Section 1 Topic Talk
课时目标 1.获取并梳理听力语篇的主要信息。 2.模拟顾客与服务人员处理问题的情景，分角色表演对话。 3.总结朋友间解决矛盾的有效方法，表达个人的看法。
教材听力“三关过”
一、过词汇关
Ⅰ.词汇联想
Discuss it with your partner and write out some words which can be related to conflict and compromise.
Ⅱ.词块互译
1．尝试 ________________
2．确保 ________________
3．因……而道歉 ________________
4．对……感到生气 ________________
5．坚持；不挂断电话 ________________
6．拿起手机 ________________
7．玩手机游戏 ________________
8．设定明确的目标 ________________
9．reset the account ________________
10．check the problem ________________
11．reach the goal ________________
12．struggle with oneself ________________
13．make sb. feel guilty ________________
14．have good studying atmosphere
________________
15．concentrate on the work ________________
16．intend to do ... ________________
17．feel down ________________
18．have the courage to do ...
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二、过泛听关——听教材录音选最佳答案
听听力文本11.1，回答第1、2题。
1．How many times does the customer call the department
A．Once. B．Twice. C．Three times.
2．What is Jones' account number
A．J28760. B．J27860. C．J28076.
听听力文本11.2，回答第3至5题。
3．Why does Tim come to Mr Smith
A．To apologise for his mistakes.
B．To ask for some advice.
C．To make up his lessons.
4．What is Tim's trouble
A．He can't resist playing mobile games.
B．He can't memorize the words.
C．He can't get on well with his classmates.
5．What is Not Mr Smith's advice
A．Study in a library.
B．Ask parents to monitor.
C．Throw away the phone.
三、过精听关——依据教材听力完成句子
由听力文本11.1，完成句子。
1．That accounts department of yours doesn't know ________________________！
2．I have paid it in full but you keep sending messages to say that I need to pay immediately, otherwise ________________________.
由听力文本11.2，完成句子。
3．____________________________________ is already a sign of maturity.
4．________________ the library usually has good studying atmosphere, which will help you concentrate on your work.
5．____________________________________ will encourage me to work hard, too.
6．This is _____________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________.
强化训练“在平时”
一、听力仿真训练
听下面5段对话，回答第1至5题。
1．Why is the man angry
A．The woman broke his calculator.
B．The woman took his calculator without permission.
C．The woman didn't return his calculator on time.
2．What's the possible relationship between the two speakers
A．Friends.
B．Husband and wife.
C．Salesman and customer.
3．What do we learn about Jack
A．He speaks to the boss directly.
B．He gives orders like a boss.
C．He works there as a boss.
4．What is Lily doing
A．Dancing at the party.
B．Hiding in the washroom.
C．Talking with people.
5．Who is the man
A．The woman's doctor.
B．The woman's employer.
C．The woman's teacher.
听第6段材料，回答第6、7题。
6．What are the speakers doing
A．Travelling in France.
B．Seeing a play.
C．Attending a party.
7．Who is the man speaking to
A．His sister. B．His friend. C．An actress.
听第7段材料，回答第8至10题。
8．Why did the woman argue with Frank
A．He didn't lend her money.
B．He didn't pay her money back.
C．He didn't believe in her any more.
9．How did the woman feel after the argument
A．Excited. B．Mistrusted. C．Upset.
10．What does the man advise the woman to do
A．Send an apology to Frank.
B．Make a phone call to Frank.
C．Have a face to face talk with Frank.
二、口语交际训练
根据对话内容，从对话后的选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项，选项中有两项是多余的。
W: Hello! Mr Smith's office.
M: Oh, hello! __1__
W: I'm afraid he's not at his desk at the moment.I think he's gone out to lunch.__2___Shall I get him to call you as soon as he comes back Or do you want to leave a message
M: Actually, could you possibly give me his mobile number？__3__
W: I'm really sorry, but I am not allowed to.
M: Is there any chance of you ringing him for me and asking him to call me back
W: Certainly! I can do that for you.__4__
M: Yes, it's Sam Dalgamo.
W: OK, Sam.__5__ Goodbye.
A．It's quite urgent.
B．Any good ideas
C．He'll make the change.
D．I'll ring him straight away.
E．Could I have your name, please
F．He'll be back in about half an hour.
G．Could I speak to Mike Smith, please
1．★negotiate vi.& vt.谈判，协商
[用法感知]
①(“心理描写”佳句)To William's delighted surprise, after negotiating with the boss, he accepted his offer.
令威廉惊喜的是，经过与老板的协商，老板接受了他的请求。
②(“建议”类佳句)Learning that you want to improve your negotiation skills in the future, I am writing to offer you some advice.
得知你想在将来提高自己的谈判技巧，我写信是想给你一些建议。
[归纳点拨]
(2)negotiation n． 协商；谈判
under negotiation 在商谈中
in negotiation with ... 和……协商中
[应用融会]
(1)单句语法填空/完成句子
③We have been negotiating with the manager ____________ improving the salary.
④We are satisfied with the smoothness of the ____________ (negotiate)．
⑤He stayed in France for two weeks, ____________________________________.
他在法国待了两个星期，与一家法国公司商讨了一项协议。
(2)同义句转换
⑥He asked me to tell you that the contract was still being negotiated.
→He asked me to tell you that the contract was still ________________________.
2．★inconvenience n．不便，麻烦
[用法感知]
①(“道歉”类佳句)I apologize again to you for any inconvenience caused by my absence.
由于我的缺席给你带来的不便，我再次向你道歉。
②(2022·新高考Ⅰ卷写作)If it is not convenient for you, please let us know so that we can make adjustments accordingly to suit your schedule.
如果(这个时间)对你来说不方便的话，请告知我们，以便我们根据你的日程安排做出调整。
③To enjoy the convenience of digital payment, many senior citizens started to use smartphones.
为了享受数字支付的便利，很多老年市民开始使用智能手机。
归纳点拨 (1)convenient adj. 方便的，便利的It is convenient for sb.to do sth. 某人方便做某事(2)convenience n. [U]便利，方便；[C]便利设施for convenience 为了方便起见at one's convenience在某人方便的时候，在合适的时候
名师点津 convenient作表语时，不可用人作主语，而要用物或形式主语作主语。“当你方便的时候”应译为“When it is convenient to/for you”，而不能译为“When you are convenient”。
[应用融会]
(1)单句语法填空
④I buy this apartment for __________________ (convenient), for it is very convenient for me ____________ (take) the subway.
(2)一句多译
如果你方便的话，应该多进行户外运动，这有助于你保持良好的心态。
⑤________________________， you should do more outdoor exercise, which can contribute to you keeping up a good state of mind. (convenient)
⑥________________________， you should do more outdoor exercise, which can contribute to you keeping up a good state of mind.(convenience)
3．I'm somewhat annoyed with myself recently.
我最近有点生自己的气。
★somewhat adv.有点，有几分
[用法感知]
①(“动作描写”佳句)I felt somewhat disappointed and was about to leave when something occurred which attracted my attention.
我感到有些失望，正要离开时，发生了一件引起我注意的事情。
[易混辨析]
somehow “以某种方式”或“由于某种未知的原因”
anyhow “无论如何”，相当于 anyway
somewhat 意为“稍微，有点，有几分”，相当于a little、 rather
[应用融会] (选用上述单词填空/完成句子)
②She felt ____________ uncomfortable.
③____________， I will go back home to celebrate the Spring Festival.
④We must keep up our traditional cultures ______________.
⑤Don't worry.We can ____________________________________.
不要担心，我们可以用某种方式将失去的钱找回来。
⑥Actually, I wasn't qualified to apply for the job, ______________________.
实际上我并不具备申请这份工作的资格，但不管怎样，我还是被录用了。
⑦Many people ___________________________________________________
the negative side of the voting.
很多人对投票的消极一面感到有些困惑。
★annoyed adj.烦恼的，生气的
[用法感知]
①(“建议”类佳句)If you feel annoyed or tired, do some physical exercise to make yourself happy.
如果你感到烦恼或疲倦，做一些体育锻炼让自己感到快乐。
②You ought to behave yourself in public, or you may annoy the people around you.
你在公共场合应该举止得体，否则你可能会惹恼周围的人。
③(“心理描写”佳句)To my annoyance, he arranged for me to go to London one day a week.
让我烦恼的是，他安排我每周去伦敦一天。
[归纳点拨]
(1)be annoyed
(2)annoy vt. 使恼怒，使生气
(3)annoyance n. 厌烦；烦恼
to sb.'s annoyance 让某人恼火的是
(4)annoying adj. 讨厌的，令人气恼的
[应用融会]
(1)单句语法填空/完成句子
④I was ____________ at those ____________ things because my mind was full of ________ and those things were always ____________ me all the time.(annoy)
⑤He was beginning to ______________________________________________________
about my carelessness.
因为我粗心大意，他已经开始恼火了。
⑥I ________________________ I hadn't been invited.
我没被邀请，这真让我心烦。
(2)同义句转换
⑦It was annoying when we saw the chewing gum on the streets and the litter left in the garden.
→________________， we saw the chewing gum on the streets and the litter left in the garden.
4．I'm ashamed to admit that I really struggle with myself about playing mobile games.
我很惭愧地承认，我在玩手机游戏时真的很纠结。
★ashamed adj.内疚的，惭愧的
[用法感知]
①(“心理描写”佳句)She felt ashamed of having cheated in the exam and tears ran down her cheeks. 她为自己在考试中作弊感到羞愧万分，眼泪顺着脸颊流了下来。
②I was ashamed to tell Father that I had failed.
我惭愧地告诉父亲我失败了。
③(“建议”类佳句)Determined to be yourself, move forward, and free of shame, you will surely succeed where you once failed.
下定决心做你自己，勇往直前，不要羞愧，你一定会在你曾经失败的地方成功的。
[归纳点拨]
(1)be ashamed of 为……感到羞耻/惭愧
be ashamed to do sth. 因惭愧而不情愿做某事
be ashamed that ... 因……感到惭愧/内疚
(2)shame n. 羞愧，羞耻，惭愧；让人遗憾的事
to one's shame 让某人感到惭愧的是
What a shame! 真遗憾！
It's a shame that ... ……真遗憾
(3)shameful adj. 可耻的，丢脸的
shameless adj. 无耻的，不知羞耻的
[应用融会]
(1)单句语法填空/完成句子
④I'm ashamed ________________ (say) that I lied to her.
⑤I read those two lines over and over.I was ashamed ____________ myself.
⑥________________！ All my efforts turn out to be in vain and I almost want to give up.
真遗憾！我所有的努力都白费了，我几乎都想放弃了。
⑦________________________ you have to leave so soon.
你这么快就要走了，真遗憾。
(2)句型转换
⑧He was ashamed of his stupid mistake and dared not come to see his teacher.
→________________________， he dared not come to see his teacher.(形容词短语作状语)
5．By assigning yourself a goal, you will know what you have to finish by the end of the time.
通过给自己设定一个目标，你会知道在时间截止时你必须完成什么。
★assign vt.分配，分派，指派(任务)
[用法感知]
①(“传统文化”主题佳句)Every year is assigned an animal name according to a repeating cycle.
根据重复的循环，每年由一个动物代表。
②(“活动介绍”佳句)We were assigned to get involved in the activity to read a good book in our summer holiday, which I think was greatly meaningful.
暑假期间，(老师)安排我们参加读一本好书的活动，我认为这很有意义。
[归纳点拨]
(1)assign sb.to do sth. 指派某人做某事
assign sth.to sb.＝assign sb.sth. 分配给某人某物
assign sb.as sth. 指派某人任某一职务
assign sb.to sth. 指派某人做某项工作
(2)assignment n. 分配；任务；作业；功课
[应用融会] (单句语法填空/翻译句子)
③The two large classrooms have been assigned ____________ us.
④She is in Greece on an ____________ (assign) for one of the Sunday newspapers.
⑤他们指派了最优秀的人担任这项工作。
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⑥协议规定将版权转让给出版商。
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6．Seeing other students working hard will encourage me to work hard, too.
看到其他学生努力学习也会激励我努力学习。
感知将学语法——情态动词
句中will为情态动词。常见的情态动词还有：can、 could、 would、 should、 ought to等。
①You could make your own choice according to your particular taste.
你可以根据自己特定的口味来做选择。
②Sometimes he would come to see us.
有时他会来看我们。
③No matter what happens, we should take a positive attitude towards/to life.
无论发生什么，我们应对生活保持积极的态度。
④Some Internet buzzwords can only make sense in the context of the Internet.
有一些网络流行语只有在网络语境下才讲得通。
⑤I still feel guilty about the error in the accounts; I ought to have noticed it.
对账目中的错误我仍然感到内疚，我本应该注意到这个错误的。
7．After a while, I notice the time passing quickly and this makes me feel guilty.
过了一段时间，我发现时间过得很快，这让我感到内疚。
巩固已学语法——感官动词/使役动词
本句中含有感官动词和使役动词，分别构成“感官动词/使役动词＋宾语＋宾语补足语”结构。
[应用融会] (完成句子)
①I ________________________.
我听见他在哭。
②I ________________________ by the police.
我看见他被警察带走了。
③Paul's father __________________________________________________________ the house.
保罗的父亲让他粉刷房子。
④The boss ________________________ the letter for him yesterday.
昨天老板让秘书为他打这封信。
⑤He wants to ___________________________________________________________ tomorrow.
他明天想去检查眼睛。
培育“文化意识”
名言1 Only when all countries pursue the cause of common good, live in harmony, and engage in cooperation for mutual benefit will there be sustained prosperity and guaranteed security.— Report to the 20th National Congress of the Communist Party of China
意义 只有各国行天下之大道，和睦相处，合作共赢，繁荣才能持久，安全才有保障。——中国共产党第二十次全国代表大会报告
深意解读 People of all countries should work together to pursue dialogue and consultation, win win cooperation, exchanges and mutual learning, and build an open, inclusive, clean and beautiful world of lasting peace, universal security and common prosperity.
名言2 Peace cannot be kept by force; it can only be achieved through understanding.— Albert Einstein
意义 和平不能靠武力来维持，只有通过理解才能实现。——阿尔伯特·爱因斯坦
深意解读 Peace can be achieved through mutual understanding, not through force.We can keep peace in the world by showing consideration to all people and countries.
[拓展阅读]
Albert Einstein (1879－1955), a German born physicist who developed the special relativity and the general relativity, and received the 1921 Nobel Prize for Physics.
阿尔伯特·爱因斯坦(1879－1955)，德国物理学家，创立了狭义相对论和广义相对论，并获得了1921年诺贝尔物理学奖。
名言3 People like to say that the conflict is between good and evil.The real conflict is between truth and lies.— Don Miguel Ruiz
意义 人们常说冲突是在善与恶之间。事实上，真正的冲突是在真理和谎言之间。——唐·米格尔·鲁伊斯
深意解读 Good and evil don't really exist, because it's all a matter of how we understand the world and what we know about it.We should first try to find out the truth and what the real situation is, before we attempt to label a person or a side as good or evil.
[拓展阅读]
Don Miguel Ruiz (born in 1952), a Mexican author.
唐·米格尔·鲁伊斯(出生于1952年)，墨西哥作家。
名言4 The softest things in the world overcome the hardest things in the world.—Laozi
意义 天下之至柔，驰骋天下之至坚。——老子
深意解读 The “softest” and “hardest” mean the “nicest” and “worst”．The nice things, like saying something positive about someone, have a longer effect than something bad.So the good is stronger than the bad.
[拓展阅读]
Laozi, a Chinese philosopher of the Spring and Autumn period, the founder of Taoism and the author of the Daodejing.
老子是中国春秋时期的哲学家，道家学派的创始人和《道德经》的作者。
参与“交流探讨”
根据名言(Peace cannot be kept by force; it can only be achieved through understanding.)，结合自身领悟，针对当今世界上的不和平现象发表你的见解。
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Section 1 Topic Talk
NO.1 练听说
教材听力“三关过”
一、Ⅰ.objection; awkward; fault; apologise; understandable; claim; dispute; balance; enforcement; controversial; cooperate; justice
Ⅱ.1.have a try 2.make sure 3.apologise for 4.be annoyed with 5.hold on 6.pick up the phone 7.play mobile games
8．set a clear goal 9.重置账户 10.检查问题 11.达到目标
12．与自己内心的斗争 13.使某人感到内疚
14．有良好的学习氛围 15.集中精力于学习/工作
16．打算做…… 17.感到沮丧 18.有勇气去做……
二、1～5 CABAC
三、1.what they are doing 2.my account will be closed
3．To have the courage to acknowledge this 4.This is because
5．Seeing other students working hard
6．where you need to adopt self control and goal setting
强化训练“在平时”
一、1～5 BABBB 6～10 BABCC
附：听力材料
(Text 1)
M: What ①You borrowed my calculator without asking How could you do that You always do this, borrowing things from me without asking.And then you don't return them on time, either.
W: I'm sorry.I didn't know you could be so upset about it.
(Text 2)
M: ②Hi, Mary! Very glad to see you here.
W: ②Hi, Robert! I'm glad to see you here, too.
M: Your bike is so beautiful.Where was it made
W: In China.
(Text 3)
W: Do you get along well with Jack at the office
M: No. ③He orders everyone as if he were the boss there.
(Text 4)
W: Everybody is dancing at the party.Why is Lily in the washroom
M: ④She has a habit of hiding in the washroom while there are a lot of people around her.
(Text 5)
W: ⑤Could you give me a break once in a while You give me too much work.
M: I had no idea you were having so much trouble.Why don't you take a vacation
(Text 6)
W: Bill, please.You're annoying the people behind us!
M: I can't help it! ⑥These actors are so funny! I haven't laughed this hard for a long time.
W: During the second half, you'll need to be a lot quieter.
M: OK.OK.Hey, what's wrong Are you crying
W: I don't find that scene funny.It reminds me of a fight I had with my friend Sarah on a trip to France.I haven't spoken to Sarah since then.It was a lot like what we just saw, when the characters were at that dinner party.
M: The disagreement we saw on stage was full of humor and affection.I can see you really care about Sarah.You should give her a call.⑦You're as stubborn as Dad!
W: I really miss Sarah!
M: ⑥After the play, why don't you call her
(Text 7)
W: I had a big argument with Frank yesterday.
M: What did you argue about
W: ⑧He borrowed some money from me and I needed it back.But he said he didn't have the money yet.
M: Well, he should pay the money back.
W: Yes.⑨I got annoyed with him after that.
M: How much did you lend him
W: Not much.Maybe he thought that I mistrusted him.What should I do Shall I apologize
M: Not necessary.Talk to him about it.Close friends sometimes do have arguments.
W: OK.I will talk to him over the phone.
M: ⑩Hmm, I would meet him in person and talk to him if I were you.
W: Anyway, we should fix things up.
二、1～5 GFAED
NO.2 学新知
1．③for/about ④negotiation ⑤negotiating an agreement with a French company ⑥under negotiation
2．④convenience; to take ⑤If it is convenient for you ⑥At your convenience
3．★②somewhat ③Anyhow ④somehow
⑤get the lost money back somehow ⑥but I got it anyhow ⑦are somewhat puzzled at
★④annoyed; annoying; annoyances; annoying
⑤get very annoyed with me ⑥was really annoyed that
⑦To our annoyance
4．④to say ⑤of ⑥What a shame ⑦It's a shame that
⑧Ashamed of his stupid mistake
5．③to ④assignment ⑤They've assigned their best man to the job.
⑥The agreement assigns copyright to the publisher.
7．①heard him crying ②saw him taken away ③made him paint
④had the secretary type ⑤have his eyes examined
NO.3 习文化
Peace and development remain the main themes of the world.A world of confrontation will only bring disaster to mankind.Countries should strengthen cooperation and avoid conflicts through diplomatic channels.Only in this way can they achieve win win results.(共119张PPT)
UNIT 11 CONFLICT AND
COMPROMISE
北师英语选择性必修第四册
把握单元素养目标
主题 意识 本单元的主题是“矛盾与和解”。通过了解个体的内心冲突、邻里间的矛盾和国家间冲突等不同层面的矛盾，能够正确认识矛盾，学会积极冷静地解决矛盾，形成积极乐观的生活态度；对存在争议的社会问题能够独立自主地思考，增强批判性思维和创新性思维。
语法项目 能够理解并正确运用情态动词以及同义词。
续表
语言 输入 听 能够听懂有关生活中的冲突的信息，掌握解决冲突的表达方式。
读 阅读邻里关系的新闻报道以及战争回忆录，能够分析文章的体裁特点，总结主旨大意。
看 观看关于处理家庭纠纷的视频，思考如何处理家庭关系。
语言 写 分析议论文的观点、论据及行文结构，写一篇表达观点的议论文。
输出 说 运用所学语言知识表达自己在生活中遇到的冲突及处理这些冲突的方法，并能为他人就如何解决矛盾提出合理建议。
Section 1 Topic Talk
课时目标
1.获取并梳理听力语篇的主要信息。
2.模拟顾客与服务人员处理问题的情景，分角色表演对话。
3.总结朋友间解决矛盾的有效方法，表达个人的看法。
目 录
NO.1 练听说 / 耳熟能详需要“多磨耳”
NO.2 学新知 / 点滴积累充盈“语料库”
NO.3 习文化 / 品悟名家名言“励心志”
课时检测
练听说 / 耳熟能详需要“多磨耳”
NO.1
教材听力“三关过”
一、过词汇关
Ⅰ.词汇联想
Discuss it with your partner and write out some words which can be related to conflict and compromise.
objection
awkward
fault
apologise
understandable
claim
dispute
balance
enforcement
controversial
cooperate
justice
Ⅱ.词块互译
1．尝试 ___________
2．确保 ____________
3．因……而道歉 _____________
4．对……感到生气 ________________
5．坚持；不挂断电话 __________
have a try
make sure
apologise for
be annoyed with
hold on
6．拿起手机 __________________
7．玩手机游戏 __________________
8．设定明确的目标 _______________
9．reset the account ____________
10．check the problem ___________
11．reach the goal ___________
12．struggle with oneself __________________
pick up the phone
play mobile games
set a clear goal
重置账户
检查问题
达到目标
与自己内心的斗争
13．make sb. feel guilty __________________
14．have good studying atmosphere _________________
15．concentrate on the work ____________________
16．intend to do ... ____________
17．feel down __________
18．have the courage to do ... ________________
使某人感到内疚
有良好的学习氛围
集中精力于学习/工作
打算做……
感到沮丧
有勇气去做……
二、过泛听关——听教材录音选最佳答案
听听力文本11.1，回答第1、2题。
1．How many times does the customer call the department
A．Once. B．Twice. C．Three times.
2．What is Jones' account number
A．J28760. B．J27860. C．J28076.
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听听力文本11.2，回答第3至5题。
3．Why does Tim come to Mr Smith
A．To apologise for his mistakes.
B．To ask for some advice.
C．To make up his lessons.
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4．What is Tim's trouble
A．He can't resist playing mobile games.
B．He can't memorize the words.
C．He can't get on well with his classmates.
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5．What is Not Mr Smith's advice
A．Study in a library.
B．Ask parents to monitor.
C．Throw away the phone.
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三、过精听关——依据教材听力完成句子
由听力文本11.1，完成句子。
1．That accounts department of yours doesn't know ___________
_________ !
2．I have paid it in full but you keep sending messages to say that I need to pay immediately, otherwise ________________________.
what they
are doing
my account will be closed
由听力文本11.2，完成句子。
3．__________________________________ is already a sign of maturity.
4．______________ the library usually has good studying atmosphere, which will help you concentrate on your work.
5．________________________________ will encourage me to work hard, too.
6．This is __________________________________________________.
To have the courage to acknowledge this
This is because
Seeing other students working hard
where you need to adopt self-control and goal setting
强化训练“在平时”
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一、听力仿真训练
听下面5段对话，回答第1至5题。
1．Why is the man angry
A．The woman broke his calculator.
B．The woman took his calculator without permission.
C．The woman didn't return his calculator on time.
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2．What's the possible relationship between the two speakers
A．Friends.
B．Husband and wife.
C．Salesman and customer.
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3．What do we learn about Jack
A．He speaks to the boss directly.
B．He gives orders like a boss.
C．He works there as a boss.
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4．What is Lily doing
A．Dancing at the party.
B．Hiding in the washroom.
C．Talking with people.
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5．Who is the man
A．The woman's doctor.
B．The woman's employer.
C．The woman's teacher.
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听第6段材料，回答第6、7题。
6．What are the speakers doing
A．Travelling in France.
B．Seeing a play.
C．Attending a party.
7．Who is the man speaking to
A．His sister. B．His friend. C．An actress.
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听第7段材料，回答第8至10题。
8．Why did the woman argue with Frank
A．He didn't lend her money.
B．He didn't pay her money back.
C．He didn't believe in her any more.
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9．How did the woman feel after the argument
A．Excited. B．Mistrusted. C．Upset.
10．What does the man advise the woman to do
A．Send an apology to Frank.
B．Make a phone call to Frank.
C．Have a face-to-face talk with Frank.
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附：听力材料
(Text 1)
M: What ①You borrowed my calculator without asking How could you do that You always do this, borrowing things from me without asking.And then you don't return them on time, either.
W: I'm sorry.I didn't know you could be so upset about it.
(Text 2)
M: ②Hi, Mary! Very glad to see you here.
W: ②Hi, Robert! I'm glad to see you here, too.
M: Your bike is so beautiful.Where was it made
W: In China.
(Text 3)
W: Do you get along well with Jack at the office
M: No. ③He orders everyone as if he were the boss there.
(Text 4)
W: Everybody is dancing at the party.Why is Lily in the washroom
M: ④She has a habit of hiding in the washroom while there are a lot of people around her.
(Text 5)
W: ⑤Could you give me a break once in a while You give me too much work.
M: I had no idea you were having so much trouble.Why don't you take a vacation
(Text 6)
W: Bill, please.You're annoying the people behind us!
M: I can't help it! ⑥These actors are so funny! I haven't laughed this hard for a long time.
W: During the second half, you'll need to be a lot quieter.
M: OK.OK.Hey, what's wrong Are you crying
W: I don't find that scene funny.It reminds me of a fight I had with my friend Sarah on a trip to France.I haven't spoken to Sarah since then.It was a lot like what we just saw, when the characters were at that dinner party.
M: The disagreement we saw on stage was full of humor and affection.I can see you really care about Sarah.You should give her a call.⑦You're as stubborn as Dad!
W: I really miss Sarah!
M: ⑥After the play, why don't you call her
(Text 7)
W: I had a big argument with Frank yesterday.
M: What did you argue about
W: ⑧He borrowed some money from me and I needed it back.But he said he didn't have the money yet.
M: Well, he should pay the money back.
W: Yes.⑨I got annoyed with him after that.
M: How much did you lend him
W: Not much.Maybe he thought that I mistrusted him.What should I do Shall I apologize
M: Not necessary.Talk to him about it.Close friends sometimes do have arguments.
W: OK.I will talk to him over the phone.
M: ⑩Hmm, I would meet him in person and talk to him if I were you.
W: Anyway, we should fix things up.
二、口语交际训练
根据对话内容，从对话后的选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项，选项中有两项是多余的。
W: Hello! Mr Smith's office.
M: Oh, hello! 1
W: I'm afraid he's not at his desk at the moment.I think he's gone out to lunch. 2 Shall I get him to call you as soon as he comes back Or do you want to leave a message
M: Actually, could you possibly give me his mobile number？ 3
W: I'm really sorry, but I am not allowed to.
M: Is there any chance of you ringing him for me and asking him to call me back
W: Certainly! I can do that for you. 4
M: Yes, it's Sam Dalgamo.
W: OK, Sam. 5 Goodbye.
A．It's quite urgent.
B．Any good ideas
C．He'll make the change.
D．I'll ring him straight away.
E．Could I have your name, please
F．He'll be back in about half an hour.
G．Could I speak to Mike Smith, please
答案：1～5 GFAED
学新知 / 点滴积累充盈“语料库”
NO.2
1．★negotiate vi.& vt.谈判，协商
[用法感知]
①(“心理描写”佳句)To William's delighted surprise, after negotiating with the boss, he accepted his offer.
令威廉惊喜的是，经过与老板的协商，老板接受了他的请求。
②(“建议”类佳句)Learning that you want to improve your negotiation skills in the future, I am writing to offer you some advice.
得知你想在将来提高自己的谈判技巧，我写信是想给你一些建议。
[应用融会]
(1)单句语法填空/完成句子
③We have been negotiating with the manager ____________ improving the salary.
④We are satisfied with the smoothness of the ___________ (negotiate)．
⑤He stayed in France for two weeks, _____________________________
___________________.
他在法国待了两个星期，与一家法国公司商讨了一项协议。
for/about
negotiation
negotiating an agreement with a
French company
(2)同义句转换
⑥He asked me to tell you that the contract was still being negotiated.
→He asked me to tell you that the contract was still_________________ .
under negotiation
2．★inconvenience n．不便，麻烦
[用法感知]
①(“道歉”类佳句)I apologize again to you for any inconvenience caused by my absence.
由于我的缺席给你带来的不便，我再次向你道歉。
②(2022·新高考Ⅰ卷写作)If it is not convenient for you, please let us know so that we can make adjustments accordingly to suit your schedule.
如果(这个时间)对你来说不方便的话，请告知我们，以便我们根据你的日程安排做出调整。
③To enjoy the convenience of digital payment, many senior citizens started to use smartphones.
为了享受数字支付的便利，很多老年市民开始使用智能手机。
归纳点拨 (1)convenient adj. 方便的，便利的
It is convenient for sb.to do sth. 某人方便做某事
(2)convenience n. [U]便利，方便；[C]便利设施
for convenience 为了方便起见
at one‘s convenience在某人方便的时候，在合适的时候
名师点津 convenient作表语时，不可用人作主语，而要用物或形式主语作主语。“当你方便的时候”应译为“When it is convenient to/for you”，而不能译为“When you are convenient”。
续表
[应用融会]
(1)单句语法填空
④I buy this apartment for ______________ (convenient), for it is very convenient for me __________ (take) the subway.
(2)一句多译
如果你方便的话，应该多进行户外运动，这有助于你保持良好的心态。
convenience
to take
⑤_______________________, you should do more outdoor exercise, which can contribute to you keeping up a good state of mind. (convenient)
⑥___________________, you should do more outdoor exercise, which can contribute to you keeping up a good state of mind.(convenience)
If it is convenient for you
At your convenience
3．I'm somewhat annoyed with myself recently.
我最近有点生自己的气。
★somewhat adv.有点，有几分
[用法感知]
①(“动作描写”佳句)I felt somewhat disappointed and was about to leave when something occurred which attracted my attention.
我感到有些失望，正要离开时，发生了一件引起我注意的事情。
[易混辨析]
somehow “以某种方式”或“由于某种未知的原因”
anyhow “无论如何”，相当于 anyway
somewhat 意为“稍微，有点，有几分”，相当于a little、 rather
[应用融会] (选用上述单词填空/完成句子)
②She felt ____________ uncomfortable.
③_________, I will go back home to celebrate the Spring Festival.
④We must keep up our traditional cultures __________.
⑤Don't worry.We can ______________________________.
不要担心，我们可以用某种方式将失去的钱找回来。
somewhat
Anyhow
somehow
get the lost money back somehow
⑥Actually, I wasn't qualified to apply for the job, ________________.
实际上我并不具备申请这份工作的资格，但不管怎样，我还是被录用了。
⑦Many people _________________________ the negative side of the voting.
很多人对投票的消极一面感到有些困惑。
but I got it anyhow
are somewhat puzzled at
★annoyed adj.烦恼的，生气的
[用法感知]
①(“建议”类佳句)If you feel annoyed or tired, do some physical exercise to make yourself happy.
如果你感到烦恼或疲倦，做一些体育锻炼让自己感到快乐。
②You ought to behave yourself in public, or you may annoy the people around you.
你在公共场合应该举止得体，否则你可能会惹恼周围的人。
③(“心理描写”佳句)To my annoyance, he arranged for me to go to London one day a week.
让我烦恼的是，他安排我每周去伦敦一天。
(2)annoy vt. 使恼怒，使生气
(3)annoyance n. 厌烦；烦恼
to sb.'s annoyance 让某人恼火的是
(4)annoying adj. 讨厌的，令人气恼的
[应用融会]
(1)单句语法填空/完成句子
④I was _________ at those __________ things because my mind was full of ____________ and those things were always __________ me all the time.(annoy)
annoyed
annoying
annoyances
annoying
⑤He was beginning to __________________________ about my carelessness.
因为我粗心大意，他已经开始恼火了。
⑥I ______________________ I hadn't been invited.
我没被邀请，这真让我心烦。
get very annoyed with me
was really annoyed that
(2)同义句转换
⑦It was annoying when we saw the chewing gum on the streets and the litter left in the garden.
→___________________, we saw the chewing gum on the streets and the litter left in the garden.
To our annoyance
4．I'm ashamed to admit that I really struggle with myself about playing mobile games.
我很惭愧地承认，我在玩手机游戏时真的很纠结。
★ashamed adj.内疚的，惭愧的
[用法感知]
①(“心理描写”佳句)She felt ashamed of having cheated in the exam and tears ran down her cheeks.
她为自己在考试中作弊感到羞愧万分，眼泪顺着脸颊流了下来。
②I was ashamed to tell Father that I had failed.
我惭愧地告诉父亲我失败了。
③(“建议”类佳句)Determined to be yourself, move forward, and free of shame, you will surely succeed where you once failed.
下定决心做你自己，勇往直前，不要羞愧，你一定会在你曾经失败的地方成功的。
[归纳点拨]
(1)be ashamed of 为……感到羞耻/惭愧
be ashamed to do sth. 因惭愧而不情愿做某事
be ashamed that ... 因……感到惭愧/内疚
(2)shame n. 羞愧，羞耻，惭愧；让人遗憾的事
to one's shame 让某人感到惭愧的是
What a shame! 真遗憾！
It's a shame that ... ……真遗憾
(3)shameful adj. 可耻的，丢脸的
shameless adj. 无耻的，不知羞耻的
[应用融会]
(1)单句语法填空/完成句子
④I'm ashamed _______ (say) that I lied to her.
⑤I read those two lines over and over.I was ashamed ___ myself.
⑥_______________! All my efforts turn out to be in vain and I almost want to give up.
真遗憾！我所有的努力都白费了，我几乎都想放弃了。
to say
of
What a shame
⑦________________ you have to leave so soon.
你这么快就要走了，真遗憾。
(2)句型转换
⑧He was ashamed of his stupid mistake and dared not come to see his teacher.
→____________________________, he dared not come to see his teacher.(形容词短语作状语)
It's a shame that
Ashamed of his stupid mistake
5．By assigning yourself a goal, you will know what you have to finish by the end of the time.
通过给自己设定一个目标，你会知道在时间截止时你必须完成什么。
★assign vt.分配，分派，指派(任务)
[用法感知]
①(“传统文化”主题佳句)Every year is assigned an animal name according to a repeating cycle.
根据重复的循环，每年由一个动物代表。
②(“活动介绍”佳句)We were assigned to get involved in the activity to read a good book in our summer holiday, which I think was greatly meaningful.
暑假期间，(老师)安排我们参加读一本好书的活动，我认为这很有意义。
[归纳点拨]
(1)assign sb.to do sth. 指派某人做某事
assign sth.to sb.＝assign sb.sth. 分配给某人某物
assign sb.as sth. 指派某人任某一职务
assign sb.to sth. 指派某人做某项工作
(2)assignment n. 分配；任务；作业；功课
[应用融会] (单句语法填空/翻译句子)
③The two large classrooms have been assigned _____ us.
④She is in Greece on an ___________ (assign) for one of the Sunday newspapers.
⑤他们指派了最优秀的人担任这项工作。
_______________________________________
⑥协议规定将版权转让给出版商。
_____________________________________________
to
assignment
They've assigned their best man to the job.
The agreement assigns copyright to the publisher.
6．Seeing other students working hard will encourage me to work hard, too.
看到其他学生努力学习也会激励我努力学习。
感知将学语法——情态动词
句中will为情态动词。常见的情态动词还有：can、 could、 would、 should、 ought to等。
①You could make your own choice according to your particular taste.
你可以根据自己特定的口味来做选择。
②Sometimes he would come to see us.
有时他会来看我们。
③No matter what happens, we should take a positive attitude towards/to life.
无论发生什么，我们应对生活保持积极的态度。
④Some Internet buzzwords can only make sense in the context of the Internet.
有一些网络流行语只有在网络语境下才讲得通。
⑤I still feel guilty about the error in the accounts; I ought to have noticed it.
对账目中的错误我仍然感到内疚，我本应该注意到这个错误的。
7．After a while, I notice the time passing quickly and this makes me feel guilty.
过了一段时间，我发现时间过得很快，这让我感到内疚。
巩固已学语法——感官动词/使役动词
本句中含有感官动词和使役动词，分别构成“感官动词/使役动词＋宾语＋宾语补足语”结构。
[应用融会] (完成句子)
①I ________________.
我听见他在哭。
②I ___________________by the police.
我看见他被警察带走了。
③Paul's father _______________ the house.
保罗的父亲让他粉刷房子。
heard him crying
saw him taken away
made him paint
④The boss ______________________ the letter for him yesterday.
昨天老板让秘书为他打这封信。
⑤He wants to ______________________ tomorrow.
他明天想去检查眼睛。
had the secretary type
have his eyes examined
习文化 / 品悟名家名言“励心志”
NO.3
培育“文化意识”
名言1 Only when all countries pursue the cause of common good, live in harmony, and engage in cooperation for mutual benefit will there be sustained prosperity and guaranteed security.
— Report to the 20th National Congress of the Communist Party of China
意义 只有各国行天下之大道，和睦相处，合作共赢，繁荣才能持久，安全才有保障。——中国共产党第二十次全国代表大会报告
深意解读 People of all countries should work together to pursue dialogue and consultation, win-win cooperation, exchanges and mutual learning, and build an open, inclusive, clean and beautiful world of lasting peace, universal security and common prosperity.
名言2 Peace cannot be kept by force; it can only be achieved through understanding. — Albert Einstein
意义 和平不能靠武力来维持，只有通过理解才能实现。
——阿尔伯特·爱因斯坦
深意解读 Peace can be achieved through mutual understanding, not through force.We can keep peace in the world by showing consideration to all people and countries.
[拓展阅读]
Albert Einstein (1879－1955), a German-born physicist who developed the special relativity and the general relativity, and received the 1921 Nobel Prize for Physics.
阿尔伯特·爱因斯坦(1879-1955)，德国物理学家，创立了狭义相对论和广义相对论，并获得了1921年诺贝尔物理学奖。
名言3 People like to say that the conflict is between good and evil.The real conflict is between truth and lies.— Don Miguel Ruiz
意义 人们常说冲突是在善与恶之间。事实上，真正的冲突是在真理和谎言之间。——唐·米格尔·鲁伊斯
深意 解读 Good and evil don't really exist, because it's all a matter of how we understand the world and what we know about it.We should first try to find out the truth and what the real situation is, before we attempt to label a person or a side as good or evil.
[拓展阅读]
Don Miguel Ruiz (born in 1952), a Mexican author.
唐·米格尔·鲁伊斯(出生于1952年)，墨西哥作家。
名言4 The softest things in the world overcome the hardest things in the world.—Laozi
意义 天下之至柔，驰骋天下之至坚。——老子
深意 解读 The “softest” and “hardest” mean the “nicest” and “worst”．The nice things, like saying something positive about someone, have a longer effect than something bad.So the good is stronger than the bad.
续表
[拓展阅读]
Laozi, a Chinese philosopher of the Spring and Autumn period, the founder of Taoism and the author of the Daodejing.
老子是中国春秋时期的哲学家，道家学派的创始人和《道德经》的作者。
参与“交流探讨”
根据名言(Peace cannot be kept by force; it can only be achieved through understanding.)，结合自身领悟，针对当今世界上的不和平现象发表你的见解。
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参考答案：Peace and development remain the main themes of the world.A world of confrontation will only bring disaster to mankind.Countries should strengthen cooperation and avoid conflicts through diplomatic channels.Only in this way can they achieve win-win results.
课时检测
[语言基础训练]
Ⅰ.单句语法填空
1．The rent is a matter for _____________ (negotiate) between the landlord and the tenant.
2．Her most __________ (annoy) habit was eating with her mouth open.
3．We apologize for the delay and regret any ________________
(inconvenient) it may have caused.
negotiation
annoying
inconvenience
4．His daughter looked such a mess that he was _________ (shame) of her.
5．Her speech showed great _________ (mature) and humanity.
6．You will need to complete three written __________ (assign) per semester.
7．Mysteries and ___________ (detect) stories came second on the list at 53%.
ashamed
maturity
assignments
detective
Ⅱ.选词填空
concentrate on， sit down， pick up， struggle with， make sure， hold on， by the end of
1．____________ that you get a steady hold of the camera.
2．How many expressways will have been completed ____________
next year
3．The bus stopped so as to ___________ passengers.
Make sure
by the end of
pick up
4．_________ a minute while I get my breath back.
5．This matter could be sorted out if they would just ___________
and talk.
6．Believe it or not, that's the number of Americans who _____________ hunger.
7．How can I ______________ my study with so much noise outside
Hold on
sit down
struggle with
concentrate on
Ⅲ.完成句子
1．I hate being rejected, which will ______________________.
我讨厌被拒绝，这会让我失去自信。
2．____________________, but losing weight is difficult.
增肥是很容易的，但减肥很困难。
make me unconfident
Gaining weight is easy
3．By writing routinely you will get to know __________________
______________________.
通过日常写作，你会知道什么让你感到快乐和自信。
4．________________________, we should respect others and give them a chance to express their opinions.
为了解决冲突，我们应该尊重他人，给他们表达自己意见的机会。
what makes you feel
happy and confident
In order to solve a conflict
5．Environment is ______________, which contains the cultural and the natural environment.
环境是我们生活的地方，它包含人文和自然环境。
where we live
[语篇综合训练]
Ⅰ.阅读理解
Conflict exists in all relationships. By conflict, we specifically mean verbal disagreements and arguments. People disagree sometimes, and that isn't necessarily a bad thing — you have the right to have a different opinion from your partner(s). What's important is that you communicate effectively and in a healthy way that allows you to understand each other better and make your relationship stronger.
The Love Is Respect Youth Council is an organization created in 2020 as a way to directly engage with youth aged 12～17 to address the issues of relationships, including maintaining safety when socializing online, dealing with peer pressure at school and improving relationships with parents. Here are some tips to help resolve conflicts in a healthy way.
Find the real issue
Arguments tend to happen when your wants or needs aren't being met. Try to get to the real issue behind your argument. It's possible that you or your partner are feeling insecure or you aren't being treated respectfully, and are expressing those feelings through arguments over unrelated things. Learn to talk about the real issue, so you can avoid constant fighting that may keep you away from the heart of the problem.
Compromise when possible
Compromise is a major part of conflict resolution and any successful relationship, but it can be hard to actually achieve. Take turns making decisions about things like what to eat for dinner, or find a middle ground that allows you both to feel satisfied with the outcome.
Consider it all
If the issue you're arguing over changes how you feel about each other or forces you to compromise your beliefs or morals, it's important that you stress your position. If not, consider your partner's views on the issue, why they're upset, and if compromise is appropriate. Try to contextualize your arguments to give each other room to express your feelings.
Hope these tips are helpful. If you need more information, click here.
语篇解读：本文是一篇应用文。文章主要介绍了The Love Is Respect Youth Council提供的一些解决冲突的方法。
1．To find the real issue, what should you do
A．Have open conversations.
B．Avoid arguments.
C．Seek for common ground.
D．Sacrifice your interests.
√
解析：细节理解题。根据Find the real issue部分中的“Learn to talk about the real issue, so you can avoid constant fighting that may keep you away from the heart of the problem.”可知，为找到真正的问题，应该进行公开的对话。
2．When dealing with conflict, what are you likely to do
A．Break down the issue into small parts.
B．Argue over the issue with your partner.
C．Change how you feel about each other.
D．Put yourself in others' shoes to examine the issue.
√
解析：细节理解题。根据Consider it all部分中的“If not, consider your partner's views on the issue, why they're upset, and if compromise is appropriate.”可知，在处理冲突时，站在对方的立场审视一下问题。
3．What can make you turn to the organization
A．Uncertainty about the safety of a specific website.
B．Curiosity about how to improve math grade.
C．Argument with classmates over a group project.
D．Struggle to stop social media addiction.
√
解析：细节理解题。根据第二段中的内容可知，The Love Is Respect Youth Council组织旨在解决包括在网上社交时保持安全，应对学校的同伴压力，以及改善与父母的关系的人际关系问题，由此可知，当与同学就小组项目发生争执时可以寻找组织帮忙。
Ⅱ.阅读七选五
A Few Tips for Self-Acceptance
We all want it to accept and love ourselves. But at times it seems too difficult and too far out of reach. Where do you start 4
· 5 Do not follow the people who make you feel not-good-enough. Why do you follow them Are you hoping that eventually you will feel empowered because your life is better than theirs Know that your life is your own; you are the only in this world.
·Forgive yourself for mistakes that you have made. We are often ashamed of our shortcomings, our mistakes and our failures. 6 You will make mistakes, time and time again. Rather than getting caught up in how you could have done better, why not offer yourself a compassionate (有同情心) response “That didn't go as planned. But, I tried my best.”
·Recognize all of your strengths. Write them down in a journal. Begin to train your brain to look at strength before weakness. List all of your accomplishments and achievements. You have a job, earned your degree, and you got out of bed today. 7
·Now that you've listed your strengths, list your imperfections. Turn the page in your journal. Put into words why you feel unworthy, why you don't feel good enough. Now, read these words back to yourself. 8 Skip the pages saying you're not good. Turn to a page in your journal to your list of strengths and achievements. See how awesome you are
A．Feeling upset again
B．Nothing is too small to celebrate.
C．Remember, you are only human.
D．Set an intention for self-acceptance.
E．Stop comparing yourself with others.
F．When does the comparison game start
G．Here's a handful of ways that will set you in the right direction.
语篇解读：本文是一篇说明文。文章主要介绍了接受并爱我们自己的方法。
4．解析：选G 根据上文“We all want it to accept and love ourselves. But at times it seems too difficult and too far out of reach. Where do you start ”可知，下文将介绍方向。故G项(这里有一些方法可以让你朝着正确的方向前进)承上启下，符合语境。
5．解析：选E 根据下文“Do not follow the people who make you feel not-good-enough.”可知，本段的主题是不要与他人进行比较。故E项(停止将自己与他人进行比较)引出下文，符合语境。
6．解析：选C 根据下文“You will make mistakes, time and time again ”可知，作者在此处强调作为普通人犯错是正常的，要懂得原谅自己的错误。故C项(记住，你只是普通人)衔接下文，符合语境。
7．解析：选B 根据上文“List all of your accomplishments and achievements. You have a job, earned your degree, and you got out of bed today.”可知，生活中所有的成就都是可以让人认识到自己的长处的。故B项(没有什么事情小到不值得庆祝)承接上文，符合语境。
8．解析：选A 根据上文“Now, read these words back to yourself.”及下文“Skip the pages saying you're not good.”可知，是因为自己不够好的那些方面会让自己觉得心烦意乱，所以作者建议跳过去。故A项(又心烦意乱了？)承上启下，符合语境。UNIT 11 课时检测(一) Topic Talk
[语言基础训练]
Ⅰ.单句语法填空
1．The rent is a matter for ____________ (negotiate) between the landlord and the tenant.
2．Her most ____________ (annoy) habit was eating with her mouth open.
3．We apologize for the delay and regret any ________ (inconvenient) it may have caused.
4．His daughter looked such a mess that he was ____________ (shame) of her.
5．Her speech showed great ____________ (mature) and humanity.
6．You will need to complete three written ____________ (assign) per semester.
7．Mysteries and ____________ (detect) stories came second on the list at 53%.
Ⅱ.选词填空
concentrate on, sit down, pick up, struggle with, make sure, hold on, by the end of
1．________________ that you get a steady hold of the camera.
2．How many expressways will have been completed ________________ next year
3．The bus stopped so as to ________________ passengers.
4．________________ a minute while I get my breath back.
5．This matter could be sorted out if they would just ________________ and talk.
6．Believe it or not, that's the number of Americans who ________________ hunger.
7．How can I ________________ my study with so much noise outside
Ⅲ.完成句子
1．I hate being rejected, which will ____________________________________.
我讨厌被拒绝，这会让我失去自信。
2．________________________________________________________________________, but losing
weight is difficult.
增肥是很容易的，但减肥很困难。
3．By writing routinely you will get to know ______________________________________
________________________________________________________________________.
通过日常写作，你会知道什么让你感到快乐和自信。
4．________________________， we should respect others and give them a chance to express their opinions.
为了解决冲突，我们应该尊重他人，给他们表达自己意见的机会。
5．Environment is ________________， which contains the cultural and the natural environment.
环境是我们生活的地方，它包含人文和自然环境。
[语篇综合训练]
Ⅰ.阅读理解
Conflict exists in all relationships. By conflict, we specifically mean verbal disagreements and arguments. People disagree sometimes, and that isn't necessarily a bad thing — you have the right to have a different opinion from your partner(s). What's important is that you communicate effectively and in a healthy way that allows you to understand each other better and make your relationship stronger.
The Love Is Respect Youth Council is an organization created in 2020 as a way to directly engage with youth aged 12～17 to address the issues of relationships, including maintaining safety when socializing online, dealing with peer pressure at school and improving relationships with parents. Here are some tips to help resolve conflicts in a healthy way.
Find the real issue
Arguments tend to happen when your wants or needs aren't being met. Try to get to the real issue behind your argument. It's possible that you or your partner are feeling insecure or you aren't being treated respectfully, and are expressing those feelings through arguments over unrelated things. Learn to talk about the real issue, so you can avoid constant fighting that may keep you away from the heart of the problem.
Compromise when possible
Compromise is a major part of conflict resolution and any successful relationship, but it can be hard to actually achieve. Take turns making decisions about things like what to eat for dinner, or find a middle ground that allows you both to feel satisfied with the outcome.
Consider it all
If the issue you're arguing over changes how you feel about each other or forces you to compromise your beliefs or morals, it's important that you stress your position. If not, consider your partner's views on the issue, why they're upset, and if compromise is appropriate. Try to contextualize your arguments to give each other room to express your feelings.
Hope these tips are helpful. If you need more information, click here.
1．To find the real issue, what should you do
A．Have open conversations.
B．Avoid arguments.
C．Seek for common ground.
D．Sacrifice your interests.
2．When dealing with conflict, what are you likely to do
A．Break down the issue into small parts.
B．Argue over the issue with your partner.
C．Change how you feel about each other.
D．Put yourself in others' shoes to examine the issue.
3．What can make you turn to the organization
A．Uncertainty about the safety of a specific website.
B．Curiosity about how to improve math grade.
C．Argument with classmates over a group project.
D．Struggle to stop social media addiction.
Ⅱ.阅读七选五
A Few Tips for Self Acceptance
We all want it to accept and love ourselves. But at times it seems too difficult and too far out of reach. Where do you start __4__
·__5__ Do not follow the people who make you feel not good enough. Why do you follow them Are you hoping that eventually you will feel empowered because your life is better than theirs Know that your life is your own; you are the only in this world.
·Forgive yourself for mistakes that you have made. We are often ashamed of our shortcomings, our mistakes and our failures. __6__ You will make mistakes, time and time again. Rather than getting caught up in how you could have done better, why not offer yourself a compassionate (有同情心) response “That didn't go as planned. But, I tried my best.”
·Recognize all of your strengths. Write them down in a journal. Begin to train your brain to look at strength before weakness. List all of your accomplishments and achievements. You have a job, earned your degree, and you got out of bed today. __7__
·Now that you've listed your strengths, list your imperfections. Turn the page in your journal. Put into words why you feel unworthy, why you don't feel good enough. Now, read these words back to yourself. __8__ Skip the pages saying you're not good. Turn to a page in your journal to your list of strengths and achievements. See how awesome you are
A．Feeling upset again
B．Nothing is too small to celebrate.
C．Remember, you are only human.
D．Set an intention for self acceptance.
E．Stop comparing yourself with others.
F．When does the comparison game start
G．Here's a handful of ways that will set you in the right direction.
UNIT 11 课时检测(一)
[语言基础训练]
Ⅰ.1.negotiation 2.annoying 3.inconvenience 4.ashamed 5.maturity 6.assignments 7.detective
Ⅱ.1.Make sure 2.by the end of 3.pick up 4.Hold on
5．sit down 6.struggle with 7.concentrate on
Ⅲ.1.make me unconfident 2.Gaining weight is easy
3．what makes you feel happy and confident
4．In order to solve a conflict 5.where we live
[语篇综合训练]
Ⅰ.阅读理解
语篇解读：本文是一篇应用文。文章主要介绍了The Love Is Respect Youth Council提供的一些解决冲突的方法。
1．选A 细节理解题。根据Find the real issue部分中的“Learn to talk about the real issue, so you can avoid constant fighting that may keep you away from the heart of the problem.”可知，为找到真正的问题，应该进行公开的对话。
2．选D 细节理解题。根据Consider it all部分中的“If not, consider your partner's views on the issue, why they're upset, and if compromise is appropriate.”可知，在处理冲突时，站在对方的立场审视一下问题。
3．选C 细节理解题。根据第二段中的内容可知，The Love Is Respect Youth Council组织旨在解决包括在网上社交时保持安全，应对学校的同伴压力，以及改善与父母的关系的人际关系问题，由此可知，当与同学就小组项目发生争执时可以寻找组织帮忙。
Ⅱ.阅读七选五
语篇解读：本文是一篇说明文。文章主要介绍了接受并爱我们自己的方法。
4．选G 根据上文“We all want it to accept and love ourselves. But at times it seems too difficult and too far out of reach. Where do you start ”可知，下文将介绍方向。故G项(这里有一些方法可以让你朝着正确的方向前进)承上启下，符合语境。
5．选E 根据下文“Do not follow the people who make you feel not good enough.”可知，本段的主题是不要与他人进行比较。故E项(停止将自己与他人进行比较)引出下文，符合语境。
6．选C 根据下文“You will make mistakes, time and time again ”可知，作者在此处强调作为普通人犯错是正常的，要懂得原谅自己的错误。故C项(记住，你只是普通人)衔接下文，符合语境。
7．选B 根据上文“List all of your accomplishments and achievements. You have a job, earned your degree, and you got out of bed today.”可知，生活中所有的成就都是可以让人认识到自己的长处的。故B项(没有什么事情小到不值得庆祝)承接上文，符合语境。
8．选A 根据上文“Now, read these words back to yourself.”及下文“Skip the pages saying you're not good.”可知，是因为自己不够好的那些方面会让自己觉得心烦意乱，所以作者建议跳过去。故A项(又心烦意乱了？)承上启下，符合语境。
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