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Developing ideas
Unit 3 Family ties
Learning objectives
1. Find out the problem between Tina and her mother by listening.
2. Change the way of communication by using softening language .
3. Solve the family problems by softening language .
A silent love
Who can you turn to in order to solve problems in your family
brother/sister
parents
grandparents
Inside Help
Outside Help
Guess who is helping the family
Many countries offer family hotlines to give advice about family relationships.
Guess who is helping the family
School teacher
Family hotline
Policewoman
Please read your textbook in the page 53 DID YOU KNOW
Situation1:Expert is talking about a family problem.
1.What is the speaker talking about
a. "Problem parents”bring“problem children".
b. There are more and more"problem parents".
c. “Problem parents”need a good talk.
c
Listen and answer
Tina’s mother
Parents who cause some problems to the family.
Situation1: Expert is talking about a family problem.
Problem
Tina's mother is an actress at a _________ . She dresses up as a _________.It isn't cool for Tina. Her mother often goes to________her up in this dress.
Feeling not _________
Advice
Have a good _________with her mother.
park
queen
pick
happy
talk
Listen and complete the chart
So what does Tina talk to her mother
Situation2: Tina is having a talk with her mother.
Situation2: Tina is having a talk with her mother.
time
love
little
laughs
hurt
glad
Tina is having a talk with her mother.
Why do they have this problem
Is it easy for Tina to solve the problem
Situation2: Tina is having a talk with her mother.
Why do they have this problem
Tina’s mother
I don’t have _____.
I don’t want to be ____.
Tina
It’s too ____________.
I'm not a ____ girl anymore. Everyone looks at you and _____.
Reason
time
late
eye - catching
little
laughs
Harmony in a family makes everything successful.
How do they solve this problem
Mom,are you coming to pick me up tomorrow
Of course,Tina.Five o’clock at the school gate.
Well,but can you change your chang your clothes before you come
Why I don’t have time to chang after work.Idon’t want to be late.
_______________________________But that is too eye-catching.
Oh Tina,don’t you love my queen’s dress
Not now,I’m not a little girl anymore.Exeryone looks at you and laughs.
______________________________Now I see.Iwill change my clothes before Ipick you up.
Thank you,mom.I hope you’re not hurt.
I’m glad you told me this,my girl.
It's a bit difficult to talk about.
I'm sorry.I didn't know that.
They sovle the problem in a peaceful way.
softening language
is too eye catching.
Mum:Oh,Tina.Don't you love my queen's dress
Tina:Not now.I'm not a little girl anymore.Everyone looks at you and laughs.
Mum:I'm sorry.I didn't know that.Now I see.I will change my clothes before I pick you up.
Tina:Thank you,Mum.I hope you're not hurt.
Mum:I am glad you told me this,my girl.
Tina:Mum,are you coming to pick me up tomorrow
Mum:Of course,Tina.Five o'clock at the school gate.
Tina:Well..But can you change your clothes before you come
Mum:Why I don't have time to change after work.I don't want to be late.
Tina:It's a bit difficult to talk about.But that is too eye-catching.
Mum:Oh,Tina.Don't you love my queen's dress
Tina:Not now.I'm not a little girl anymore.Everyone looks at you and laughs.
Mum:I'm sorry.I didn't know that.Now I see.I will change my clothes before I pick you up.
Tina:Thank you,Mum.I hope you're not hurt.
Mum:I am glad you told me this,my girl.
Learning to learn
Softening language
Some topics may hurt people's feelings easily. We can take a softer tone and use expressions like I'm sorry,but..and It's a bit difficult to talk about..to soften our language.
What can softening language do
Tip1:
★Show your worries
★Show your care
★Show your love
Imitate:
Pay attention to
your tone (语气)
What else makes Tina’ s mother accept her advice easily
is too eye catching.
Mum:Oh,Tina.Don't you love my queen's dress
Tina:Not now.I'm not a little girl anymore.Everyone looks at you and laughs.
Mum:I'm sorry.I didn't know that.Now I see.I will change my clothes before I pick you up.
Tina:Thank you,Mum.I hope you're not hurt.
Mum:I am glad you told me this,my girl.
Tina:Mum,are you coming to pick me up tomorrow
Mum:Of course,Tina.Five o'clock at the school gate.
Tina:Well..But can you change your clothes before you come
Mum:Why I don't have time to change after work.I don't want to be late.
Tina:It's a bit difficult to talk about.But that is too eye-catching.
Mum:Oh,Tina.Don't you love my queen's dress
Tina:Not now.I'm not a little girl anymore.Everyone looks at you and laughs.
Mum:I'm sorry.I didn't know that.Now I see.I will change my clothes before I pick you up.
Tina:Thank you,Mum.I hope you're not hurt .
Mum:I am glad you told me this,my girl.
Need
Reason
Feelings
Who: Mike and his father
Problem: The father is always busy and does not spend much time with Mike.
?
How do they solve the problem
Situation3: Work in pairs
Role-play
Useful expression
★It's a bit difficult to talk about,but... ★I hope you are not hurt.
★I'm glad you told me this. ★I'm sorry...
★Well,but can you... ★Thank you.
Dad,have you got a minute
Sure,Mike.What is it
It's a bit difficult to talk about,but_____________
I'm sorry.But I don't have time for that.I have to work.
Yes,I understand.But now I feel __________
Sorry ,I hope you are not hurt.Let's________________next week.
_______________I'm looking forward to it.
Tip2:
★Show his need
★Show his feelings and reasons
★Use softening language
Tina:Mum,are you coming to pick me up tomorrow
Mum:Of course,Tina.Five o'clock at the school gate.
Tina:Well..But can you change your clothes before you come
Mum:Why I don't have time to change after work.I don't want to be late.
Tina:It's a bit difficult to talk about.But that is too eye catching.
Mum:Oh,Tina.Don't you love my queen's dress
Tina:Not now.I'm not a little girl anymore.Everyone looks at you and laughs.
Mum:I'm sorry.I didn't know that.Now I see.I will change my clothes before I pick you up.
Tina:Thank you,Mum.I hope you're not hurt.
Mum:I am glad you told me this,my girl.
Situation4: Work in pairs
Can you solve the problems in your family with softening language
★It's a bit difficult to talk about,but... ★I hope you are not hurt.
★I'm glad you told me this. ★I'm sorry...
★Well,but can you... ★Thank you.
Evaluation Criteria stars
I can describe my family question clearly
I can solve problems with softening language.
I can give advice to my classmates.
Situation4: Work in groups
A:_________,have you got a minute B:Sure.What is it
A:_____________,but_____________.
B:I'm sorry.But_____________.
A:But now I feel_____________.
B:Sorry ,I hope you are not hurt.
Let's___________.
A:Really Thank you.
Tip3:
★Show your need
★Show your feelings and reasons
★Use softening language
Harmony in a family makes everything successful.
★What does the girl want to buy
★Does she get it
Her father's time
Yes, she does.
Watch and answer
There are some questions between Tina and her mother, does that mean they don’t love each other
Does that mean they don’t love each other
Think
Softening language
How to communicate with our family
Listen to each other.
Open your mind.
Voice your true feelings.
Equal to each other.
Further thinking
LOVE
Harmony in a family makes everything successful.
Harmony in a family makes everything successful
家和万事兴
Checklist Evaluation Criteria Self-evaluation
I can read and understand these dialogues.
I can play a role and solve problems.
I know the advantage of using softening language.
Tina:Mum,are you coming to pick me up tomorrow
Mum:Of course,Tina.Five o'clock at the school gate.
Tina:Well..But can you change your clothes before you come
Mum:Why I don't have time to change after work.I don't want to be late.
Tina:It's a bit difficult to talk about.But that is too eye catching.
Mum:Oh,Tina.Don't you love my queen's dress
Tina:Not now.I'm not a little girl anymore.Everyone looks at you and laughs.
Mum:I'm sorry.I didn't know that.Now I see.I will change my clothes before I pick you up.
Tina:Thank you,Mum.I hope you're not hurt.
Mum:I am glad you told me this,my girl.
Homework
Must do:
Take the notes about softening languages.
Find more family moment about your family communication.
Choose to do:
● Search for more information about “problem parents” and “ problem children”.
● B: Search for more information about softening languages.