课件52张PPT。Feelings and interpersonal communication
(情感与人际交往)(8A Unit 9，8B Unit 3，Unit 4，9 Unit 3，Unit 11)话题九1．exam(n.) _____________(同义词)考试
2．available(adj.) ________(同义词)有空的
3．hang(v.) ________(过去式) ________(过去分词)悬挂
4．catch(v.) ________(过去式) ________(过去分词)抓住
5．invite(v.) __________(n.)邀请
6．accept(v.) ________(反义词)拒绝
7．sad(adj.) ________(adv.)难过地
8．prepare(v.) _____________(n.)准备
9．without(prep.) ________(反义词)有
10．surprised(adj.) __________(adj.)令人惊奇的 ________(n.)惊讶examinationfreehunghungcaughtcaughtinvitationrefusesadlypreparationwithsurprisingsurprise11．opening(n.) ________(v.)开 ________(adj.)开着的 ________(反义词)关上 ________(adj.)关着的
12．friend(n.) __________(n.)友谊；友情
13．bank(n.) ________(n.)银行家
14．comfortable(adj.) _____________(反义词)不舒适的
15．weight(n.) ________(v.)称……的重量
16．courage(n.) ___________(v.)鼓励
17．agree(v.) ________(反义词)不同意 _________(n.)同意
18．suggest(v.) __________(n.)建议
19．center(n.) ________(adj.)中心的；中央的
20．polite(adj.) ________(adv.)礼貌地 ________(反义词)不礼貌的
21．direction(n.)方向；方位 ________(adj.)直接的；直率的 ________(反义词)间接的
22．correct(adj.) ________(反义词) ________(adv.)正确地openopencloseclosedfriendshipbankeruncomfortableweighencouragedisagreeagreementsuggestioncentralpolitelyimpolitedirectindirectincorrectcorrectly23．speak(v.) ________(n.)发言者
24．borrow(v.) ________(反义词)借出
25．waste(v.) ________(adj.)浪费的
26．stress(n.) ________(adj.)有压力的
27．develop(v.) ___________(n.)发展
28．fair(adj.) ________(n.)公正性 ________(反义词)不公平的
29．ill(adj.) ________(n.)病
30．independent(adj.) _____________(n.)独立
31．communicate(v.) _____________(n.)交流；沟通
32．clear(adj.) ________(adv.)清楚地
33．compete(v.) ___________(n.)竞争
34．type(n.) ________(adj.)典型的
35．usual(adj.) ________(adj.反义词)不寻常的 ________(adv.)通常speakerlendwastefulstresseddevelopmentfairnessunfairillnessindependencecommunicationclearlycompetitiontypicalunusualusually1．________ for 为……做准备
2．________ time 其他时间
3．hang________ 闲逛
4．the day________ yesterday 前天
5．the day________ tomorrow 后天
6．look________ 照顾
7．turn________ 拒绝
8．________a trip 旅行
9．look________ ________ 盼望
10．________a flu 患感冒
11．________ ________the invitation 拒绝邀请prepareanotheroutbefore afterafterdowntakeforwardtohaveturndown12．________an invitation 接受邀请
13．________...________...直到……才……
14．________the end of 在……结尾
15．________ ________ 收到某人的来信
16．would________ 宁愿
17．drive sb.________/________ 使人发疯/发狂
18．the________...，the________...越……，越……
19．be friends________(sb.) 成为(某人的)朋友
20．________ ________ 忽略；不提及
21．________sb.in 召来；叫来
22．neither...________...既不……也不……
23．to start________ 起初；开始时
24．let...________ 使失望
25．________sb.________ 开除某人acceptnotuntilathearfromrathercrazymadmoremorewithleaveoutcallnorwithdownkickoff26．be hard________sb.对某人苛刻；对某人要求严厉
27．________than 而不是
28．pull________ 齐心协力；通力合作
29．________by 路过
30．turn________/________ 向左/右转
31．________one's hand 握住某人的手
32．________ ________the rubbish 倒垃圾
33．________the floor 扫地
34．________the bed 铺床
35．________the time 频繁；反复
36．________ ________ ________ 一……就……；尽快
37．in________ ________ 目的是；为了
38．________on 依靠；信赖
39．take________ of 照顾；处理onrathertogetherpassleftrightholdtakeoutsweepmakeallassoonasordertodependcare40．________ ________ 重要的事
41．look________ 浏览；快速查看
42．work________ 解决；成功地发展
43．get on(well)________ 和睦相处；关系良好
44．argue________sb.和某人吵架
45．give sth.________to sb.把某物还给某人
46．________to do sth.主动做某事
47．_____________with 与……交流
48．________with sb.与某人竞争
49．________out 删除；删去
50．compare...________...比较；对比
51．in one's________ 依……看
52．get into a________ ________sb.和某人打架bigdealthroughoutwithwithbackoffercommunicatecompetecutwithopinionfightwith1．Money and fame________ always________ people________.
金钱和荣誉并不总能让人开心。
2．She said that the sad movie________ her________.
她说悲剧电影使她哭泣。
3．________ ________I got to know her，________ ________I've realized that we had a lot in________.
对她了解越多，我会发现我们的共同之处越多。
4．His face was always pale________ chalk.
他的脸总是面如灰土。
5．________medicine________ rest can help him.
药品和休息都帮不了他。
6．But________ it was，don't be too hard on________.
但不管怎样，不要过分苛刻地要求你自己。don'tmakehappymakescryThemorethemorecommonasNeithernorwhateveryourself7．Peter went to soccer practice________ ________ ________ ________fear in his heart.
彼得并没有感到害怕，而是鼓起勇气去参加足球训练。
8．—________you come to my party?
你能来参加我的聚会吗？
—Sure，I'd________ ________.
当然，我很乐意。
—Sorry，I________.I have to________ ________an exam.
对不起，我不能。我得为考试做准备。
9．________you please tell me________ the restrooms________？
你能告诉我洗手间在哪吗？
10．You________ know________ you try something.
直到你尝试你才知道一些事。
11．I was scared________ ________，but shouting really did________.
起初我很害怕，但喊叫还真的很管用。withcourageratherthanCanlovetocan'tpreparefor Couldwhereareneveruntil atfirsthelp12．Sometimes we even need to spend time________ ________to a request.
有时我们甚至需要花些时间来导入一个请求。
13．Sam________ leaving________ next Wednesday.
萨姆直到下周三才离开。
14．________today?
今天几号，星期几？
15．________ ________ ________idea！/________great the idea________！
多好的主意啊！
16．Please ________ ________writing to this invitation by Friday，December 20th.
请于12月20日星期五以前以书面方式回复此邀请。
17．I look forward________ ________ ________you all.
我盼望着收到你们所有人的来信。
18．My family is________ a trip to Wuhan________ ________ ________of this month to________ my aunt and uncle.
这个月末我全家要去武汉旅行并看望我的婶婶和叔叔。leading inisn'tuntilWhat'sWhatagreatHowisreplyintohearingfromtakingattheendvisit19．Could I________ ________finish________ this show?
我至少看完这个节目行吗？
20．She________ ________happy if she sees this mess.
如果她看到这样不整洁，她会不高兴的。
21．She didn't do any housework and________ ________I.
她没有做家务活，我也没有做。
22．—Could I use your computer?
我能用一下你的电脑吗？
—Sorry.I'm going to________ ________ ________now.
对不起，我现在要用它工作。
23．My mom came over________ ________ ________I sat down in front of the TV.
我一在电视机前坐下，我妈妈就过来了。
24．Children these days________ ________their parents too much.
如今的孩子们依赖父母亲太多。atleastwatchingwon'tbeneitherdidwork on itassoonasdependon25．________ ________kids learn to be independent，________ ________it is for their future.
孩子们越早学会独立，对他们的未来就越好。
26．My parents don't________ me to________ ________with my friends.
我父母不允许我和朋友们一起出去闲逛。
27．________ ________ ________go to sleep earlier this evening?
为什么今晚你不早点儿去睡呢？
28．I found my sister________ ________my things yesterday.
昨天我发现我妹妹翻阅我的东西。
29．________she's wrong，it's not a________ ________.
尽管她不对，但这也不是什么大不了的事。TheearlierthebetterallowhangoutWhydon'tyoulookingthroughAlthoughbigdeal30．My problem is that I can't________ ________ ________my family.
我的问题是我不能和我的家人和睦相处。
31．________，he watches________ he wants until late at night.
相反，晚上无论他想看什么就看到很晚。
32．You should________ that you don't________ him________ TV all the time.你应该说明你不介意他总是看电视。
33．You are________ ________speaking________ ________ ________people.
你害怕在人们面前说话。
34．Your best friend doesn't trust you________ ________.
你最好的朋友不再信任你。getonwithInsteadwhateverexplainmindwatchingafraidofinfrontofanymore1．would rather
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He would rather stay at home in such bad weather.在这么糟糕的天气里，他宁愿待在家里。
He would rather not listen to jazz.他不愿意听爵士乐。
I would rather read a book than watch TV.我宁愿看书也不愿看电视。
【拓展精析】
would rather表示主观上的选择，意为“宁愿；宁可；更愿意”，后面接动词原形，没有人称和数的变化，其否定形式为would rather not do sth.。
would rather do sth. than do sth.意为“宁愿做某事而不愿做另一件事”，相当于prefer to do sth. rather than do sth.。2．suggest
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He suggested a two--day--long stay in Beijing on the way home.他建议回家时在北京停两天。
My father suggested sending for a doctor at once.父亲建议马上请个医生。
The teacher suggested that we(should)speak as much English as possible in class.老师建议我们要尽可能多地在课堂上讲英语。
【拓展精析】
suggest动词，意为“建议；提议”，常用于以下结构中：
suggest sth.(to sb.)(给某人)提议某事
suggest doing sth.建议做某事
suggest＋that从句(从句中的谓语动词用“should＋动词原形”，should 常可省略)3．without
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She came into the room without knocking.她没敲门就进了房间。
【拓展精析】
without介词，意为“没有；不(做某事)”，后面常接名词或动词-ing形式。
4．in order to
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In order to get a complete picture，further information is needed.为了掌握全面情况，还需要详细资料。
【拓展精析】
in order to意为“目的是；为了”，比单纯的to do更强调“目的”，可以放在句首，也可以放在句中。其否定形式为in order not to do。1．I look forward to hearing from you.
我期待收到你(们)的来信。
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I am looking forward to your visit.我期待你的来访。
We are looking forward to seeing each other.我们盼望着见到彼此。
【拓展精析】
look forward to意为“盼望；期待”，to 是介词，后接名词、代词或动词-ing形式。2．She did not do any housework and neither did I.
她没有做任何家务活，我也没做。
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—I didn't go to the park last Sunday.上周日我没去公园。
—Neither did I．我也没去。
—They will play soccer tomorrow.他们明天去踢足球。
—So will we.我们也去踢。
—She knows little English.她英语懂得不多。
—So she does.她的确如此。
【拓展精析】
“Neither/Nor＋助动词/情感动词/be＋主语．”表示与上述否定情况相同。
“So＋助动词/情态动词/be＋主语．”表示与上述肯定情况相同。
“So＋主语＋助动词/情态动词/be.”表示强调，即对前面所说的情况加以肯定。3．Why don't you talk to your parents?
你为什么不和你的父母交谈呢？
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Why don't you buy a suit for your husband？你为什么不给你丈夫买一套西服呢？
Why not learn some Chinese pop songs？为什么不学一些中国的流行歌曲？
What/How about going for a walk？去散步怎么样？
【拓展精析】
Why don't you do sth.？＝Why not do sth.？是提建议的一种表达方式。类似的表达方式还有：
What/How about doing sth.?
Shall we do sth.?
Let's do sth.
You'd better do sth.
其肯定答语为Good idea！/OK./Wonderful！/Great！/Sounds good！等；其否定答语为Sorry，but...等。1．information，news，message
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They must find out some information about planes to Hainan as quickly as possible.他们必须尽快找到有关去往海南的班机的信息。
We often listen to the news after supper.晚饭后我们经常听新闻。
Would you mind giving him a message？你介意给他捎个口信吗？
【拓展精析】
information不可数名词，意为“信息”，通常指在阅读、观察、谈话或书信往来中特别关注的消息、情报、资料等。
news不可数名词，意为“新闻，消息”，指公众感兴趣的、近来发生的事情，尤其指通过广播、电视、网络等报道的事情。
message可数名词，一般指口头传递或书写的“口信”。2．borrow，lend，keep
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I borrowed a book from Jack yesterday./I borrowed Jack's book yesterday.昨天我从杰克那里借了本书。
Jack lent me a book yesterday./Jack lent a book to me yesterday.昨天杰克借给我一本书。
How long can I keep the book？这本书我可以借用多长时间？
【拓展精析】
borrow指“借入”或“借他人的东西供自己使用”。固定短语borrow sth.from sb.或borrow sb.'s sth.意为“向某人借某物”。
lend指“(把自己的东西)借出”。固定短语lend sb.sth.或lend sth.to sb.意为“借给某人某物”。
keep意为“保存；保留”，可引申为“借用”，此时常与一段时间或how long等连用。3．instead，instead of，rather than
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Last summer I went to Qingdao. This summer I'm going to Dalian instead.去年夏天我去了青岛。今年夏天我将改去大连。
We should do something instead of just talking about it.＝We should do something rather than just talk about it.我们不应该只是谈论，而应该做点什么。
【拓展精析】
instead作副词，意为“代替；而不是”，常位于句首或句末。
instead of和rather than都可以表示“而不是”，常位于句中，两者都可接名词、代词等作宾语。若后接动词时，instead of后接动词-ing，rather than后常接动词原形。4．provide，offer
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They provided the children with good food and clothing.他们给孩子们提供了良好的衣服食物。
The manager offers a job to me in his company.那个经理在他的公司里给我提供了一份工作。
【拓展精析】
provide意为“提供；供应”，常用于provide sb.with sth.或provide sth.for sb.固定搭配中。
offer意为“提供；给予”，常用于offer sb.sth.或offer sth.to sb.固定搭配中。另外offer to do sth.意为“(主动提出)做某事”。A．(一)用所给词的适当形式填空。
1．I had already gotten her husband's________(invite) letter before I was________(invite) by her for their marriage.
2．You can't enter the room ________(with) his permission.That is to say，________(with) his permission，you can do it.
3．“I feel________(sad)，”he said________(sad)．“This feeling of________
(sad) can't disappear even if I find my sheep.”
4．When Joseph entered the room and________(close) the door，Ted raised his head and said，“Please don't ________(close) the door.It will be dark if you________(close) the door.”
5．__________(friend) is one of the greatest pleasure that we can enjoy.We could talk about our happiness and sadness with our________(friend)．invitationinvitedwithoutwithsadsadlysadnessclosedclosecloseFriendshipfriends6．There are lots of________(bank) in the street.I usually meet some________(bank) when I hang around there.
7．Molly gave me some useful__________(suggest) but John________(suggest) me that I should look up more data in order to finish this task.
8．Someone who is________(polite) has good manners and behaves in a proper way.He usually can't be________(polite) to other people.
9．You understand the question________(correct)，so write the________(correct) answer on the paper and hand it to me after the meeting.
10．John has learned_____________(independent) since thirteen years old when he was encouraged to be an ___________(independent) thinker.banksbankerssuggestionssuggestedpoliteimpolitecorrectlycorrectindependenceindependent(二)用方框中所给单词的适当形式填空，每词限用一次。1．I ________ to do homework rather than to go to holiday to the seaside.
2．I ________ she must be very happy to get the job.
3．This poem ________ the hard living of ancient people and the sympathy(同情) of author.
4．Class Four gave a great ____________ of The Emperor and New Clothes.
5．My mother was teaching my sister how to________ the clothes.prefersupposereflectsperformancefold6．My mother asked me________ the floor when she saw my room in a mess.
7．Ten months has________，and we still have no news of him.
8．I__________ The Great Gatsby from library because I can't afford it.
9．He________ to be interrupted during drawing pictures.
10．The twins_________ on each other after their mother passed away.to sweeppassedborrowedhatesdependedB．根据短文内容和括号内所给汉语意思，写出空白处各单词的正确形式(每空一词)。
(一)
The Taylors are a 1.________(典型的)American family. Life for Cathy Taylor's three children is very busy. “On most days after school，” Cathy says，“ I take one of my two boys to basketball practice and my daughter to football 2._________________(训练)．Then I have to take my other son to piano lessons. Maybe I could cut out a few of their 3.________(活动)，but I believe these activities are important for my children's future. I really want them to be 4._________(成功的)．“However，the tired children don't get home until after 7：00 p．m. They have a quick dinner，and then it's time for homework.
Linda Miller，a mother of three，knows all about such 5.________(压力)．“In some families，6.__________(竞争)starts very young and 7.________(持续)until the kids get older，” she says. “Mothers send their small kids to all kinds of classes. And they are always 8.___________(比较) them with other children. It's crazy. I don't think that's 9.________(公平的)．Why don't they just let their kids be kids? People shouldn't 10.________(推动)their kids so hard.”typicaltraining/practiceactivitiessuccessfulstresscompetitioncontinuescomparing fairpush(二)
Frank was a curious boy. The first time he saw an hourglass(沙漏)，he 1.________(想知道) what it was.
His mother said，“An hourglass is made in the 2.________(形状) of 8.The sand is put in at one 3.________(末端)，and runs through a small hole in the middle. It takes the sand 4.________(准确地) an hour to run through.”
Frank watched the little stream of sand. He was 5.________(不耐烦的)，because it would not run faster. “Let me 6.________(摇) it，mother，”said he，“It is lazy，and will never get through.”
“It will，son，” said his mother，“The sand moves little by little，but it moves all the time. When you look at the hands of the clock，you think they go very 7.____________ (慢)，but they never stop. They keep working every 8.________(分钟)．
Now，Frank's mother wanted him to learn a little 9.________(诗)，but he said，“Mother，I can never learn it.” His mother said，“Study all the time. Never stop to ask how long it will 10.________(花费) to learn it.”
Frank followed his mother's 11.________(建议)．He studied line after line，very busily，and in one and a half hours he knew the poem 12.________(完美地)．wonderedshapeendexactlyimpatientshakeslow/slowlyminutepoemtakeadviceperfectlyC．阅读下面短文，按照句子结构的语法性和上下文连贯的要求，在空格处填入一个适当的词或使用括号中词语的正确形式填空(每空不多于3个单词)。
(一)
Good speakers change the way they speak in different situations. The 1.____________(express)they use might depend 2.________ whom they are speaking to or how well they know each other. It is all right to ask direct questions to your classmates 3.________ you know them well. However，if you say to your teacher，“When is the school trip？”，this might sound 4.________(polite)．But if you say，“Excuse me，Mr.West. Do you know when the school trip is？”，this will sound much more polite.
Usually polite questions are 5.________(long)．They include expressions such 6.________ “Could you please...？” or “May I ask...？” It sounds more polite to say，“Peter，could you please tell me your e-mail address？” than “Peter，tell me your e-mail address.” Sometimes we even need to spend time 7.________(lead)in to a request.8.________ example，we might first say to a stranger，“Excuse me，I wonder if you can help me” 9.________ “I'm sorry to trouble you，but...” before 10.________(ask)for help.expressionsonbecauseimpolitelongerasleadingFororasking(二)
I was a student from the countryside. My teachers thought I was the 1.________(bad) student in my class. My family also had the same thought 2.________ my teachers.
When I was going to give up my studying，3.________ new teacher，Miss White came to our school.
One day while I was sitting alone in my classroom，Miss White came up to me and talked with me 4.________(happy)．Soon her smile swept away my unhappiness.
“Do you think I can go to college？” I didn't know 5.________ I asked such a question. I thought she must say “no”，because everyone else said so.6.________ she said，“Dear，you can do anything you want. Just work harder，and you'll get closer to success. I believe you are the best！”
I was 7.________(touch) deeply by her words. From then on，we became good 8.________(friend)．She often helped me with my study in her free time.
9．________ the end I did better in my studies and went to a good college. Miss White is an angel(天使)．Her words have kept me going forward. She helped me to see that I am special and can be 10._________(success) in my life.worstasahappilywhy ButtouchedfriendsInsuccessful(一)make sb.＋adj.和make sb.do sth.句型的练习：将下列词语或词组连成一个完整的句子。
1．the Smiths，us，welcomed，and，warmly，made us，feel at home
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2．suffer，me，made，my carelessness，a lot
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3．happy，makes，the baby's smile，me
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4．my father，clean，makes，the，me，room
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5．when，at my first time，saw it，excited，the snow，me，made，I
________________________________________________________________________The Smiths welcomed us warmly and made us feel at home. My carelessness made me suffer a lot.The baby's smile makes me happy. My father makes me clean the room.The snow made me excited when I saw it at my first time.(二)回答“请求，许可”的练习：根据提示回答下列句子。
1．Could you please tell me where the bus station is？(go through two blocks，next to the hospital)
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2．Can she come to my party？(not available，visit her grandparents)
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3．Can you play basketball with me tomorrow？(sure)
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4．Could I play the computer games？(no，do homework)
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5．Can you make the bed，fold the clothes and take out the rubbish？(no problem)
________________________________________________________________________You should go through two blocks，and the bus station is next to the hospital. She is not available because she must visit her grandparents.Sure.I'd love to.I'm afraid not, you must do homework.No problem.(三)why not...？的练习：根据汉语提示翻译下列句子。
1．你何不在网上把信息传给我呢？
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2．他解释了他为什么对这个计划不感兴趣。
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3．天气多好啊！为什么不出去散散步呢？
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4．为什么不休息呢？
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5．你有心事，为什么不给我讲讲呢？
________________________________________________________________________Why not send a message to me on the Internet?He explained why not interested in this plan.What a pleasant weather！Why not go out for a walk?Why not have a rest?You're worried about something. Why not talk with me?(四)宾语从句的练习：根据语境，选择“how，where，who，when，what”填空。
1．I don't know________ I can go to the cinema.
2．I am afraid no one knows________ she is.
3．—Could you please tell me________ the washroom is?
—It's behind the Wal--Mart.
4．I called my mother to tell her________ I would be back.
5．Do you know________ happened to him？He has been absent for a whole week.howwhowherewhenwhat一、完形填空。
How to deal with disappointment? Here are some ideas.
Disappointment is a real feeling，so__1__ yourself to feel it. Take a certain amount of time to feel hurt，sad or upset. Find a parent，friend or teacher and share your disappointment __2__ them. Or write your thoughts and __3__down on the paper.
Disappointment can seem huge at first. But after you've expressed your hurt，look at the big picture.__4__ will this disappointment really affect(影响) you tomorrow，next week or next year?
1．A. invite B．help C．allow D．warn
2．A. to B．of C．for D．with
3．A. plans B．Decisions C．feelings D．suggestions
4．A. How many B．How much C．How long D．How far解题微技巧指导
1．C 【解析】 该句意思是“失望是一种真实的情绪，所以要允许自己去感受它”。
2．D 【解析】 share sth.with sb.表示“和某人分享某事”。
3．C 【解析】 当你感到失望的时候，可以把你的想法和“感受”写下来。
4．B 【解析】 该句意思是“明天、下周或明年这个失望会对你造成多大影响呢？”how much表示程度上的“多少”。二、阅读理解。
主旨大意(一)—— 段落大意
【技巧点拨】
主旨大意题主要考查学生对文章或段落的整体理解，通常有三种考查形式：段落大意、全文大意和文章标题。
段落大意题主要考查学生准确把握某段文字大意的能力。做这类题时，关键在于把握段落的主题句。文章的每个自然段落一般都会有段落主题句，这种句子概括性强，段落中的其他句子都是对主题句的说明或例证。抓住了段落主题句，就抓住了段落的主要意思。主题句通常位于段首或段尾，有一些位于段落中间。有些段落没有明显的主题句，需要同学们自己归纳，这时，可采用略读的阅读技巧。略读时，要抓住关键词，然后以关键词为核心收集信息并筛选加工从而概括出段落大意。【真题分析】
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Club activities after class hours are an important part of students' school life. There are a number of sports and cultural study clubs that students may join. Students are free to choose the clubs they are interested in. The clubs meet two to four times a week after school. Sports coaches and club leaders are often school graduates who come back to help.
5．The last paragraph mainly talks about________.
A．club leaders
B．cultural studies
C．meeting times for students
D．club activities after school【实战演练】
When you try to get things，it's very possible that you will be rejected(拒绝)．
You may be rejected by a good school or by your favorite team. However，rejection doesn't have to come from big things. Everyday situations can lead to feelings of rejection，too. You may be hurt if your joke doesn't get a laugh，or if no one remembers to serve you a seat at the lunch table.
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How should you deal with it? Here are some ideas：
If you get rejected，face it. Don't try to brush off the hurt or tell yourself it's not painful. Instead of thinking “I shouldn't feel this way”，think about how normal it is to feel bad．Then it would be easy for you to get past the painful feelings.
If you want，tell someone else what happened and how you feel about it. Pick someone who will listen and be supportive.1．What does Paragraph 2 mainly talk about?
A．It's important to know of rejection.
B．It's possible to avoid rejection.
C．Rejection can be big or small.
D．Rejection may hurt someone.
2．Which of the following can be put into the blank?
A．Be honest. B．Try again.
C．Be careful. D．Forget soon.
3．长难句分析：文中画线句子是一个________(简单句或复合句)，instead of表示“________”的意思，在句中作________；how normal it is to feel bad是一个________句，在句中作think about的________。此句可翻译为：
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1．C 【解析】 本小题考查学生归纳段落大意的能力。第二段第二、三句是本段的主旨句。本段主要告诉我们：日常生活中发生的被拒绝的状况可大可小。
2．A 【解析】 本小题考查学生归纳段落大意的能力。第四、五段介绍了被拒绝后，不要试图抹去伤痛、假装愉快，要“诚实面对”，告诉自己被拒绝后感觉糟糕是正常的。
3．复合句，而不是；代替，状语，感叹，宾语，要想到感到糟糕是很平常，而不是想着“我不应该这样感觉”。一、本话题的常用表达。
1．Hope you can make it.
2．I look forward to hearing from you all.
3．Please reply in writing to this invitation by Friday，December 20th.
4．The earlier kids learn to be independent，the better it is for their future.
5．They should spend their time on schoolwork in order to get good grades and get into a good university.
6．Children these days depend on their parents too much.
7．I had a fight with my best friend.
8．I have too much school homework so I don't have any free time to do things I like.
9．Although she's wrong，it's not a big deal.
10．My problem is that I can't get on with my family.
11．I don't know if I should say anything to them about this.
12．When they argue，it's like a big，black cloud hanging over our home.二、难句表达。
1．The new couple were so happy that they couldn't stop smiling when they got married.【so...that...如此……以致于……； can't stop doing sth.忍不住做某事】
我同学所做的一切让我如此感动以致于我忍不住喜极而泣。
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2．She heard a song full of feelings about returning home on the radio.【(be) full of 装满；充满】
我决不会忘记初中生活，因为它充满爱和快乐。
________________________________________________________________________What my classmates did made me so moved that I couldn't stop crying for joy.I will never forget my middle school life because it was full of love and joy.3．He had let his whole team down.【let...down 使……失望；辜负……的期望】
队员们觉得他们让教练失望了。
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4．You should learn to relax and not put so much pressure on yourself．【put pressure on sb.向某人施加压力】
父母经常给他们的孩子太多压力。
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5．The more I got to know Julie，the more I've realized that we have a lot in common. 【the＋比较级，the＋比较级 越……越……】
我花越多的时间和他们练习英语，我的口语就进步得越快。
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________________________________________________________________________The players think they let their coach down.Parents often put too much pressure on their children.The more time I spent practising English with them, the faster my spoken English
improved.三、典例分析。
你的英国朋友Steve未经允许在他爸爸的电脑上玩游戏导致电脑中毒，Steve心里害怕，不敢向爸爸说，因此写信向你求助。请你以Diana的名义根据内容提示给Steve写一封回信。
内容要点：1.指出Steve的两点错误；
2．最好立即向爸爸说出实情；
3．建议Steve帮爸爸做些事，以弥补过错；
4．词数80词左右，不得出现真实的姓名、校名。
【审题指导】
本文是书信，写作时用第一人称，时态用一般现在时。【写作指导】【范文】
Dear Steve，
Thanks for thinking of me at this time. I think you have made two mistakes. One is that you shouldn't play computer games on your father's computer without his permission. The other is that you are afraid to tell him the truth.
I think since you have made mistakes，you must come up with ways to correct them. First of all，you had better tell him the truth immediately. Maybe he will be angry with you. Then you can do something to make him happy. For example，you can volunteer to do some housework. Do some sports with him. Tell him you will not make the same mistake next time.
Oh，and next time，play basketball with your dad!
Best wishes!
Yours，
Diana四、实战演练。
假如你叫张强，是九(2)班的班长。针对最近班上同学们学习压力大、问题多的实际情况，你做了一个“有问题向谁求助”的问卷调查。请根据以下的调查结果，写一篇80词左右的调查报告，可适当发挥。(文章开头已经给出，不计入总词数)【写作指导】
人称：第一人称和第三人称；时态：一般现在时态。
写作思路：先写出调查的内容；再根据表格写出调查的结果；最后发表个人观点。Who Should We Ask for Help When We Have Problems?
Last week in our class I did a survey about whom we should ask for help when we have problems. Here are the results. Half of our classmates would like to ask their good friends for help, because they believe in friends more than other people and good friends are easy to get along with. Thirty percent will choose to ask their teachers or parents for help. They think teachers or parents are good at solving problems. And twenty percent of them decide to solve problems by themselves, because they are sure that they can solve any problem. In my opinion, we should ask our teachers or parents for help because they are rich in experience. So they'll give us useful and helpful advice.
课件22张PPT。话题九
Feelings and interpersonal communication
(情感与人际交往)一、根据中文提示填写单词。1.His pride_______(迫使)him to complete the job and finally he got good grades.
2.A true____________(友谊)could help you go through any difficulties.
3.Jared got a cough and his face looked like so ______(苍白的)as chalk.
4.I know a________(富有的)young man who has anything he dreams of except happiness.
5.He felt______________(不自在的) when he found that the people at the next table were watching him.drovefriendshippalewealthyuncomfortable6.We will achieve our ________ (目标)if we work hard and make more efforts.
7.He has to__________(承担)the duty of his father's mistakes.
8.I think you should keep your_________(勇气)to face the difficulty.
9.They have discussed for three hours without reaching any____________(一致)．
10.I felt________________(失望的)when you refused my favor.二、用方框中所给单词的适当形式填空，每词限用一次。goalsshouldercourageagreementsdisappointed11.Don't go to school ________ breakfast. It's a bad habit.
12.________ they were waiting for the cake, they remembered that they hadn't brought any money.
13.But at last I have written the ____________ to thirteen of my friends.
14.It's ____________ to talk loudly on mobile phones.
15.Lester ________ up his hat and coat, then sat down on the sofa.withoutWhileinvitationsimpolitehung16.First of all, they learn the value of money by working hard so that they will not waste any. ____________， they learn to spend money to buy things they need or want, such as books, pencils.
17.The left-behind kids (留守儿童)can't see their parents _______ the parents come back home from work.
18.Although they have a lot of problems and worries, they look ________ to finding the answer.
19.They __________ the classroom after school yesterday.
20.We finished all the ____________ 10 minutes earlier than expected, then Beth and I talked for a while about the party.Secondlyuntilforwardsweptpreparations三、根据短文内容和括号内所给汉语意思，写出空白处各单词的正确形式(每空一词)。 When I was in my 21.________(第一) year of middle school, my father died.And my mother was ill just after I started high school.I had to stop 22.________(去) to school because my mother had no money to 23. ___________(支付) my school bills.
We started working in people's gardens to save up enough money for me to go back to school. Finally, I returned to school. 24.___________(不幸地), my mother died the next year. Suddenly, my world went dark. I asked my headmaster if I could work for the school so I could pay my bills. He was a nice man and let me work in the school garden 25.___________(在……期间) the holidays. firstgoingpay/affordUnluckilyduring I had not been able to study well because of my mother's 26._________(死亡). At the end of my second year, I failed most of my exams and was told I would have to repeat the year.After another summer 27._________(工作) in the school garden, I went back to lessons again. But suddenly I fell ill.
Because of my disease, I was weak and couldn't work at school. I was 28._________(没有希望的). My headmaster told me not to give up. And my teachers and classmates helped me a lot. Now, I'm 29.________(感觉) better and will finish my third year.
My life is still not 30._________(容易的). A few students laugh at my poor clothes. They also call me “farmer” because I work in the school garden.But I know I have to deal with(解决) such problems.deathworkinghopelessfeelingeasy四、阅读下面短文，掌握大意，然后从各题所给的四个选项中选出一个最佳选项。 It was the beginning of a new term.As a __31__ teacher in that school，I didn't know any of the students.A little girl was standing at the gate of the classroom.She looked very shy.
I walked up to her and __32__ why she stood there.But she said nothing.Then a boy shouted，“She is from Grade Four，the __33__ student in her grade.” I looked at the little girl.She didn't seem to be the smart kind.I __34__ why her teacher asked her to stay in Grade Three.I took her hand and __35__ her into the classroom. “Sit here.Now you are my student and I'm your teacher，” I said.She still said __36__，but suddenly began to cry.
I later learnt that her parents died in a car accident.She became sad and didn't like __37__ to others after that.
She learnt very __38__．I gave her respect(尊重) and never looked down upon(鄙视) her as I know everybody deserves(值得) respect.I helped her after school，and she was making __39__ little by little.As time went by，she was not as __40__ as before.__41__ the end of the term，she seemed to have forgotten all her sadness.She was not among the best students when she left that school，but __42__，she was not that shy and sad little girl any more.
In the following __43__，she would send me a card on each Thanksgiving Day.Three days ago，I __44__ an invitation to her wedding(婚礼)．And now，I am at her wedding，and she __45__ brightly.
Everyone deserves respect and everyone can be happy. （ ）31.A. new B. beautiful C. strict D. famous
（ ）32.A. told B. answered C. knew D. asked
（ ）33.A. bad B. worse C. worst D. good
（ ）34.A. thought B. understood C. forgot D. remembered
（ ）35.A. poured B. threw C. led D．turned
（ ）36.A. everything B. anything C. nothing D. somethingADCBCC （ ）37.A. talking B. talk C. talked D. is talking
（ ）38.A. slowly B. quietly C. well D. quickly
（ ）39.A. friends B. decisions C. progress D. surprises
（ ）40.A. smart B. shy C. angry D. careful
（ ）41.A. In B. On C. About D. At
（ ）42.A. at least B. at first C. at most D. at birth
（ ）43.A. days B. weeks C. months D. years
（ ）44.A. wrote B. sent C. refused D. received
（ ）45.A. smiled B. is smiling C. was smiling D. has smiledAACBDADDB五、阅读下面材料，从每题所给的A、B、C、D四个选项中选出最佳选项。
(一)
Dear Mary, Many students around the world have the same problem as you.Here is some advice to help you deal with the stress.
1．Make a study plan for yourself，but don't study too much in one day.You remember more by studying one hour each day for six days than six hours in one day.Also，don't study late at night.
2．Have a rest for 15 to 20 minutes every two hours.Go outside and walk.Doing exercise is a great way to reduce stress.
3．Don't eat a lot of sugar or drink a lot of coffee.Eat food rich in vitamin(维生素) B (for example，eggs，milk，green vegetables and rice)．These give you energy and help you think more clearly.
4．A study partner can help you practice for the test.When you're worried about the exam，you can talk to your partner.This can reduce stress，too.
Good luck!
Yours，
Donna（ ）46．Donna thinks Mary's problem is ____．
A．great B．common C．wonderful D．serious
（ ）47．Donna thinks that ____ can help Mary think more clearly.
A．eating a lot of sugar B．studying six hours every day
C．drinking a lot of coffee D．eating foods rich in vitamin B
（ ）48.Which of the following is TRUE according to Donna's letter?
A．The best time to study is from 10 p．m. to 1 a．m..
B．Walking outside can make you remember more.
C．It's good to tell a study partner about your feeling.
D．It's necessary to have a rest for 15 to 20 minutes an hour.BDC (二)
One cold winter night in Shanghai，I was walking home at one in the morning after long tiring work.I was having trouble with my job in the bank.As I walked，I thought seriously about giving up living there.City life had become too hard for me.
As I walked down empty streets，I felt very small and cold.I began running，both to keep warm and to keep away any possible danger.Very few people were still out except a few sad-looking homeless people under blankets(毛毯)．
Suddenly，I heard a sound behind me.I turned quickly，all I saw was a shining streetlight.Still，the noise had made me nervous，so I started to run faster.When I reached home，I realized what the noise had been.It had been my wallet falling to the sidewalk. Now I wasn't cold or tired anymore.I ran back to where I'd heard the noise.Although I searched carefully for fifteen minutes，my wallet was nowhere to be found.
Just as I was about to give up the search，I heard the garbage truck(垃圾车)come to me.When a voice called from the inside，“Alisa Chen？” I thought I was dreaming.How could this man know my name？The door opened，and jumped out a small red-haired man.“Is this what you're looking for？”he asked，holding up a small square shape.
It was nearly 3 a．m. by the time I got into bed.But I had got my wallet back.I also had got back some enjoyment of city life.I realized that the city couldn't be a bad place as long as people were willing to help each other.（ ）49．One cold winter night，the writer felt __ __ when she was back home after work.
A．cold and sick B．lucky and helpful
C．excited and cheerful D．disappointed and helpless
（ ）50.What happened when the writer was running down the empty streets?
A．She lost her wallet unknowingly.
B．Someone had stolen her wallet.
C．She was stopped by a garbage truck driver.
D．She found some homeless people following her.DA（ ）51.In the fifth paragraph，why did the writer say she was dreaming?
A．Someone offered to take her back home.
B．A red-haired man came to see her.
C．She heard someone call her name.
D．Her wallet was found in a garbage truck.
（ ）52．From the reading，we can infer(推断) that the writer __ __．
A．would stop working at night
B．would stay on in Shanghai
C．would make friends with cleaners
D．would give up her job at the bankCB六、阅读下面短文，按照句子结构的语法性和上下文连贯的要求，在空白处填入一个适当的词，或使用括号中词语的正确形式填空(每空不多于3个单词)。 There was a young flower in the desert(沙漠) where all was dry and sad looking.It was growing by 53.__ ____ __(it)，enjoying every day and saying to the sun，“When shall I be 54._______(grow) up？”and the sun would say，“Be patient—each time I touch you, you grow a little.”She was so 55.________(please) because she would have a chance 56.________(bring)beauty to this corner of sand and this is all she wanted to do—bring a little bit of beauty to this world.itselfpleasedto bringgrown One day two 57._________(tour)came by and stepped on her.She was going to die and she felt so sad, not because she 58.__________ (die), but because she would not have a chance to bring a little bit of beauty to this corner of the desert.
The great spirit saw her，59.____ was listening.Indeed(确实)，he said she should be living.And he reached down and touched her and gave 60.____ life.
And she grew up to be 61.____ beautiful flower，and this corner of the desert became so beautiful 62.____________ her.touristswas dyingandherabecause of七、书面表达。
在生活中，人们常有一些快乐需要分享，烦恼需要倾诉，这时就需要一个好的倾听者。请以“Be a Good Listener”为题写一篇短文。
内容要点：1.一次倾听的经历(时间、人物、经过)；
2．你对倾听的认识(至少两点)。
要求：1.文中不得出现真实的人名、校名和地名；
2．词数在80-100之间，已给出的文字不计入总词数。 Be a Good Listener
I strongly believe it is important to be a good listener.
I used to feel stressed before the exam.However，I kept it to myself，as a result，I felt worried and couldn't pay attention to what the teacher said in class.One day，after I bravely told it to my close friend，I felt very relaxed.
Being a good listener plays an important role in communication.Parents should listen to their children，so they will understand them better and trust each other.Teachers should also listen to their students so that they can increase their understanding and improve relationships.Students should listen to their classmates，then their friendship will be increased and they will help each other.
In a word，good listening can really make us get closer to each other.
