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Unit 3 Getting along with others
Integrated skills 2
Understand Patrick’s idea of qualities of a good friend
Write a diary entry about what makes a good friend
Good Qualities of Friendship
Necessary Friends are the people who come with us on every path of life to help, support us, and encourage us at hard times. Friendship is not limited in ages, social classes, and it is always necessary for life. Friendship is the foundation for us to build other relationships, and the friendship makes us grow up and become more “ourselves”.
n. 品德，素质，质量；特征
adj. 优质的，高质量的
Guess the qualities of a friendship according to the passage and the picture.
Guessing game
Selflessness(无私)
People who only care for their own interests and feelings cannot be a true friend. Friendship is a two-dimensional relationship, and its existence is based on giving and receiving; and there is no long lasting friendship which contains a just-giving person and a just-receiving one. Therefore, if you want to find a soul-mate(灵魂伴侣), you will need to remember and appreciate this quality.
adj. 肤浅的，没有深度的
v.欣赏；赏识；理解，领会；意识到
Loyalty(忠诚)
Two friends in a friendship have to be loyal to each other and they need to understand each other so that they will not suspect the other due to any reason and aspect. We do not highly appreciate those who are willing to believe in the gossip about their friends.
v. 怀疑，猜想，认为（某事有可能）
n. 流言蜚语，闲言碎语，传闻
Those who are easily influenced by the gossip could not become good friends. Therefore, loyalty is also one of the most important qualities of friendship that people should not forget.
v. 影响〔某人或某事〕，对…起作用
Trust(信任)
There must be the mutual trust between the two friends in a friendship so that these 2 people can feel safe to talk to each other about their own secrets. However, there are also those who cannot keep their stories and the stories of their friends in secret. Those who like gossiping with other people about their friends’s stories cannot build a lasting friendship with anyone else.
adj.相互的，彼此的
Sharing(分享)
Unlike our family, just good friends will help us share the joys of life without any obstacles, strain, or framework.
n. 障碍，阻碍，妨碍
n. 压力，焦虑，紧张
n. 框架，结构
Each of us needs to be supported to come forward. No one is perfect, and sometimes we feel sorry for what he has done or wish that things would be better. One of the most respectful things for us when we have good friends is that they always stay by our side no matter how we are.
Supportive(支持的，给予帮助和鼓励的)
Chances are, you and your good friend(s) are a good fit because you have several things in common. They are similar to us in terms of values, beliefs, and views about things that matter to us.
Similar interests(兴趣相似)
Because the personalities and opinions are similar, it gives them a sense of belonging, which satisfies the fundamental human need to feel connected to others — they feel united, togetherness, and a sense of belonging.”
n. 意见，看法；（群体的）观点，信仰
n. 个人所有物；亲密可靠的关系
adj.根本的; 基本的; 基础的
adj. 团结的，联合的，统一的:
n. 和睦团结; 亲密无间
A good friend listens to your hopes, fears, questions, dreams, foolishness, and more, not out of obligation.
It’s good to be silent and allow our friends to fill us with themselves, as they do with us.
Willing to Listen愿意倾听
n.〔道义或法律上的〕义务，职责，责任
A good friend has your back. If you’re tired, they take on your load. If you need help figuring something out, they’re your research partners.
Helpful(有帮助的)
v. 计算
Friendships would be impossible without forgiveness because everyone does something foolish or hurtful in the course of a relationship. Your friend understands that you didn’t mean to cause harm and that your apology is sincere.
Forgives your mistakes(原谅你的错误)
adj. 真诚的，诚实的
Friendship is like an extreme sport of soul-to-soul connectivity. They open their hearts, and bare their souls.
Open-hearted(心胸开阔的)
adj. 极大的，极度的
n. 连接
v. 敞开心扉，诉说衷肠
Good friends may not share every detail of every second of their life, but they do try to be clear about their intentions.
Good friends are going to let you know when they’re hurt by you, confused by you, see you being foolish, and
can tell when You’re hiding.
Honest(诚实的)
n. 意图，目的; 打算
v. 使困惑，把〔某人〕弄糊涂
Read the diary entry and choose the best answer.
1. Patrick’s diary entry is a record of his _______.
a. experiences b. thoughts c. feelings
d. plans e. expectations
A. a-b-c B. b-c-d C. c-d-b-e D. a-b-c-d
2. What problems does Tim have
A. Being unable to make his choices of friends.
B. Being unaware of how to learn efficiently.
C. Being unaware of how to spend his spare time.
D. Being unable to balance his project and his schoolwork.
3. How did Patrick get to know Tim’s problem
A. By word of mouth
B. Though their communication
C. Over the phone
D. By email
1. In my opinion, the following qualities form the basis of a friendship
在我看来，下列品质构成了友谊的基础。
opinion n. 意见，看法； （一群人的）意见，想法，主张
a thought or belief about something or someone; the thoughts or beliefs that a group of people have
in one’s opinion(=in one’s view)在某人看来
have a good/ bad/ high / low opinion of
对……评价好/ 差/高/低
give / express one’s opinion发表某人的意见
ask for one’s opinion询问某人的观点
one’s opinion about/ on/ of某人对……看法
搭配
2. I must respect and support the choices he makes.
我必须尊重和支持他的选择。
respect vt. 尊重，尊敬
to admire someone because they have high standards and good qualities such as fairness and honesty
respect n. 尊敬，敬意；重视
admiration felt or shown for someone or something that you believe has good ideas or qualities
【归纳】
respect
短语
respect sb. For sth.因某事而尊敬某人
give /send one’s respects to 代某人向……问候
in respect of sth. = with respect to sth.
关于；就……而言
have / show respect to sth.对……表示尊重
out of respect (for sb.)出于(对某人的)尊敬
同根词
respectful adj. 表示敬意的
a respectable teacher一值得尊敬的老师
be respectful of others尊敬他人
respectable adj. 值得尊敬的
【语境应用】翻译句子。
1) 我非常尊敬你的哥哥。
__________________________________________________________________________________________________
2) 在这方面，我们是很幸运的。 _________________________________________________
3) 露西一直对我很诚实, 我非常敬重她这一点。
__________________________________________________________________________________________________
I have the greatest respect for your brother. / I respect your brother very much.
In this respect, we are very fortunate.
Lucy had always been honest with me, and I respect her for that.
3. I should also encourage him to take action to get over these difficulties. 我也应该鼓励他采取行动克服这些困难。
get over 克服；恢复常态
e.g. It took him years to get over the shock of his wife dying.
【拓展】
get across 把……讲清楚，使理解
get along 进展，进行，相处
get away from 摆脱
get down to 开始认真（做某事）
get off 下车，动身
get into 上（车）；陷入
get out of 下（车）；摆脱
get over 克服，恢复
get rid of 除掉，摆脱
get through 通过; 到达; 完成; 接通电话
4. It’ll take up some of my spare time, but this friendship is worth my extra time and effort.
这会占用我一部分空闲时间，但是这段友谊值得我付出额外的时间和努力。
take up 接受; 拿起; 开始; 继续; 占据
e.g. Carl took up his pen and began to write at once.
When did you take up the job as a doctor, sir
We sold the old books that were taking up space in the office at a low price.
Rob took up the invitation to visit.
I’ll take up the story where you left off.
The dancers had taken up their places before the music began.
take away 减去; 拿走
take in 吸收; 包括; 领会; 欺骗
take down 拆除; 写下
take off 脱下; 起飞; 匆匆离开; 取消
take on 呈现; 雇用; 承担; 装载
take out 带……出去; 除掉; 毁掉
take over 接收; 接管
take turns 轮流
take
短语
take it easy 别紧张
take charge of 承担; 负责; 掌管
take part in 参加
take place 发生; 进行
take the place of 代替
take one’s time 从容进行; 慢慢来
take... into account/ consideration考虑……
take
短语
【语境应用】用take短语的适当形式填空。
1) Don’t _______ too much work – the extra cash isn’t worth it.
2) She doesn’t usually ___________ any of the class activities.
3) He __________ my address and phone number and said he’d phone back.
4) The little time I had outside of school ____________ with work.
take on
take part in
took down
was taken up
5. To me, a good friend brings out the best in a person.
对我来说，好朋友能激发出一个人最好的一面。
bring out使显现，使表现出
e.g. He is totally dedicated and brings out the best in
his pupils.
bring up 抚养，养育；呕吐；提出
bring in 引进；获利；赚钱
bring about引起；导致
bring down打垮；击败；减少；降低（价格、温度等）
bring an end to sth.使某事结束
bring on引起，使发生
bring to使苏醒
bring out使显出，出版
bring forth生产，产出
bring
短语
6. What qualities of a good friend do you mention in your writing 你在写作中提到好朋友的哪些品质？
quality n. 品德，素质；质量；特征
how good or bad something is；something that people may have as part of their character, for example courage or intelligence；something that is typical of one thing and makes it different from other things, for example size, colour etc
quality adj. 优质的，高质量的
very good – used especially by people who are trying to sell something
e.g. This is a quality product.
have leadership qualities具有领导素质
be of poor/ good / high quality质量次/好/ 上乘
water/ air quality水质/空气质量
quality of life生活质量
in quality质量上
a quality product优质产品
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In pairs, discuss what qualities are important to you in a friend. Use the following ideas and expressions to help you. Include examples from your personal experience.
Qualities of a good friend Selfless Honest and open Patient Suppor-tive Helpful Humor- ous and fun ...
Giving examples
For example/For instance,...
Take my experience as an example.
Let me give you a few examples of...
...is/provides a good example.
Once, I read a news story about/heard about...
Expressions
Write a diary entry about what makes a good friend. Use your ideas from part C and the information in parts A and B to help you.
Panning your writing
Learning about the text type
A diary entry is a record of a person’s experiences, thoughts, feelings or plans. As a personal form of writing, a diary entry is generally not meant to be read by anyone else.
Learning about the format
When you write a diary entry, you can write the date in the top left-hand corner of the page and begin with “Dear Diary”.
Learning about the language
Try to use informal English, as if you were talking to a close friend. The first person “I” is often used in a diary entry.
1. leave sb doing
2. in one’s opinion
3. have trouble doing sth
4. take action
5. get over
6. try one’s best to do sth
1.让某人做某事
2.在某人看来
3. 做某事有困难
4. 采取行动
5. 克服；恢复常态
6. 竭尽所能做某事
7. even if/even though
8. struggle with
9. take up
10. bring out
7. 即使
8. 艰难对付；同……作斗争
9. 采取行动做某事
10.使显现，使表现出
Finish your writing. Check your writing according to P38 “Checking your writing” .
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Unit 3 Getting along with others
Integrated skills 1
Listening and Speaking
Listen to Patrick and Tim's conversation and try to understand what Tim's problems are and how Patrick helps Tim;
Read a diary entry and try to understand the qualities of a good friends.
What do you think are the important qualities of a good friend
is trustworthy
respects you
stays with you in your time of failure
is honest, and loving
shares your happiness and sorrow
accepts your differences
is devoted and loyal to you
is selfless
A good friend is someone who ________.
Tim is talking to his friend Patrick about his problems. Listen and finish the exercises below.
1 Tim does not have enough time for his schoolwork.
2 Tim is not sure what he wants to be in the future.
3 Tim has found his Maths homework quite difficult recently.
Listen to Patrick and Tim’s conversation and tick Tim’s problems below.
A1
4 Tim is unhappy because he has no friends who can help him.
5 Tim does not understand some key points in his Chinese classes.
6 Tim is having difficulty with the reading task his Chinese teacher has given him.
Listen to Patrick and Tim's conversation again and complete the notes below.
A2
Preview Patrick’s diary entry on page 37.
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