(共19张PPT)
Knowing me,
knowing you
understanding ideas
Not every day is sunny.
conflict with classmates
bad performance in a subject
pressure to look good
friends
parents
teachers
yourself
Who do you turn to for help when you face problems
treehole
I was disappointed with my teammate because I felt 1. ______________________by him.
I told my best friend that my teammate was to blame, just 2. ________________.
My best friend 3. ____________________________________. I don’t know what to do.
Ben’s problems
the team were let down
to let off steam
went and told everyone else what I’d said
Complete the sentences with expressions from the passage.
Find adjectives that describe Ben’s feelings.
mad
disappointed
angry
awkward
embarrassed
& ashamed
I am in a total mess!
positive
negative
Ben
What advice can you give Ben Discuss with your partners.
I was disappointed with my teammate because I felt 1. ______________________by him.
I told my best friend that my teammate was to blame, just 2. ________________.
My best friend 3. ____________________________________. I don’t know what to do.
Ben’s problems
the team were let down
to let off steam
went and told everyone else what I’d said
Ben
Read the letter quickly and find out Agony Aunt’s suggestions.
Ben’s teammate
Ben’s best friend
Para 4-6: sugestions.
Read the first and last sentence of each paragraph.
Agony Aunt’s suggestions
You should 4. __________________________. You need to work together, and that means 5. _____________________________________ and 6. __________________.
Tell your best friend you’re angry with him for 7. _____________________ and 8.__________________________, but that you want to move on.
Don’t 9. _____________ when you’re angry. Always remember: 10. _______________________.
apologise to your teammate
communicating with each other clearly
resolving conflicts
repeating what you said
making the situation worse
say too much
think first, speak later
Complete the sentences with expressions from Para 4-6.
Ben’s teammate
Ben’s best friend
Ben
multi-perspective
多角度
Agony Aunt’s suggestions
You should 4. __________________________. You need to work together, and that means 5. _____________________________________ and 6. __________________.
Tell your best friend you’re angry with him for 7. _____________________ and 8.__________________________, but that you want to move on.
Don’t 9. _____________ when you’re angry. Always remember: 10. _______________________.
apologise to your teammate
communicating with each other clearly
resolving conflicts
repeating what you said
making the situation worse
say too much
think first, speak later
Complete the sentences with expressions from the passage.
Ben
Do you think this suggestion is the best one Could we tell the friend in a peaceful manner
methods
How does Agony Aunt give sugesstions
suggestions
reasons
specific具体的practical可操作的
logical
What skill does Agony Aunt use
empathy
Dear Ben,
There is an old American saying, “Loose lips sink ships.” This means that if you speak too much about something, especially to people who you don’t know so well, it’ll cause all kinds of trouble.
口风不紧船舰沉
What causes all kinds of trouble according to Agony Aunt
Not every day is sunny.
I will be master of my emotions.
If you were Ben’s best friend, what would you do after Ben told you his feeling
Dear Agony Aunt,
I feel so terrible. One of my best friends shared his experience in a basketball match. His teammate didn't behave well. Disappointed by his behavior, he complained (抱怨)to me about what happened. I could totally understand him so I wanted to let others know his feeling and try to help him out. However, my friend thought I had a big mouth and made him embarrassed in his team. He even didn’t talk to me at school. What should I do
Tom
A letter from Tom
Try to use Agony Aunt's strategies to write back.
Ben’s best friend
评分细则 个人评价
语言表述是否准确 是否运用了本节课所学词块
是否多角度考虑问题?
建议是否具体、可操作、有逻辑性?
卷面是否整洁 字迹是否工整
Homework
Write a letter to Ben’s best friend--Tom to give him some useful advice. Remember to follow the structure of the second letter.
Ben: Agony Aunt, I met a problem recently. In a basketball match, ... Then I ...Unexpectedly my best friend... I feel...
Agony Aunt: That's so bad!
Ben: I said those words just to .... but my friend...I was disappointed with...
Agony Aunt: You shouldn't have said those words. But now you have to make it up. You should...You need to ...and that means...
Ben: I told my best friend...
Agony Aunt: Don't....when..., always remember...
Ben: I felt... when I heard my best friend...
Agony Aunt: As for your best friend. Go and tell him...
Ben: Thank you so much! Now I know ...I feel much better now.
Work in pairs and act it out.
Ben chose to follow Agony Aunt’s advice and decided to communicate with his teammate and friend
one as Ben;
one as the teammate;
one as the friend.
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Role play