(共33张PPT)
Unit 4
Why don’t you talk to your parents
Section A (3a-3c)
人教八年级下
通过本课的学习,学生能够:
①通过阅读,感受主人公对家庭关系的烦恼,并且能够根据导图复述文章。
②通过学习此文章,知晓沟通的重要性并且能够理性面对和解决生活中的冲突和矛盾。
Learning Goals
Look at the picture and tell me what's wrong with the little boy
Warming Up
His parents are arguing.
Are you happy today Do you have worries or problems
argue with brothers or sisters
too overweight
too much homework
If you have a problem, who would you ask for help Who can give you useful advice
parents
teachers
counselor
friends
A school counselor is a person who is trained to help students with problems, including school problems and personal problems.
counselor
a school counselor(学校心理咨询师)
学校心理咨询师是一个受过训练来帮助学生解决问题的人,包括学校问题和个人问题。
Pre-reading
Robert Hunt
There is a letter I received from a student.
1.What’s the relationship between them
2.How do their children feel
Look at the picture and predict.
Maybe they are husband and wife.
nervous, sad, lonely...
While-reading
Let’s skim!
Where do you usually find these letters
Who do you think has a problem
Who is giving advice
Let’s scan!
3a. Look at this letter to a magazine and the reply from Robert Hunt, a school plete the chart.
Problems
can’t get on with his family
parents fight a lot
elder brother not very nice to him and treats him
Problems
Advice
aunfairly (e.g. won’t let him watch his favorite TV show while he watches whatever he wants
always feels lonely and nervous at home
talk about these feelings with his family
offer to help his parents (e.g. do more jobs around the house so that they have more time for proper
communication)
Advice
communicate with his elder brother and let him know he doesn’t mind him watching TV all the time, but he should let him watch his favorite show
Dear Mr. Hunt,
My problem is that I can’t get on with my family. Relations between my
parents have become difficult. They fight a lot, and I really don’t like it.
It’s the only communication they have. I don’t know if I should say anything to them about this. When they argue, it’s like a big, black cloud hanging over our home.① Also, my elder brother is not very nice to me.
get on with sb. 与某人相处融洽
/r le ( )n/ n.(人、团体、国家之间的)关系,联系,交往
经常吵架
hang over 使忧心忡忡;笼罩
He always refuses to let me watch my favorite TV show. Instead he
watches whatever he wants until late at night. I don’t think this is fair.
At home I always feel lonely and nervous. Is that normal What can I do
Sad and Thirteen
refuse to do sth. 拒绝做某事
let sb. do sth. 让某人做某事
adv. 代替;顶替;反而;却
instead of 代替;作为……的替换
/fe (r)/ adj. 公平的;合理的
/ n m( )l/ adj. 正常的
Dear Sad and Thirteen,
It’s not easy being your age, and it’s normal to have these feelings. Why don’t you talk about these feelings with your family If your parents are having problems, you should offer to help.② Maybe you could do more jobs around the house so that they have more time for proper
communication. Secondly, why don’t you sit down and communicate with your brother
/ pr p (r)/ adj. 恰当的
communicate with sb. 与某人交流
You should explain that you don’t mind him watching TV all the time. However, he should let you watch your favorite show. I hope things will be better for you soon.
Robert Hunt
mind sb. doing sth. 介意某人做某事
3b. Do you agree or disagree with Mr. Hunt’s advice Why
Agree:
Lack of communication is the cause of many problems. In this case, the family may truly not be aware of how the writer feels as they are too absorbed in their own problems. The parents may also be touched if the writer tries to help them by doing jobs around the house. In addition, it is not healthy for the writer to keep his negative feelings to himself. Talking is likely to help him feel better.
Disagree:
The parents and elder brother may get even angrier as they may think that the writer is being disrespectful. They may feel that children should not comment on the behavior of their seniors.
Post-reading
3c. Which words or phrases in the letters have the same or similar meanings as the following Write a sentence using each word or phrase.
make sth. clear — explain Can you explain to me how to do this math problem
talk — _____________ _________________________________________
_______________________________
communicate
We should communicate with our
parents about the problem.
not allow —___________ ____________________________________
________________________________________________________
worried —___________ _____________________________________
get along with —______________ _____________________________
___________________________________
refuse
nervous
get on with
She refuses to let her younger brother use her computer.
I am always very nervous before a test.
John and I get on with each other because we have the same interests.
与某人相处融洽 __________________
经常吵架 __________________
使忧心忡忡;笼罩 __________________
拒绝做某事 __________________
让某人做某事 __________________
与某人交流 ___________________
介意某人做某事 ___________________
get on with sb.
Key Phrases
fight a lot
hang over
refuse to do sth.
let sb. do sth.
communicate with sb.
mind sb. doing sth.
1.When they argue, it’s like a big, black cloud hanging over our home.
Language Points
argue 争论;争吵;争辩
① argue with sb. 与某人争论
e.g. I don’t want to argue with you. 我不想和你争论。
② argue about/over sth. 争论某事
e.g. We’re always arguing with each other about money.
我们总是为钱吵嘴。
③ argue for/against (doing) sth.
e.g. They argued for the right to strike. 他们据理力争罢工权利。
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Instant Training
1. 不要和你妈妈争论!
Don’t ________ ________ your mother!
2. 咱们别为今晚出门的事争吵了。
Let us not ________ ________ going out tonight.
argue with
argue over
2. If your parents are having problems, you should offer to help.
offer v. 主动提出;自愿给予
① offer sb. sth. = offer sth. to sb. 为某人提供某物
e.g. Josie had offered her services as a guide. 乔西曾表示愿意当向导。
② offer sth. (to sb.) (for sth.) (为某人/物)提供某物
e.g. He offered some useful advice. 他提供了一些有益的建议。
They decided to offer the job to Jo. 他们决定把这份工作提供给乔。
offer 用于表示主动地提供服务、工作等。
provide 用于表示不是出于主动慷慨之意地为人或物提供需要或有用的东西,仅仅是出于某种责任,“提供;供应;给予”。
【拓展】
③ offer to do sth. 主动提出做某事
e.g. The kids offered to do the dishes. 孩子们主动要求洗盘子。
provide sth. (for sb.) 提供某物给某人
provide sb. (with sth.) 为某人提供某物
e.g. Tom provided some information for me.
= Tom provided me with some information. 汤姆为我提供了一些信息。
Instant Training
1. 彼得主动提出教他们滑水。
Peter ________ ________ ________ them water-skiing.
2. 他们决定让乔做这件工作。
They decided to ________ Jo ________ ________.
offered to teach
the job
offer
Exercises
1. There is no___________(关系) between them.
2. He doesn’t like to_______________(交流) with your parents.
3. To keep fit, we should have more vegetables and fruit__________(代替) of too much meat.
4. You should____________(解释) your parents why you came home late.
5. He is too____________(不安的) to say anything.
一、根据句意及汉语提示完成句子
relation
communicate
instead
explain
nervous
1. My___________(old) brother is 5 years older than me.
2. ___________(second), he can tell his teachers his worries.
3. Would you mind my ___________(open) the door
4. Mr. Black often goes to work without ___________(have) breakfast.
5. I am afraid of ___________(speak) in front of the class.
二、用所给词的适当形式填空
older
Secondly
opening
having
speaking
1. Many people won’t realize the importance of their health______they have lost it.
A. until B. after C. when D. as
2. It’s important for students to learn how to__________each other.
A. get on with B. come over
C. stay away from D. argue with
A
三、单项选择
A
3. His parents aren’t angry with him, _________they are worried about him.
A. Instead of B. instead C. because D. although
4. He offered_________me. I was very happy.
A. help B. helping C. to help D. with helping
5. _________ you do, you must be careful.
A. What B. However C. How D. Whatever
B
C
D
Summary
Problem and Suggestions
I can’t get on with my family
suggestions
I don’t know how to talk with parents
elder brother isn’t
nice to me
he refused me to watch
my favorite shows
feel lonely and nervous at home
talk these feelings with family
communicate with your brother