Unit4 Why don't you talk to your parentsSection A ( 3a-3c)课件(共40张PPT)

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Unit4
Why don’t you talk to your parents
SectionA(3a-3c)
Learning objectives
1. To learn the new words and expressions: relation, communication, elder, instead, whatever, nervous, offer, explain, clear, get on with, argue with sb., offer to do sth.
2.To use different reading strategies to read and analyze
two letters;
3.To realize the importance of communication and reflect
how we can build good relations.
That’s me
Subjects
Tasks
Requests
Examinations
Scores
Sleep
STRESS
Schoolwork
Friends
Family
too much homework
too many after-school classes
have little free time
don't get enough sleep
get into a fight with...
argue with...
feel lonely and nervous
querral with parents
parents fight a lot
fight with brother
can't offer to help
have problems communicating with...
can't get on well with...
Who do you ask for help when you have problems
friends
teachers
parents
experts
strangers online
school counselor is a person who is trained to help students with both school and personal
problems.
school counselor

Robert Hunt
A school counselor
I received a letter from a teen.
Predict and answer the questions.
1.What’s the relationship between them
2.What are they doing
Maybe they are husband and wife.
They are arguing with each other.
Prediction
1. Who write the letter
3. According to the topic sentence ,we can know the first letter is about_____________on _____________
2. What can you get from the name
Fast reading
Sad and Thirteen
Sad and Thirteen .
He/She is 13 years old and he/She is sad.
scan letter 1 and answer and questions.
his problems
his family
elder brother
Dear Mr. Hunt,
My problem is that I can’t get on with my family. Relations between my parents have become difficult. They fight a lot, and I really don’t like it. It's the only communication they have. I don’t know if I should say anything to them about this. When they argue, it’s like a big, black cloud hanging over our home. Also, my elder brother is not very nice to me. He always refuses to let me watch my favorite TV show. Instead he watches whatever he wants until late at night. I don’t think this is fair. At home I always feel lonely and nervous. Is that normal
What can I do
Sad and Thirteen
Read letter 1 together then finish the chart.
About whom Problems
About his parents
About his brother
About himself
His parents fight a lot.
His elder brother is_______________________ and refuses to__________________________________
not nice to him
let him wacth his favourite shows
He feels lonely and nervous
A big,black cloud hanging over my home
unfair
Retell letter 1
Sad and Thirteen _______a letter to Mr. Hunt. He can't _________ his family. First, his parents _____ a lot. Second, his brother is not nice to him. He ________to let him watch his favorite TV show. So he always feels ________and _______ at home .
wrote
get on with
fight
refuses
nervous
lonely
Watch,read and find
This letter is about ______________
advice/solutions
Dear Sad and Thirteen,
It is not easy being your age, and it is normal to have these feelings. Why don’t you talk about these feelings with your family If your parents are having problems, you should offer to help. Maybe you could do more jobs around the house so that they have more time for proper communication. Secondly, why don’t you sit down and communicate with your brother You should explain that you don’t mind him watching TV all the time. However, he should let you watch your favorite show. I hope things will be better for you soon.
Robert Hunt
Give advice
talk about your feelings
normal
offer to help
do more jobs
properly
It’s _______to have these feelings
1. parents
advice
2. elder brother
a. Why don’t you _____________________
with them.
b. If they are having problems, you should
_____________.
c. Maybe you could
____________ around the house so they have time to communicate _______.
a. Why don’t you ____________and
____________with him
b. You should __________
you don’t mind him
________ TV all the time.
c. He should___________ your favorite show
communicate
explain
let you watch
sit down
watching
Robert Hunt
Retell letter 2
Robert Hunt says it's _______to have many problems in our life. He thinks Sad and Thirteen should ____________these feelings to his family. He should ______ to help. Secondly， he could sit down and __________________his brother. He hopes things will be better for him.
talk about
offer
communicate with
normal
Problems
Advice
Look at this letter to a magazine and the reply from Robert Hunt, a school plete the chart.
3a
can't get on with his family
＊parents fight a lot
＊elder brother isn’t nice to him
＊always feels lonely and nervous at home.
talk about these feelings with his family
＊offer to help parents
＊ sit down and communicate with his elder brother

Mr. Hunt’s Consulting Room
I have problems with … I can’t ...
You look really sad and worried...
Imagine you are at Mr. Hunt’s Consulting Room,and make a dialogue between Sad and Thirteen and Mr. Hunt.
Robert
should ___________
problems
_________
______
Sad
parents
elder brother
_____
relations
__________
______
sit down and
____________
(the only communication)
(a big, black cloud ___________ over our home )
(________ he watches whatever he wants ______...)
______that you don't mind
___________all the time
______
fight
argue
hanging
Instead
until
advice
offer to help
do more
jobs
communicate with
explain
him watching
not nice to
refuse
surface problems
(表面问题)
冰山一角
potential cause
(潜在原因)
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Why don't you talk about these feelings with your family
Schoolwork
Friends
Family
too much homework
too many after-school classes
have little free time
don't get enough sleep
get into a fight with...
argue with...
feel lonely and nervous
querral with parents
parents fight a lot
fight with brother
can't offer to help
have problems communicating with...
can't get on well with...
wall
Robert
problems
______
Sad
parents
elder brother
_____
relations
__________
______
(the only communication)
(a big, black cloud ___________ over our home )
(________ he watches whatever he wants ______...)
fight
argue
hanging
Instead
until
_________
advice
should ___________
offer to help
______
do more
jobs
sit down and
____________
communicate with
______that you don't mind
___________all the time
explain
him watching
not nice to
refuse
_________
advice
should ___________
offer to help
explain
talk to
sit down and
____________
communicate with
do more
jobs
Hammer
Why don't you talk about these feelings with them
talk to
explain to...
communicate with...
understand each other
offer to help..
share
How should we get on well with others
First, listen to each other.
Then, open your mind.
Next, voice your true feelings.
Finally, equal to each other.
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A good relation depends on
good communication.
Must do:
1. Retell the two letters according to the mind map；
2 .Write down more and more advice for Sad and Thirteen；
Have to do:
Find the ways you can do to solve the problems.
Homework
Life
By Allan Houston
Life can be good.
Life can be bad.
Life is mostly cheerful(欢乐的).
But sometimes sad.
…
Life can be dirty(丑陋的).
Life can even be painful.
But life is what you make it.
So try to make it beautiful.
…
Problems
Advice
Look at this letter to a magazine and the reply from Robert Hunt, a school plete the chart.
3a
can't get on with his family
· parents fight a lot
· elder brother is not very nice to him and treats him unfairly (e.g. won't let him watch his favorite TV show while he watches whatever he wants)
· always feels lonely and nervous at home.
· talk about these feelings with his family
· offer to help parents(e.g. do more jobs around the house so that they have more time for proper communication)
· communicate with his elder brother and let him know he doesn't mind him watching TV all the time, but he should let him watch his favorite show
talk --- _________
___________________________________.
not allow --- _____ ___________________________________.
worried --- ______ ___________________________________
get along with --- ________ ____________________________________
Group members have to communicate with each other through role-play.
He refuses to accept the invitation.
I'm always nervous when I make a speech.
We should get on well with our classmates.
Which words or phrases in the letters have the same or similar meanings as the following Write a sentence using each word or phrase.
Example：Make sth. clear --- explain Can you explain to me how to do this math problem
communicate
refuse
nervous
Get on with
3c
Dear Mr. Hunt,
My problem is that I can't get on with my family. Relations between my parents have become difficult. They fight a lot, and I really don't like it. It's the only communication they have. I don't know if I should say anything to them about this. When they argue, it's like a big, black cloud hanging over our home. Also, my elder brother is not very nice to me. He always refuses to let me watch my favorite TV show. Instead he watches whatever he wants until late at night, I don't think this is fair. At home I always feel lonely and nervous. Is that normal What can I do
Sad and Thirteen
表语从句
relation n. 关系；联系 (v. relate)
n. 交流, 沟通 (v. communicate)
定语从句
时间状语从句
hang over 悬浮于空中
be nice to sb. 对某人友好
refuse to do sth. 拒绝做
反而；代替
任何，无论什么
焦虑的；担忧的
正常的；普通的
宾语从句
Dear Sad and Thirteen,
It’s not easy being your age, and it’s normal to have these feelings. Why don’t you talk about these feelings with your family If your parents are having problems, you should offer to help. Maybe you could do more jobs around the house so that they have more time for proper communication.
Secondly, why don’t you sit down and communicate with your brother You should explain that you don’t mind him watching TV all the time. However, he should let you watch your favorite show. I hope things will be better for you soon.
Robert Hunt
1.以便
2.向某人解释某事
3.介意某人做某事
4.一直
5.悬挂在上方/笼罩
6.对某人（不）好
7.拒绝做某事
8.代替/而不是做某事
9.感觉孤单和紧张
10.主动提供帮助
11.与某人相处得好
12.已变得很僵
13.经常争吵
14.与某人争吵
so that
explain sth. to sb.
mind sb. doing sth.
all the time
hang over
be (not) nice to sb
refuse to do sth.
instead of doing sth.
feel lonely and nervous
offer to help
get on/along well with sb
have become difficult
fight a lot
argue with sb
1. My problem is that I can't get on with my family.
get on/along with sb. “和某人相处”
考点
How are you getting on with your classmates
He is a person easily to get on well with.
1) that I can't get on with ... 此处作表语, 是表语从句。
表语从句与宾语从句一样, 要用陈述语序。
2) get on/along with sb. “和某人相处”；
get on/along with sth. “在…方面取得进展”
get on/along well/badly with... “ 与……相处得(不)好”
language points
argue v.“争吵,争论” arguement n.争吵，争论
考点
2.When they argue, it's like a big, black cloud hanging over our home.
(1) argue with sb. = have an argument with sb. “与某人争论”
argue about sth. “就某事争论”
argue with sb about sth. “为某事与某人争论”
(2) hang over 挂在…之上，悬浮在…之上
The twins often argue with each other.
White clouds hang over the mountain peaks.
language points
offer ① v. 主动提出；自愿给予 ② n. 主动提出建议；报价；特价
考点
3.If your parents are having problems, you should offer to help.
offer sb. sth. = offer sth. to sb.向某人提供某事/某物
offer to do sth. 主动提出做某事
job offer 工作邀请 special offers 特价
My kids today offered to do the dishes.
language points
communicate v. 交流；沟通
考点
4.Secondly, why don’t you sit down and communicate with your brother
communicate with sb. 与某人交流
communication n. 交流；联系
Chatting online is a new way of communication for young people
I often write letters to communicate with my friends.
language points
explain v. 解释；说明
考点
5.You should explain that you don’t mind him watching TV all the time.
explain sth. to sb. 向某人解释某事
explain + 宾语从句 某人解释说…
explanation n. 解释；说明
We explained our plan to the teachers.
She didn't give any explanation for being late.
language points
6.Instead he watches whatever he wants until late at night.。
instead adv.“代替;反而;却” ,位于句首/句尾
instead of “代替” “不是...而是...”,后跟名词、代词、V-ing
instead adv.“代替;反而;却”
考点
I don’t like the red T-shirt. I will buy the yellow one instead.
He walks to the park instead of going by car.
language points
7.Instead he watches whatever he wants until late at night.。
whatever引导的从句作主语,谓语动词用单数形式。
whoever(无论谁) whenever (无论何时),
wherever(无论何地) however (无论怎样)
whatever 代词, 意为 “无论什么;任何(事物)”,
考点
Whatever I suggest, he always disagrees.
I will do whatever you wish.
Whatever I have is yours.
language points
1. Last vacation I went to Yantai. This summer I’m going to Dalian ____.
A. too B. instead C. either D. yet
2. Mary wanted an evening job that would ____ her to look after her son during the day.
A. allow B. ask C. take D. want
3. Don’t try to _____why you were late again. I no more believe you.
A. introduce B. explain C. show D. check
4.Jenny is afraid to travel by plane. She always feels __ when getting on it.
A. nervous B. interested C. relaxed D. happy
一.单项选择。
Exercise
1.有礼貌能使人们相处得很好。
Good manners can make people ____ ____ _____ _____ each other.
2.她经常用电话和妈妈交流。
She often _____________ _____ her mother on the phone.
3.她在学校常常感觉孤独和紧张。
She often feels _______ _____ _______ at school.
4.你最好去向老师解释清楚。
You'd better go and _______ _____ the teacher.
二、完成句子
get on well with
communicates with
lonely and nervous
explain to
Exercise
三、 用括号内所给词的适当形式填空。
1. My __________(old) brother helps me to play basketball every day.
2. Firstly, you should listen to your teacher carefully. ___________ (second) , you need to take notes in class.
3. I think you should sit down and have good ________________ (communicate) with your friend.
4. Betty often offers _______ (do) the housework at home.
5. They __________(argue) him into withdrawing (撤回) his complaint(投诉) .
elder/older
Secondly
communication
to do
argued
Exercise
Must do:
1. Retell the two letters according to the mind map；
2 .Write down more and more advice for Sad and Thirteen；
Have to do:
Find the ways you can do to solve the problems.
Homework
Thank You!