(共19张PPT)
Knowing me,
knowing you
What kind of person they might be
lonely
happy
angry
warming - up
socially-awkward
What kind of person they might be
warming - up
sociable
hospitable
careless
be good at making friends
be willing to share with people
be easy to make mistakes without enough attention
What problems may you face at school
bad performance in a subject
pressure to look good
conflict with classmates
difficulties fitting in with others
Group talking
Now think about who you turn to for help when you face a problem
friends
parents
teachers
online forums
no one - you prefer to keep things to yourself
keep it a secret
Fast reading : What are they talking about in the letter
Ben
Agony Aunt
ask.. for help
offer ..advice
Look at two pictures and the title, predict the relationship between two letters.
Be in a total mess
Who is Agony Aunt
An agony aunt is a person who writes a column in a newspaper or magazine in which they reply to readers who have written to them for advice on their personal problems.
Ben said something bad about his best friend, and Agony Aunt told him to apologize to his friend.
Ben was angry that his team was let down by some members, and Agony Aunt told him to take it easy.
Ben didn’t play well in the match, and Agony Aunt advised him to apologize to his teammate.
Ben was in an awkward situation, and Agony Aunt gave him suggestions as to how to deal with his problems.
Read two letters quickly and Choose the best summary of the letters.
Complete the sentences with expressions from the passage.
Ben’s problems
I was disappointed with my teammate because I felt 1. ______________________by him.
I told my best friend that my teammate was to blame, just 2. ________________.
the team were let down
to let off steam
My best friend 3._________________________________. I don’t know what to do.
went and told everyone else what I’d said
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_______________
______________
________________
Read Ben’s letter carefully. Find out the adjectives(形容词) describing Ben’s feelings and the reasons why he felt so.
mad
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_______________
______________
________________
Read Ben’s letter carefully. Find out the adjectives describing Ben’s feelings and the reasons why he felt so.
mad
disappointed
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_______________
______________
________________
Read Ben’s letter carefully. Find out the adjectives describing Ben’s feelings and the reasons why he felt so.
mad
disappointed
angry
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_______________
______________
________________
Read Ben’s letter carefully. Find out the adjectives describing Ben’s feelings and the reasons why he felt so.
mad
disappointed
angry
embarrassed
ashamed
写信目的(writing purpose):求助(ask for help)
清晰陈述请求帮助的具体内容
希望得到帮助。注意语气委婉、真诚,并要向收信人表示感谢
Aunt Agony’s suggestions
You should 4. __________________________. You need to work together, and that means 5.______________________________ and 6. __________________.
Tell your best friend you’re angry with him for 7.____________________ and 8.__________________________, but that you want to move on.
Don’t 9. _____________ when you’re angry. Always remember: 10. _______________________.
apologise to your teammate
communicating with each other clearly
resolving conflicts
repeating what you said
making the situation worse
say too much
think first, speak later
How
to
offer
advice
1.连接词:link words
2.How the problem can be solved.
3.Why actions should be taken like that.
4.How to specifically do that.
cloze
Ben is a member of his school basketball team. ______________(disappoint)
by their point guard's behavior, he said all to his best friend. However,
his best friend told everyone else ___________Ben had said. Therefore,
Ben was angry with his friend. At the same time, he was very embarrassed
and ashamed, _______ he didn't know what to do. So he asked Agony aunt
for advice.
In Agony Aunt's opinion, if a person speaks too much about something
especially to people who he/ she doesn't know so well, it ____________(cause)
all kinds trouble. Here is her advice _______Ben.
Disappointed
what
but
will cause
for
主将从现
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First, apologise to his teammate. If Ben want's to win any more
basketball games, he needs ___________(work) together.
Second,talk to his friend. Tell his friend he's angry with him for
________(repeat) what he said and making the situation _________(bad).
Third, think about his own behavior. Don't say too much when he
_______(get) angry. Take a deep breath, calm down and always remember
think first, speak _______(late). In a word, if he thinks about other people's
feelings as well as his own, he'll soon find everything works out.
to work
repeating
worse
gets
later
Think and share
What do you think about Agony Aunt’s advice What other advice would you give to Ben