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UNIT 11 CONFLICT AND COMPROMISE
LESSON 2 DEALING WITH CONFLICT
北师大版高中英语选择性必修第四册
Look at the different ways of dealing with conflict. Discuss with your partner which ways you would use to resolve conflict(√),and which you wouldn’t use(×).
Activity 1
□ to respond to anger with more anger
□ to negotiate with the other person
□ to do nothing or try to escape
□ to solve the problem yourself
□ to repeat what you said in a different way
□ to ask for help from somebody outside the situation
□ to explain clearly what you want
□ to put forward solutions
Listen to the programme and write down the questions the presenter collected for the professor in the left column of the table.
Activity 2
听力文本 (I=Interviewer D=Dr. Maguire)
I:Good afternoon. Today we’re going to talk about conflict,and how to deal with it. We have Dr. Maguire,from City University with us today. Good afternoon,Dr. Maguire.
D: Good afternoon.
I: Dr. Maguire,in our daily life,we may come across various conflicts. For example,neighbours complain of extremely loud music until very late at night and parents become really angry with their children for spending too much time online. In your opinion,what is the best way to deal with conflict
D: Well,there are three common ways. The first way is to respond to anger with more anger. This means you react more negatively and violently to a situation of conflict. This is the worst way of handling conflict,because the situation can get worse or even lead to violence. Unfortunately,it is one of the most common ways of reacting to conflict.
I: Mm,that’s true.
D: Another way,which doesn’t work very well,is doing nothing.
I: What do you mean
D: This is when the person says nothing and tries to escape or ignore the situation. They just hope that if they hold out for long enough,things will get better by and by. This does not solve any problem and the person who withdraws feels more and more angry with the other person. Holding your feelings inside can be very unhealthy.
I: Indeed. That’s very true.
D: Another possibility is to ask for help from somebody outside the situation.
I: What do you mean exactly
D: Well,this is when you call on somebody outside the situation,and they decide what should happen. This
can be useful,especially if the conflict is serious. However,people outside the situation may not know the
whole story. They are usually not in the position to make the right judgement. Without doubt,the best thing
to do is to try to negotiate with the other person.
I: Right. Thank you very much,Dr. Maguire. Let’s have a break and we’ll be back soon.
What are the three common ways What does each way mean Why isn’t it helpful
This means you more negatively and to a situation of . The situation can or even lead to .
The person says nothing and tries to the situation. This does not .
The person who withdraws feels
.
Holding your feelings inside can be .
You somebody outside the situation,and they
. However,people outside the situation
.
They are usually not in to make the right judgment.
To respond to anger with more anger
Doing nothing
To ask for help
from somebody outside the situation
react
violently
conflict
escape or ignore
call on
decide what should happen
get worse
violence
solve any problem
more and more angry with the other person
very unhealthy
may not know the whole s tory
the position
Listen again. Complete the rest of the information in Activity 2. Then,
share with your partner what you have learnt about the three common
ways to deal with conflict.
参考答案见“活动2”
Activity 3
Listen again. Answer the questions.
What are the two conflicts the interviewer mentions
What is the worst way of dealing with conflict according to Dr. Maguire
3 What is the best way recommended
Activity 4
Neighbours complain of extremely loud music until very late at night
and parents become really angry with their children for spending too
much time online.
Respond to anger with more anger.
Try to negotiate with the other person.
Read each situation and how the conflicts are resolved. Analyse their possible consequences. Give comments or recommendations on how to deal with each situation.
a Amy did not do well in her maths exam,and her mother was very angry with her as a result.
Amy argued that one exam would not mean total failure,but her mother did not agree. Amy’s
way to deal with the problem was refusing to talk to her mother for three days.
Activity 5
Not talking to her mother for three days would make both Amy and her mother feel very upset. It would be better if Amy and her mother went to the maths teacher and discuss Amy’s problems and find a solution.
b Bob accidentally stamped on a man’s foot on the bus. The man was very angry and swore at Bob.
Bob was angry,too. He yelled and swore back at the man.
c Daisy thought Cathy had reported her to the teacher,even though Cathy had not. Daisy was so
angry that she wouldn’t allow Cathy to tell her side of the story. Therefore,Cathy asked her
friend Fiona to talk to Daisy on her behalf.
This situation could have led on to a more serious argument and eventually get police involved in. The man could have complained and Bob could have said sorry right away.
Daisy’s stubborn behaviour could have ended her friendship with Cathy. Daisy should have been more open to Cathy’s side of the story.
Function
FOCUS ON FUNCTION:GIVING SUGGESTIONS
Listen to Dr. Maguire talking about what we should do to deal with conflict.
Complete his suggestions.
Activity 6
听力文本 (I=Interviewer D=Dr. Maguire)
(I= Interviewer D= Dr. Maguire)
I: Welcome back. Thank you for staying with us. Just now,Dr. Maguire suggested several things we should not do when dealing with conflict. So what should we do then,Dr. Maguire
D: To negotiate,first,you should not act as if you’re 100% right and they are 100% wrong. Next,you should try to explain clearly what you want. If the other person replies angrily,you shouldn’t respond in the same way. The best thing is to repeat what you said in a different way,and then try to find out what the other person wants,and why.
I:Mm,right. When I find out what the other person wants,what should I do
D: Then,you put forward solutions. It’s very important to make sure that everybody agrees. And if
you agree to do something,then make sure it comes about.
I:OK. Is there anything else we ought to do
D : Well,you should speak clearly and firmly ,but you should never shout. Also,be careful of
your body language. Try to relax,and it’s always better never to stand too close to the other
person.
I:Thank you,Dr. Maguire,for your very useful advice.
·First, .
·Next, .
·Then, .
·You should .
·Also, .
you should not act as if you’re 100% right and they are 100% wrong
you should try to explain clearly what you want
you put forward solutions
speak clearly and firmly,but you should never shout
be careful of your body language
Listen and plete the Talk Builder.
Activity 7
Giving Suggestions
1 You not act as if you’re 100% right and they are 100% wrong.
2 You try to explain clearly what you want.
3 You respond in the same way.
4 is to repeat what you said in a different way.
5 You speak clearly and firmly,but you shout.
6 relax,and never to stand too close to the other person.
Skill Builder
it’s always better
should not
should
the best thing
should never
try to
should
should
shouldn’t
The best thing
should
should never
Try to
it’s always better
Pair Work
Think about a conflict you have experienced. Share your experience in pairs and give each other suggestions.
Activity 8
Language points
核心词汇
教材原句p.34 to put forward solutions 提出解决方案
题组练·领悟方法
1 put forward 提出;将……提前;将钟拨快;推荐
He also put forward some suggestions for the experiment teaching on the forum.
在论坛上,他也对实验教学工作提出了一些建议。[词汇复现]
You’d better put your watch forward by ten minutes in order not to miss the bus to the clinic. 为了避免误了去诊所的公共汽车,你最好把表拨快十分钟。[词汇复现]
They have apologised for putting forward the date of their wedding by one week.
他们已经为把婚礼日期提前一周而道歉。[词汇复现]
【归纳拓展】
put aside 节省;储蓄;储存;留出;不理睬 put away 放好;积蓄
put down 记下;放下;镇压 put off 延期;推迟
put on 穿上;上演 put out 扑灭;生产
put up 举起;张贴;建立;提供食宿 put up with 容忍;忍受
put through 接通电话;完成;使经受
I can’t put up with their smoking in the stadium any longer.
我再也不能容忍他们在体育馆里吸烟了。[词汇复现]
Believing my novel could not leave the readers a deep impression, I put it aside. 我认为我的小说不能给读者留下深刻的印象,就把它放到了一边。[词汇复现]
用put 的相关短语的适当形式填空
The kitchen caught fire. Tom suggested that they should call firefighters to help (1) the fire. However,his mother,who (2) a show recently,said Tom’s plan may be (3) ,because they could handle the problem by themselves. Therefore,they
(4) their fire-protection suits,(5) a wet quilt and covered the fire. To their surprise, some firemen appeared at their house. A neighbour couldn’t (6) the heavy smoke and telephoned 119.
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(7)[词汇复现]I think he is fit for the position; therefore,I’ll (推荐他作为)a candidate resolutely.
(8) [词汇复现]Over the years several similar theories (被提出).
put out
had put on
put off
put on
put up
put up with
put him forward as
have been put forward
教材原句p.34 The situation can get worse or even lead to violence.
这种情况可能会变得更坏或者甚至导致暴力。
2 lead to 导致,引起;通往,通向(to 是介词)
Different methods can lead to various results. 不同的方法会产生各种各样的结果。
All roads lead to Rome.(谚)条条大路通罗马。
单句语法填空
(1) His actions could lead to him (lose)his job.
(2) We firmly believe that war never settles anything. It only leads violence.
(3)[词汇复现]As a consequence of her careless-ness,his mistake resulted the failure of the experiment.
(4) [词汇复现]The freezing road brought so many traffic accidents.
losing
to
in
about
教材原句p.34 The person who withdraws feels more and more angry with the other person.
退缩的那个人对另一个人感到越来越生气。
3 withdraw (withdrew,withdrawn)vt. 撤退;收回;撤销;停止提供;不再给予;(从银行)取钱;vi. 撤退;离开
The drug was withdrawn from sale after a number of people suffered serious side effects.
这药因许多人服后产生严重副作用而被停止销售。
Government troops were forced to withdraw. 政府部队被迫撤走了。
【词语积累】
withdrawal n. 收回;撤退;提款
You can make withdrawals of up to $250 a day.
你一天可以从银行账户中提取最多不超过250 美元。
单句语法填空
(1) If you experience any unusual symptoms after (withdraw)of the treatment, contact your doctor.
(2) His (withdraw)from the election attracted people’s great attention.
(3) Both powers withdrew their forces the region.
(4) The horse has been withdrawn the race.
withdrawal
from
withdrawal
from
教材原句p.35 You should speak clearly and firmly...你应该清晰坚定地说……
4 firmly adv.坚定地;坚决地;坚固地;稳固地
The household firmly carried out this plan made by themselves.
这个家庭坚定地执行了自己制订的这个计划。[词汇复现]
【词语积累】
firm n. 公司 adj. 坚固的;稳固的;强有力的;坚定的
firmness n. 坚固;坚实;坚定;坚决
The bound between him and the company is so firm.
他和那家公司之间的关系是如此紧密。[词汇复现]
The man who put forward the theory was a man of intelligence and of firmness of will.
提出这一理论的人是一个聪明且意志坚定的人。 [词汇复现]
【归纳拓展】
be firm about... ……的想法很坚定
stand firm against 坚定地反对……
He is firm about the correctness of his own theory.
他坚信自己的理论是正确的。[词汇复现]
He stood firm against carrying out the experiment about friction in the small room.
他坚决反对在这个小房间里进行有关摩擦力的实验。[词汇复现]
单句语法填空
(1)[词汇复现]He (firm)believed that better service should be provided by the canteen.
(2) [词汇复现]He got encouragement from the words:The secret of success lies in the
(firm)of purpose.
(3)[词汇复现]He is firm the function of the network.
(4) [词汇复现]We stand firm the intervention from abroad.
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(5)[词汇复现]After hearing his words,she looked at him in despair and left his office with
(坚定的步伐).
(6)[词汇复现]The person with (坚定的信念)dived into the river and saved the drowning child.
firmly
about
firmness
against
firm steps
firm faith
教材原句p.35 Daisy thought Cathy had reported her to the teacher,even though Cathy had not. 黛西认为凯茜已经向老师举报了她,尽管凯茜没有。
1 even though 引导的让步状语从句
even though(=even if)意为“虽然,即使”,引导让步状语从句。
Even though you lost the match eventually,you shouldn’t lose heart.
虽然你最后输了比赛,但也不该灰心。
【误区警示】
在含有 even though,even if 引导的让步状语从句的复合句中,如果主句用一般将来时,从句则用一般现在时表将来。
Even though it snows tomorrow,we will go on with the roadworks. 即使明天下雪,我们也要继续进行道路施工。
【比较】
as though(=as if)“好像,仿佛”,引导表语从句或方式状语从句。当说话人认为所说的情况是事实时,用陈述语气;当说话人认为所说的情况可能不是事实时,则用虚拟语气。
重点句式
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(1) ( 尽管)the forest park is far away,a lot of tourists visit it every year.
(2) Allow children the space to voice their opinions, ( 即使)they are different from your own.
(3) The foreigner talks about Chinese culture ( 好像)he were more familiar with it than his own.
单句语法填空
(4) I can remember our wedding as if it (be)yesterday.
Even though/if
even if/though
as if/though
were
教材原句p.35 Daisy was so angry that she wouldn’t allow Cathy to tell her side of the story.
黛西非常生气,她不让凯茜说出她的说法。
2 so...that...
so...that... 意为“如此……以至于……”,that 引导结果状语从句。
The conflict was so serious that it was hard to remove the disagreements between them.
冲突如此严重,很难消除他们之间的分歧。[词汇复现]
His handwriting is so random that it is difficult for the teacher to tell.
他的笔迹很随意,老师很难分辨。[词汇复现]
【归纳拓展】
(1)so...that... 句型的常见形式:
so + adj. /adv. + that...
so + adj. + a(n)+ n.(可数名词单数)+ that...
so + many/few + n.(可数名词复数)+ that...
so+ much/little(少)+n.(不可数名词)+ that...
(2)such...that... 也可表示“如此……以至于……”,基本结构:
such + a(n)+ adj. + n.(可数名词单数)+ that...
such + adj. + n.(不可数名词/ 可数名词复数)+ that...
He was so responsible a teacher that he left a deep impression on all of us.
→ He was such a responsible teacher that he left a deep impression on all of us.
他是一个如此负责任的老师,给我们所有人留下了深刻的印象。[词汇复现]
(3)当so.../such... 放在句首时,主句要用部分倒装。
We did so well that we were invited to share our idea and theory with all the students of our school.
=So well did we do that we were invited to share our idea and theory with all the students of our school.
我们做得很好,所以被邀请与我们学校的所有学生分享我们的想法和理论。[词汇复现]
一句两译
(1)[词汇复现]他是个如此好的男孩,以至于他们都想收养他。
A: that they all want to adopt him.
B: that they all want to adopt him.
(2)[词汇复现]结果,孩子们变得非常依赖他们的父母,没有独立的想法或创意。
A: As a consequence, that they have no independent thoughts or creative ideas.
B: As a consequence, that they have no independent thoughts or creative ideas.
(3)[词汇复现]那时,我非常喜欢篮球,经常整天打球。
A: At that time I loved basketball I frequently played all day long.
B: At that time did I love basket-ball I frequently played all day long.
(4)[词汇复现]现在郊区发展得如此之快,你完全想象不到它们明天会是什么样子。
A: The outskirts are developing you can never imagine what they will be like tomorrow.
B: the outskirts developing you can never imagine what they will be like tomorrow.
He is such a good boy
children become so reliant on their parents
so much that
Such a good boy is he
so reliant on their parents do children become
so much
that
so fast that
So fast are
that
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