(共49张PPT)
P1 Welcome to the unit
Unit 3
Getting along with others
Have a friendly relationship with other people
Enjoy a song
A friend is
— someone who understands our silence
— a watch that works right all the time and
never runs down
— the one who comes in when the whole
world has gone out
— a person who remains true and faithful
to us for the whole life
What is a friend
When it rains, I think friendship
is a small _____________. It can give
me a patch of clear sky.
When I’m crying, I think friendship is a white _____________. It can wipe my tears away.
handkerchief
umbrella
What does friendship mean to you
When I am sad, I think friendship is
a warm ___________. It can bring me happiness again.
When I am in trouble, I think friendship is a strong _____________.
It can help me escape my troubles.
word
hand
kind
honest
brave
helpful
generous
humorous
clever
hard-working
Qualities for
good friends
caring
thoughtful
respectful
What qualities should good friends have
Almost everyone wants to make good friends and maintain friendship with others.
Have you ever argued with your good friend(s) For what reason(s)
However, sometimes...
Having little in common (with each other)
Lacking trust
Being jealous(嫉妒的) of each other
Being indifferent(漠不关心的) to each other
Misunderstanding
Now watch a video and find out what their problems are.
Teenagers may have difficulty maintaining their friendships.
Watch and answer
What advice can you give these teenagers
P29
Henry's problem:
________________
Jane's problem:
________________
Bill's problem:
________________
Bill’s problem
We are at the ______ high school, but things have changed: We no longer share the same _________.
same
interests
comic
disagrees
Problems they face
Jane’s problem
We are at __________ high schools, and I ______ my best friend from junior high.
different
miss
share
often
Bill’s problem
Bill and his friend do not share the same interests now.
Jane’s problem
Jane misses her friend at junior high very much.
Harry’s problem
Problems they face
Harry’s problem
I _____ my new school. My teachers and fellow students are fantastic. I have every hope of ________ ________with the other boys. But, I dare not. I’m ________ they don’t like me, and that they would laugh at me.
love
making
friends
afraid
Problems they face
personality
interest
goal
care
respect
contact
values
trust
quality
What leads to friendship problems
Can you give some advice to these problems
How to maintain friendships in daily lives
Friendship will no longer last if there is no ______.
respect
Learn to respect.
How to maintain friendships in daily lives
Friends come and go in life. Not every friend deserves to be ___________________.
cherished/treasured
Learn to cherish
How to maintain friendships in daily lives
____ ___won’t help to fix a broken friendship.
Cold war
Have a face-to-face talk
Be open-minded.
Be frank.
Be a good listener.
What advice can you give the teenagers
Advice
Help
Understand
Communicate
Learn to listen
Care about each other
Disagree without hurting
Share happiness and sorrow
Support
Write a letter
P29 1
Tell lies
What friendship problems have you had Share your experience.
Discussion
Not keep a promise
Move away from a friend
Fight with a friend
Grow apart from a friend
P29 2
Have a jealous friend
As we all know, making friends can sometimes seem easy. The hard part is keeping the connections s_______ during the natural ups and downs that have an ______________ on all relationships. A true friendship is a treasure we should protect. Thus, we should consider friendship an honor and a precious g______, which is worth our e______ to treasure and nurture(培养).
trong
effect/influence
ift
ffort
Now enjoy a song – Friends by Twins. And try to complete the lyrics when you hear it.
Roses are red Violets are blue
Glad to know __________
A blink in our eyes o shake with our hands
That’s how we all _________
A smile in your face ________ the day
That’s what all Japanese say
A look in your eyes a touch __________
Happiness always arrives
When you’re ______ , I can help you __________
When you’re happy, __________ me
That’s what friends are for
La La La La La La
When you’re _______, tell me I can ___________
La La La La La La
When you’re ________, ____________me
Tell me that’s what friends are for
friends like you
make friends
lights up
in my mind
moody
get your troubles off
share it with
happy
share it with
moody
get your troubles off
A Friend...
Accepts you as you are
Believes in you
Calls you just to say ~Hi~
Doesn’t give up on you
Envisions the whole of you Forgives your mistakes
接受原本的你
相信你这个人
打电话给你说声Hi
从不放弃对你的信心
对你知根知底
原谅你的过错
Gives unconditionally
Helps you
Invites you over
Just be with you
Keeps you close at heart
Loves you for who you are
Makes differences
Never judges
Offers support
Picks you up
Quiets your fears
无条件的付出
帮助你
邀请你
和你在一起
靠近你的心
因你原来的样子而爱你
使你的生活与以往不同
从不审判你
支持你
扶你一把
止息你的恐惧
Raises your spirits
Says nice things
Tells you the truth
Understands you
Values you
Walks beside you
X-Plain (explain) what
you don’t understand
Yells when you won’t listen
Zaps you back to reality
鼓舞你的心灵
述说你好的那一面
当需要时会告诉你实情
懂你
看重你
与你同行
为你解开困惑
当你不理性时叫醒你
把你拉回现实
Self-evaluation
1. How do you understand “friendship”
2. Can you describe your experience about friendship problems you had
3. What advice can you give if someone has friendship problems
各个击破
Reading
Amy
Jenny
Two friends sit on a
friendship boat.
The boat of friendship
sank at once.
Lead-in
Please advise!
forum exchange
What could “on the rocks” possibly mean How can you tell that
The title indicates that the friendship may be in trouble/in danger because “Friendship” is torn apart and the latter half of the title is “please advise!”
Do vou think there are "friends for life" Why or why not
Would you turn to online communities for advice about maintaining friendships Why or why not
Before reading
Do vou think there are "friends for life" Why or why not
Yes,I do.I know some of my parents friends who have been friends with my parents since primary school and they are still the best of friends. They all grew up in the same neighbourhood and went to the same schools.Even if they do not see or talk to each other often now. They know each other so well and can rely on each other no matter what happens. I believe friends of this type will remain friends for life.
Sample Answer
Before reading
Would you turn to online communities for advice about maintaining friendships Why or why not
Yes, I would. Because I think there are many people of my age online that can give me advice.I feel shy to talk about my problems with myfriends or parents so online communities are a great way for me to express myself.When I chat to my online friends, l feel part of a community that comes from similar backgrounds and has had the same experiences. We can therefore share advice with each other without feeling embarrassed.
Sample Answer
Before reading
While reading
Read the forum exchange and complete the chart below.
Jenny chatted with another girl in a café.
No talking.
No explanation.
Save the friendship
and have a talk.
Let go of the friendship and accept the reality.
How did Amy view her friend before
Careful reading
Amy
Amy felt Jenny was a popular girl who was willing to make friends with her. So, Amy admired and trusted Jenny.
What does Cindy mean by "her behaviour" in line 20
Careful reading
Cindy
Amy’s friend said she was too ill to see the film with Amy but went to a cafe with another girl anyway.
In what case is it time to rethink a friendship, according to David
Careful reading
David
If one’s friend ignores their feelings or makes them suffer.
Futher reading
How did the story develop step by step
In the beginning, Amy and her best friend __________________________ last Saturday afternoon.
On last Saturday morning ,Amy's friend
______________________________________________
Later , Amy____________ her friend's health and cancelled(取消了) the appointment(约会).
On Monday Amy was told that her friend was seen_______________________________ on Saturday afternoon.
plan to see a film at cinema
posted message on social media saying she had a cold.
cared about
hanging out with someone else
Beginning
Rising action
Climax
Futher reading
before last Saturday
morning
last Saturday
afternoon
Monday
Monday evening
till now
feelings
happy
worried
shocked
angry
angry
heartbroken
confused
Futher reading
How have Amy's feelings changed
In pairs, discuss the following questions.
What are the similarities and differences between Cindy’s and David’s advice
This friendship is worth saving.
It’s time to rethink the relationship.
Have a talk with her friend.
Whose advice do you prefer Why
What helpful advice can you offer Amy
After reading
Whose advice do you prefer Why
What helpful advice can you offer Amy
I would take Cindy's advice. It will be a bit quick to say goodbye to an eight-year friendship with my best friend simply because of a misunderstanding. I am sure she would give me a reasonable explanation. After a heart-to-heart talk, I believe Amy and her friend will be what they were before.
1. on the rocks
2. be willing to do sth
3. hang out
4. out of one's sight
5. break one's heart
6. pick up the pieces
7. have a cold
(关系)陷于困境,濒临崩溃
愿意做某事
闲逛
脱离某人的视线
使某人很伤心
使恢复;补救;收拾残局
感冒
Key phrases
8. social media
9. make it
10. instead of
社交媒体
①能够出席; 设法到达
②获得成功 ③渡过难关
而不是
11. recover from
12. feel like doing
13. respond to
14. at a loss
从……回复到正常状态
想要做某事
对……回应/回答,作出反应
不知所措,困惑
15. be (well) worth doing
16. in the wrong
17. in any case
18. have a full and frank talk with sb
19. to be frank
20. let go of
21. come and go
(很)值得做
有错,应承担责任
无论如何,不管怎样
与某人进行详尽而又坦白的交谈
坦诚地说
放弃,摒弃;松手,放开
时来时去, 时有时无,换来换去
Homework
Write a reply to Amy's post, offering your advice and helping her out of trouble.