingertips, friend!17．
Model vulnerability (脆弱).18．like “I’m afraid nobody will go to my party,” or “I miss my grandma every day.” Doing so will make it OK for other people to follow your lead. We are all on the elevator to a society where emotional availability is normalized, and I want you to be the man in the street.
19．Men sometimes feel they might be prying (爱打听的) if they ask more about some- one’s life-especially when their friend is sharing something tough. But if you get curious in moments of your friend’s vulnerability, you will open the door to all kinds of growth in your relationship. Take the opportunity to really see your friend and show them they matter by following up.
Get close with the children in your life. Way’s research says that the No.1 thing that helps men with masculinity grow up to own enriching friendships is to be close with children who are not afraid to express emotions.20．take the opportunity to be close to them and help them grow up to be good friends, too.
A．Ask more questions.
B．Get curious.
C．Say the thing that scares you,
D．There are a lot of experts who can help, and here’s what they recommend.
E.In order to show your strengths,
F.In this way you can start a normal conversation with your friends.
G.So, if you’re a parent, or working on something to do with children.
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（2021·浙江·一模） There are many friends that will come into your life -- some will gradually lose touch, some will be getting closer, and some you will actively choose not to be friends with. 21． But your old friends seem to stick around, and no matter how near or far they are, they continue to be a part of your life.
From old friends we learn how much we grow. 22． They encourage us to do better and even they force us to do better. We know that if we’re happy with who we’ve become, they may play a role in that process.
The sense of freedom that comes with old friends is new friends failing to bring. You don’t need to make a good impression with people who know you well.
23． The youth is often filled with many playful moments and careless choices. There is a vivid recollection of difficult periods that you have been through.
With old friends, you realize true friendships are difficult to create, to cultivate, and to hold onto. 24．
Old friends hold a mirror in front of us and allow us to see how far we’ve gone, and how far we still have to go to achieve our goals. 25． Old friends remind us that the past is both good and bad, and that the future is something to look forward to. No matter how time goes by, when we’re with our old friends, we will feel at home ---- where we can be stupid and happy with people who love us.
A．When you’re a child, making friends does not require too much effort.
B．With old friends there is often great laughter when you share your past.
C．They are the people who have similar experience and simple innocence.
D．This fact not only exists in our schooldays, but also will continue to the years to come.
E.Old friends show us all the parts that we still need to change, even if some of the parts we may never change.
F.They’re the people who’ve usually witnessed everything from our major accomplishments to our small mistakes.
G.The profound gratitude that you have for having a friend long enough to call them an “old friend” feels wonderful.
专题13.答案
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16．C
17．F
18．B
19．E
20．D
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21．B
22．D
23．E
24．F
25．C
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26．B
27．E
28．D
29．C
30．G
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31．D
32．A
33．F
34．G
35．E
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36．F
37．G
38．D
39．A
40．B
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1．E
2．C
3．B
4．G
5．D
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6．B
7．E
8．A
9．C
10．D
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11．E
12．D
13．C
14．B
15．G
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16．D
17．F
18．C
19．A
20．G
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21．D
22．F
23．B
24．G
25．E
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