Unit 1 Knowing me, Knowing you Understanding ideas 课件（共49张）2024-2025学年高一英语外研版（2019）必修3

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Unit 1 Knowing me, knowing you
Understanding ideas
Which kind of person are you
lonely
happy
angry
socially-awkward
Lead-in
Which kind of person are you
sociable
hospitable
careless
be good at making friends
be willing to share with people
be easy to make mistakes without enough attention
Look at the problems you may face at school. Discuss which you think is the most difficult to overcome and why.
● bad performance in a subject
● pressure to look good
● conflict with classmates
● difficulties fitting in with others
Who do you turn to for help when you face a problem
★ friends
★ parents
★ teachers
★ online forums
★ no one – you prefer to keep things to yourself
★ other ________________
Agony Aunt
Who’s Agony Aunt
An agony aunt is a British advice columnist（专栏作家） who gives advice to people who send in personal problems to the advice column of a newspaper or a magazine.
By the end of this class, you will be able to:
1.list the main points and contents of the letter and reply.
2.develop a basic attitude to dealing with interpersonal problems and emotional management--"Think before we speak".
3.apply the language learned in this passage to describing the interpersonal relationships.
Learning objectives
Dear Agony Aunt,
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Ben
Dear Ben,
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Agony Aunt
I’m in a total mess here-hope you can help me out!
What is the relationship between the two letters
The connection between the two letters.
(Paragraph1) I’m in a total mess here —hope you can help me out！
(Paragraph4) Embarrassed and ashamed, I can’t concentrate on anything. Please help!
Ask for help(求助信)
Offer help (建议信）
Choose the best summary of the letters.
1. Ben said something bad about his friend, and Agony Aunt told him
to apologize to his friend.
2. Ben was angry that his team was let down by some members, and
Agony Aunt told him to take it easy.
3. Ben didn’t play well in the match, and Agony Aunt advised him to
apologize to his teammate.
4. Ben was in an awkward situation, and Agony Aunt gave him
suggestions as to how to deal with his problems.
Read the letter from Ben to Agony Aunt and find Ben's problems and the situation he is in.
I was disappointed with my teammate,
because I felt 1.___________________
by him
I told my best friend that my teammate was to blame, just 2.______________
My best friend 3.___________________
______________ . I don't know what to do
went and told everyone
else what I'd said
to let off steam.
the team were let down
social death
Ben's problems
Ben's situation
awkward
embarrassed
ashamed
A total mess!!!
I can’t concentrate on anything!
Who do you think should be to blame What about agony aunt’s opinion
Ben
best friend
teammate
Told Ben's secret to everyone
Didn't do his best in the match.
Let off steam without thinking
Agony aunt’s analysis
There is an old American saying, “Loose lips sink ships.”
But I have to say that it’s partly your fault, isn’t it
The situation here is so much worse because
the “loose lips” is your best friend.
Para.1
Para.2
Para.3
Analysis of the problem
Pay attention to the topic sentence.
There is an old American saying, “Loose lips sink ships.”
But I have to say that it’s partly your fault, isn’t it
The situation here is so much worse because
the “loose lips” is your best friend.
Para.1
Para.2
Para.3
Analysis of the problem
general principle
specific analysis
personal reasons
Agony aunt’s analysis
Read the second letter carefully and find out Agony aunt’s solutions.
You should __________________________. You need to work together, and that means _____________________________________ and
__________________.
Tell your best friend you’re angry with him for _________________________ and __________________________, but that you want to move on.
Don’t _____________ when you’re angry. Always remember: _______________________.
apologise to your teammate
communicating with each other clearly
resolving conflicts
repeating what you said
making the situation worse
say too much
think first, speak later
apologise
talk/communicate
think
Teammate Best friend Yourself
advice
reasons
specific methods
Apologize to him.
To work together to win more basketball games.
Tell him directly and honestly that you were talking without thinking.
Talk to him.
To repair the friendship, which is one of the greatest things in the world.
Tell him you're angry but you want to move on.
Don't say too much when you're angry
Filled with anger, you tend to give people the wrong signal.
Take a deep breath, calm down and raise your concerns in a professional way.
Details about how Agony Aunt gives her suggestions.
Solutions to the problem
Read these sentences and find Agony Aunt's skills to analyze the problem.
Treated this way, you're sure to feel hurt --- we should always be able to trust those closest to us, and it hurts even more when we find we can't.
You admit that you were “letting off steam”. It is understandable in that situation, but we should always think before we speak.
Tips: Pay attention to the sentences in red.
empathy
Summarize Agony Aunt’s strategies for giving advice
Agony Aunt’s strategies for giving advice
Analysis
Solutions
Conclusion
general principle
specific analysis
personal reasons
advice
reasons
specific methods
think about other people’s feelings as well as your own
empathy
What do you think of Agony Aunt's advice？
Activity 6
表达个人情绪的词语
more formal
Language work
再次求助
信件格式
求助信
建议信
Here's what you need to do. 引出建议
First, ... Then,... Thirdly,...
衔接各建议
段落组织方式：
总——分
分析问题
解决问题
开门见山
陈述问题
恰当提出建议的方式
Using linking expressions
Using conditional structures
Think and share
What do you think about Agony Aunt’s advice What other advice would you give to Ben
If you feel awkward to communicate in person, you can write a letter/message him.
Next time do think before you speak though it’s your best friend.
...
Why not hold a party for his teammates to create a relaxing atmosphere and express his gratitude to play basketball with them.
Good and effective
think twice
What is your understanding of the saying “ Loose lips sink ships”
Something “loose” moves easily. So, loose lips move freely and release a lot of words — most likely in a careless way. If you speak carelessly (that’s the “loose lips” part) about private or sensitive information, someone could hear and use it to damage or ruin something important (a “sinking ship” is pretty bad).
The message: Be careful when you speak. Watch what you say.
Do you know any similar sayings in Chinese
言多必失
Talks much errs much.
祸从口出
Careless talk leads to trouble.
闭嘴少说，张眼多看
Shut the mouth and open the eyes.
Always remember:
1. Listening is the best respect for people.
2. Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you.
(己所不欲勿施于人)
Conclusion
Friendship should be one of the greatest things in the world.
However, sometimes it can be difficult. As a result, to maintain a good relationship with people around us, we are supposed to think first , and speak later.
Dear Agony Aunt,
I feel so terrible. One of my best friends shared his annoying experiences in a basketball match. His teammate didn't pull his weight, which made them lose the match. Disappointed by his behavior, he complained to me about what happened. I could totally understand him so I wanted to let others know his feeling and try to help him out. However, my friend thought I had a big mouth and made him embarrassed in his team. He even avoided talking to me at school.
What should I do
Simon
A letter from Simon
Try to use Agony Aunt's strategies to help him analyze and solve the problem.
I’m in a total mess here — hope you can help me out!
我现在真是一团糟 —— 希望你能帮我一把！
in a mess: a situation in which there are a lot of problems and difficulties, especially as a result of mistakes or carelessness 一团糟，处境困难
eg The economy is in a terrible mess.
经济一团糟。
【拓展】
get in / into a mess 陷入狼狈处境
make a mess (of ) （把……）弄得乱七八糟；打乱
Language points
help out: to help someone because they are busy or have problems
帮一把
eg Do you need anyone to help out in the shop
店里的事你需要有人帮一把吗？
I help out with the secretarial work.
我帮着做些秘书工作。
【拓展】
help oneself / one to sth. 为自己 / 某人取食品、饮料等
help sb. with sth. 某事上帮助某人
【语境应用】汉译英。
1) 厨房里只有一个年轻的女孩在帮忙。
2) 在那些困难的月份里他们帮了我们很多忙。
3) 如果你答应不把厨房搞得乱七八糟，你可以去做甜饼。
You can make cookies if you promise not to make a mess in the kitchen.
There was / is only a young girl helping out in the kitchen.
They helped us out a lot during those difficult months.
2. I’m crazy about basketball, and pretty good at it too, which is probably why I was so mad when we lost our last match.
which引导的非限制性定语从句，which指代前面整个主句。
why引导表语从句。
when引导时间状语从句。
句意：我酷爱打篮球，打得也很好，也许正因为如此，
在我们队输掉了最近的比赛时我想当恼怒。
3. We played well, but I felt the team were let down by one member, our point guard.
我们踢得很好，但我觉得全队都对我们的控球后卫失望了。
let down: to not do sth. that sb. trusts or expects you to do
使失望；辜负
eg She’s a great player and never lets her fans down.
她是一名不错的运动员，从未辜负过她的粉丝。
point guard (球队进攻的) 控球后卫，组织后卫
【语境应用】英汉互译。
1) We always trust those who will never let us down.
我们总是相信那些不会令我们失望的人。
2) You can trust him. He’ll never let you down.
你可以信任他，他从不会让你失望。
3) 她曾大失所望。
She had been let down badly in the past.
4) 这本书结尾多少有些让人失望。
The book is let down a little by its ending.
4. I was just letting off steam really, because I was so angry.
我只是想发泄一下，因为我太生气了。
let off steam: to get rid of your anger, excitement, or energy in a way that does not harm anyone by doing sth. active 发泄怒火;
宣泄情绪
eg When Jackie was frustrated, she let off steam by going for a run.
Jackie感到沮丧时，她通过跑步发泄情绪。
Many Internet companies encourage their workers to relax and take exercise after work to let off steam.
许多互联网公司鼓励员工在工作之余放松锻炼，从而减压。
5. Embarrassed and ashamed, I can’t concentrate on anything.
尴尬加羞愧，让我无法集中注意力。
concentrate on / upon: to give most of your attention or effort to one thing
把注意力集中于；全神贯注于
eg Be quiet — let me concentrate on my homework.
安静点——让我专心做作业。
I’m concentrating my efforts on writing my report.
我正在全神贯注写报告。
【语境应用】完成句子。
1) __________________________________ when I’m tired.
我累了就无法集中精力工作。
2) _____________________ because it is too hot.
天太热了，他无法集中精力。
I can’t concentrate on / upon my work
He can’t concentrate
6. Loose lips sink ships. 祸从口出。
Don’t speak carelessly because you never know who is listening and how they will react to what they hear.
This phrase was coined as a slogan during WWII when the US Office of War Information’s attempt to limit the possibility of people unintentionally giving useful information to enemy. The slogan was actually “Loose Lips Might Sink Ships”. It was one of several similar slogans which all came under the campaigns basic message — “Careless talk costs lives”.
7. Treated this way, you’re sure to feel hurt — we should always be able to trust those closest to us, and it hurts even more when we find we can’t.
被这样对待，你一定觉得受到了伤害——我们应该一直能够信赖最亲近的人，当我们发现他们不能信赖时，就更伤心了。
adj. very upset or unhappy 受到伤害的，痛苦的
vi. to make sb feel very upset, unhappy 伤害
hurt vt. to injure yourself or someone else 使……受到伤害
eg Rachel felt hurt and betrayed.
Rachel觉得自己受到了伤害和欺骗。
What hurts is that he never even said goodbye.
令人伤心的是，他甚至从没有道别过。
Don’t play with the knife — you might hurt yourself!
别玩刀了，会伤着你自己！
8. Tell your friend you’re angry with him for repeating what you said and making the situation worse, but that you want to move on.
告诉你的朋友，他传话的行为让情况更糟糕了，你对此很生气，但你想让事情就此过去。
当动词后接两个或两个以上由that引导的宾语从句时，第一个that可以省略，后面的that 不可省略。
move on: to start going or discussing sth new 继续前行
eg Can we move on and discuss the vital business of the day
省略了that的宾语从句一
宾语从句二，that不可省略
9. Filled with anger, you tend to say whatever comes to your mind.
满腔怒火的时候，你往往想说什么就说什么.
过去分词短语作时间状语
whatever引导的宾语从句
疑问词+ -ever除了可以引导名词性从句外，还引导让步状语从句。引导让步状语从句时可以换成 “no matter + 疑问词”。
Whoever breaks rule will be punished. (引导名词性从句)
Whoever you are, you must observe the law here.
=No matter who you are, you must observe the law here. (引导让步状语从句)
10. If you feel one of your teammates isn’t pulling their weight, then raise your concerns in a professional way with your team coach.
如果你觉得队友没有尽职尽责，那就以专业的方式向你的教练提出你的担忧。
pull one’s weight: to do one’s full share of work
做好分内事；尽责
eg Everyone has to pull their weight during a match.
比赛中每个人都必须尽职尽责。
concern n. a feeling of worry about sth. important
忧虑，担心
eg He didn’t show much concern about / for / over her business.
There is growing concern that the factory will be closed down.
concern v. to make someone feel worried or upset
使忧虑，使担心
to be important to sb. or to involve sb. directly
对(某人)很重要；与(某人)相关；涉及；关系到(某人)
eg The film concerns a man who goes to China as a doctor.
The boy’s poor health concerned his parents.
It really concerns me that he doesn’t eat properly.
【语境应用】补全句子。
There’s a lot of public _______________________________
(对道路安全的担忧).
2) She’s in hospital and her illness _______________________
(使她的父母担心) very much.
3) Don’t get involved in _________________________(跟你无关的事).
concern about / for / over road safety
concerns her parents
what doesn’t concern you
help out, let off steam, let down, in a mess,
concentrate on, pull one's weight
1.I'm happy to be able to ________an elderly woman who was struggling with her heavy bags.
2.The actors in the film didn't perform well, which _________ the audience.
3. There's no doubt that you will succeed if you _________________in your work.
4.This kind of online game is designed to enable players to _______________and then keep calm.
5. He found it hard to ___________________his work that afternoon with the noise going on.
6.It was said that Peter's room was always ________________though he was always well dressed.
help out
let down
pull your weight
let off steam
concentrate on
in a mess
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