Exercise For Unit 12 Book 5
一、单项选择：
( ) 1. Mum, my _______ are too short. Will you buy me a new pair?
A. trousers B. glasses C. clothes D. socks
( ) 2. She’s back from Australia, _______ she?
A. wasn’t B. doesn’t C. isn’t D. hasn’t
( ) 3. A _______ can do almost anything for man, but it can’t take the place of man. It has, though, changed the world a lot.
A. e-mail B. Internet C. computer D. mobile phone
( ) 4. During winter vacation, I _______ sleeping late.
A. used to B. was used for C. was used to D. use to
( ) 5. You _______ shake hands when you meet someone for the first time in China.
A. would like to B. are supposed to C. want to D. will
( ) 6. －－Could you let me know ________ yesterday?
－－Because the traffic was bad.
A. why did you come late B. why you came late.
C. why do you come late D. why you come late
( ) 7. I believe scientists will _________ a way to beat AIDS.
A. get on with B. come up with C. go on with D. catch up with
( ) 8. Everyone is supposed ________ a seat belt in the car.
A. wearing B. to wear C. to be worn D. wear
( ) 9. －Is ________ ready for dinner?
－No, the table hasn’t been set yet.
A. anything B. everything C. something D. nothing
( ) 10. He is ________. Could you pass _______ a glass of water, please?
A. tired; his B. angry; mine C. thirsty; him D. hungry; me
二、翻译句子：
我第一次在西方的餐馆里吃饭时根本不知道该怎么做。
When I __________ ate in a ______________ restaurant, I didn’t know __________ I
was ____________ to do at all.
你可以想象的到这儿的餐桌礼仪和我们那儿的有多么不一样。
You can _____________ how different the table manners here are _____________ ours.
我现在感觉说法语很自然。
I’m very comfortable ______________ ________________ now.
我正在逐渐适应这里的一切。
I’m gradually ___________ _____________ ____________ things here.
吃完食物后应该用餐巾擦嘴。
You are supposed to ___________ your mouth ___________ your napkin after eating.
瑞士人从来不会事先不打电话就去朋友家拜访。
People in Switzerland ___________ visit a friend’s house ___________ ___________ first.
有困难的人应当设法摆脱困境。
People ________ ___________ should try their best to ___________ _________ of trouble.
三、完形填空：
A
Manners（礼貌）are important to happy relations （关系）among people. No one 1 a person with bad manners. A 2 with good manners never laughs at people when they are in trouble. Instead, he 3 to help them. When he asks for something, he says “ 4 . ”And when he receives something, he 5 says “Thank you”. He does not interrupt（打扰） 6 people when they are talking. He does not talk loudly or laugh loudly 7 public. When he sneezes or spits（吐痰）, he uses a 8 . If you are late, you 9 make an apology （道歉）to the teacher either at the time 10 after class.
( ) 1. A. thinks B. likes C. hates D. loves
( ) 2. A. boy B. man C. person D. give
( ) 3. A. tries B. wants C. has D. enjoys
( ) 4. A. Give me B. Please C. Yes D. Hello
( ) 5. A. never B. sometime C. usually D. still
( ) 6. A. every B. some C. his D. other
( ) 7. A. on B. at C. of D. in
( ) 8. A. book B. cup C. handkerchief D. hand
( ) 9. A. should B. will C. could D. may
( ) 10. A. or B. nor C. and D. but
四、阅读理解：
A
Sometimes people add to what they say even when they don't talk．Gestures（手势、姿势）are the “silent language” of every culture（文化）．We point a finger or move another part of the body to show what we want to say．It is important to know the body language of every country or we may be misunderstood． In the United States，people greet each other with a handshake in a formal introduction．The handshake must be firm．If the handshake is weak，it is a sign of weakness or unfriendliness．Friends may place a hand on the other's arm or shoulder．Some people，usually women，greet a friend with a hug（拥抱）． Space is important to Americans．When two people talk to each other，they usually stand about two and a half feet away and at an angle，so they are not facing each other directly．Americans get uncomfortable when a person stands too close．They will move back to have their space．If Americans touch another person by accident，they say “Pardon me” or “Excuse me”． Americans like to look at the other person in the eyes when they are talking．If you don't do so，it means you are bored，hiding something，or are not interested．But when you stare at someone，it is not polite．
For Americans，thumbs-up means yes，very good，or well done．Thumbs-down means the opposite．To call a waiter，raise one hand to head level or above．To show you want the check，make a movement with your hands as if you are signing a piece of paper．It is all right to point at things but not at people with the hand and index finger（食指）．Americans shake their index finger at children when they scold them and pat them on the head when they admire them． Learning a culture's body language is sometimes confusing（使糊涂的）．If you don't know what to do，the safest thing to do is to smile．
( ) 1．From the first paragraph we can learn that ________．
A．gestures don't mean anything while talking B．gestures can help us to express ourselves
C．we can learn a language well without body language
D．only American people can use gestures
( ) 2．If you are introduced to a stranger from the USA，you should _______．
A．greet him with a hug B．place a hand on his shoulder
C．shake his hand firmly D．shake his hand weakly
( ) 3．In the United States，people often ________．
A．show their friendship by touching each other
B．show their friendship by glancing at each other
C．say “Pardon me” to each other when they are talking
D．get uncomfortable when you stand close to them
( ) 4．If you talk with an American friend，it's polite to ________．
A．look up and down at your friend B．look at the other person in the eyes
C．hide your opinion D．look at your watch now and then
( ) 5．When your friend gives you the thumbs-up，he，in fact，________．
A．shows his rudeness to you B．shows his anger to you
C．expresses his satisfaction to you D．expresses his worries about you
B
Before you go to another country, it is a great help if you know the language and some of the customs of the country.
When people meet each other for the first time in Britain, they say "How do you do?" and shake hands. Usually they do not shake hands after they haven't met for a long time or when they will be away from each other for a long time.
Last year as groups of German students went to England for a holiday. Their teacher told them that the English people hardly shake hands. So when they met their English friends at the station, they kept their hands behind their backs. The English students had learned that the Germans shake hands as often as possible, so they put their hands in front and got ready to shake hands with them. It made both of them laugh.
( ) 1. It is if you know the language and some of the customs of the country.
A. very sad B. very helpful C. very useless D. not helpful
( ) 2. Usually English people don't shake hands.
A. when they say “How do you do?"
B. when they won't be away for a long time
C. after they haven't met for a long time
D. when they just meet or say goodbye
( ) 3. English people usually shake hands when they.
A. meet for the first time B. meet every time
C. say goodbye to each other D. say hello to each other
( ) 4. Which is right?
A. Neither English people nor Germans like shaking hands.
B. German people hardly shake hands.
C. English people like shaking hands very much.
D. German people shake hands as often as possible.
( ) 5. This story is about .
A. customs B. shaking hands
C. languages D. languages and customs
C
Do you like Christmas Day? In most western countries it is the most important day in the year. All the people come back to their homes to have the day with their parents or their children.
On Christmas Day bells ring everywhere. The ringing bells tell people: Christmas is coming. People sing and dance day and night. They have a good time.
Most families buy a Christmas tree for their children. And there are presents hanging from the tree here and there. People also put presents in their children's stockings. In many places Father Christmas himself brings presents to them. He is a kind old man. He's in red clothes, with a big bag on his back. In the bag there are a lot of presents.
Christmas is also a day when people enjoy all kinds of food. But some poor people still have no homes to go back to and have no food to eat. They even die of cold and hunger on Christmas Day. Have you read the story "A Little Match Girl"? She died on the morning of Christmas Day.
根据文章内容判断正误
( ) 1. People usually plant Christmas trees in the gardens.
( ) 2. Christmas Day is a Children's Day.
( ) 3. Some poor people don't have homes to go back to and don't have food to eat.
( ) 4. Children like Father Christmas because he brings beautiful things to them.
( ) 5. "A little Match Girl" was born on the morning of Christmas Day.
D
Do as the Romans Do
The customs in different countries are rather different. If I have dinner with a Chinese host, he always puts more food onto my plates as soon as I have emptied it. That often discomforts me greatly. I have to eat the food even if I don’t want to, because it is considered bad manners in the West to leave one’s food on the plate. I have already noticed that when a Chinese sits at an American’s dinner party, he very often refuses the offer of food or drink though he is in fact still hungry or thirsty. This might be good manners in China, but it is not in the West at all. In the United States, it is impolite to keep asking someone again and again or insist on his accepting something. Americans have a direct way of speaking. If they want something, they will ask for it. If not, they will say, “No, thanks.”When an American is fed with beer by the host, for example, he might say, “No, thanks. I’ll take some diet, Pepsy-Cola（百事可乐）if you have it. ”That is what an American will do. So when you go to the United States, you had better remember the famous saying: When in Rome, do as the Romans do.
( ) 1. From the passage, we can know that the Chinese are usually ________ to the guests.
A. very hot B. rude C. impolite D. cold
( ) 2. When a foreigner has dinner with a Chinese host, he often feels _______.
A. pleasant B. uncomfortable C. satisfied D. happy
( ) 3. Why does a Chinese often refuse the offer of food or drink at a dinner party?
A. He has had enough. B. He is shy.
C. He is afraid that others will laugh at him. D. He thinks it’s polite to do that.
( ) 4. When an American wants something to eat or drink at a dinner, he will _______.
A. ask for it boldly B. refuse the offer C. ask for it directly D. express himself indirectly
( ) 5. “When in Rome, do as the Romans do”means “________”.
A. When you got to Rome, you should act as the Romans do
B. When you stay in Rome, you should do as the Romans do
C. When you are in a new country, you should do as the locals do
D. Romans can be an example for you
五、Writing: Read this passage first.
The Advice On Gift Giving
You should be careful in the giving of gifts. NEVER give a gift in a job interview or prior to(在…之前) a business meeting. Gifts are usually given during special holidays, or as “thank yous" for special invitations or events. At the time of arriving to a special event or social gathering, you may present your gift to the host once the introductions are made. With gift giving, a few rules are in order:
Be modest（谦虚的）with your gift; do not buy expensive or extravagant（挥霍的）gifts
Perishable gifts (a special food from your country, a bottle of wine, candy, flowers) are best if you do not personally know the host very well, but be sure that your gift will not require immediate attention. Your host will be very busy, and you should avoid adding another task to his or her evening. You can usually say something like, "I thought you would like this a little later" when you offer your gift. Be careful of giving alcohol; a bottle of wine is usually all right if you know your host drinks wine, but hard liquor (whisky, scotch, etc) should only be given as gifts only when you know the host and are certain that they would welcome such a gift; Flowers are good, but remember: roses are for personal relationships. Do Not Give roses. Cut flowers are nice if they are in a vase;
A small cultural gift from your country is usually very appropriate(恰当的)
Make sure your gift is packaged nicely, with a nice card attached to it.
Answer the following questions according to the passage above.
When are people supposed to give gifts?
___________________________________________________
What kind of gifts is best if you do not personally know the host very well? ( give some examples.)
___________________________________________________
In what situation will alcohol be proper(合适的) as a gift?
__________________________________________________
How can you make it proper for your host not to open your gift immediately?
__________________________________________________
Expensive or extravagant gifts are not proper according to the writer, why?
__________________________________________________
2. Write about the custom on how to give gifts, you can use the information given above.
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课件55张PPT。Unit 12
You're supposed to shake hands北达资源中学初三备课组Related topicsUnit 12 Book 2: Don’t eat in class!
Unit 2 Book 3: What’s the matter?
Unit 2 Book 4: What should I do?
Unit 8 Book 4: Why don’t you get her a scarf?
Unit 1 Book 5: How do you study for a test?
Unit 3 Book 5: Teenagers should be allowed to choose their own clothes.
Unit 4 Book 5: What would you do?
Unit 12 Book 5: You’re supposed to shake hands.----Rules and suggestionsRelated expressionsDo sth, please.
Don’t do sth.
You can do sth.
You should do sth.
You could do sth.
You need to do sth.
Why don’t you do sth.?
Why not do sth.?
What / How about doing sth.?
You’d better do sth.
If I were you, I would do sth.
You are supposed to do sth.Target languagesSection A:
Shake hands
Be supposed to do sth
(in) the wrong way
Make mistakes
Be relaxed about sth.
Drop by
Make plans to do sth.
Be on time
After all
Plan to do sth.Section B
Pick up
Wipe one’s mouth
Make a noise
Go out of one’s way to do sth.
Make sb. feel at home
Be used to sth
Cut up
Make a toast
Table mannersYou’re supposed to do sth.
It’s polite to do sth.
It’s rude to do sth.
be / get used to sth. / doing sth.Key structuresGrammar focus---What are you supposed to do when you meet someone?
---You are supposed to kiss. / You are not supposed to shake hands.
---What are people in Korea to do when they meet for the first time?
---They are supposed to bow.
---When were you supposed to arrive?
---I was supposed to arrive at 7:00.
---You should have asked what you were supposed to wear.Question If you are introduced to someone from a foreign country, how do you greet him or her? Lead-inWhere do people do these things when they first meet?KissHug Bow Shake hands?People in ______________________ kiss each other when they meet.People in ______________________ bow to each other when they meet.People in ______________________ shake hands with each other when they meet.People in _______________ hug each other when they meet.France, Brazil …Japan, Korea …China, America …German, Italy …CULTURE?? shaking hands：You should shake hands with others with a smile. At the same time you shouldn’t wear hats or gloves when you do this. Usually, the time of shaking hands should last no more than 3 seconds. It is polite to wait for the ladies, the leaders or the old to show their hands first, then you can shake with them. bow：When you bow to others, you should stand at attention and take off your hat to show your respect.
kiss: If you meet a friend or relative in some European countries, you can greet him or her with a hug or a kiss on the cheeks. If you are a couple, you can hug and kiss, but if you are parents and children, you just kiss on the face or forehead. If you are brothers or sisters, you just kiss on the cheeks.CULTURERelated names of countries1a. Match the countries and customs: Countries Customs
_____ Brazil
_____ the united states a. bow
_____ Japan b. shake hands
_____ Mexico c. kiss
_____ Korea c
b
a
b
aSection ASection ADialogue PractisingHug, make a salute, kiss one’s hand, bow to/before sb. kneel on one’s knee …Language points：
be supposed to do 被期望或要求做…； 应该做…
be not supposed to do 不被许可做…
Everyone is supposed to know the law.
We’re not supposed to play basketball in the classroom.Pre -listeningWhat can you see in the picture?
Where do you think they were?
What do you think was happening to the girl?Check Maria’s mistakes
_____ arrived late
_____ ate the wrong food
_____ greeted Paul’s mother the wrong way
_____ wore the wrong clothes???2a2bListen and fill in the blanks:Marie: I was supposed to ________________, but I arrived at 8:00
Marie: In my country it’s different. When you are invited for 7:00,
you are supposed to ___________________.
Dan: And you were supposed to _____________________instead.
Dan: I guess you should have asked what you were supposed to
____________. arrive at 7:00
come later
shake hands
wear Listen to the conversation and fill in the blanksA: Hi Maria. How was Paul’s party?
B: Oh, Dan, it was a _____________.
A: It was?
B: Uh-huh.
A: What ____________?
B: Well, I was supposed to _________at 7:00 but I _______ at __________.
A: Oh, so you were _________.
B: Yeah, but in my country it’s __________. When you’re ________ for 7:00, you’re supposed to come ___________.
A: I see.disasterdifferentlate8:00arrivehappenedarrivedlaterinvitedB : Then when I met Paul’s mom, I ______ her.
A: And you were supposed to ___________
instead.
B: That’s right. And I _______ a fancy dress.
A: What’s wrong with that?
B: Well, it was a _________. Everyone else was _________ a T-shirt and jeans.
A: I guess you should ____________what you __________supposed to wear.have askedwearingbarbecueworeshake handskissedwereFill in the chart according to the dialogue:Pair work:
Role play a conversation about the dialogue we just heard:A: How was the dinner at Paul’s house last night?
B: Well, it was OK. But I made some mistakes. I
was supposed to arrive at 7:00,but I arrives at
8:00.3aRead the following opinions and fill in the chart:SA-3bThey’re pretty relaxed about time. It’s OK if they arrive a bit lateIt’s important to be on time. If you’re late, friends may get angry.They often just drop by their friends’ homes.They never visit a friend’s house without calling firstThey don’t have to make plans when they meet their friendsThey usually make plans to see friends. They usually plan to do something interesting In the west, it’s regarded as polite to open gifts as soon as they are given to express appreciation. But in China, if you did that, you might be thought greedy (贪婪的). So Chinese people tend to open the gifts after the visitors have left. !What’s wrong with Zhang?
A: Did you have a good time at Zhang’s birthday party?
B: Oh, yes. But I was a bit hurt about the way they treated
my present. I gave Zhang the latest tapes from the U.K.
as a birthday present when I got inside the door and what
do you think happened?
A: What?
B: Nothing. They only said thank you but then just put them
away in a corner. I really didn’t know why, didn’t they like
them?
A: Oh, That’s misunderstandingSA-4What are you supposed to do when you meet the teacher in China? You are supposed to greet the teacher first. greet him or her “Hello, teacher.” What are you supposed to do when you meet the teacher in the west? You are supposed to greet the teacher according to the situation You are not supposed to greet him or her “Hello, teacher.” but You are supposed to call them “Hello, professor …”What are you supposed to do when friends give you presents in China? You are supposed to put it away first, then open it after the guest leave. You are not supposed to open it at once because you would look greedy if you did that.
What are you supposed to do when friends give you presents in the west? You are supposed to open it at once to show your appreciation. You are not supposed to put it away, it’s impolite to the guests.CultureDo you know some differences between different cultures?Section B1. True?
Or false?2a. Listen and number the pictures in the order Satoshi talks about them.12342b. Listen again. Match these sentence parts:___ 1. You are supposed to… a. to make noise while eating noodles
___ 2. It’s polite… b. to stick your chopsticks into your food.
___ 3. It’s rude… c. point at anyone with your chopsticks.
___ 4. You shouldn’t… d. eat or drink while walking down the street. d
a
b
cCan you tell us something about Steve and Japan? 1. Where will Steve go tomorrow?
2. How does he feel?
3. What’s the matter?
4. Why people are supposed to make noise when they are eating in Japan?
5. Who is allowed to talk at dinner table in Japan?He will go to Japan tomorrow.He feels nervous.He doesn’t know how to use chopsticks very well and how to behave at the dinner table.It shows you like the food.Only parents are allowed to talk at dinner table in Japan.Manners in Japan! Please fill in the blanks.You aren’t supposed to _____________.
You shouldn’t _____________________.
It’s rude ________________________.
It’s polite _______________________.eat or drink while walking down the street point at anyone with your chopsticks to stick your chopsticks into your food to make noise while eating noodles Suppose you’re Steve from activity 2b. Write an E-mail message to a friend about the table manners in Japan. Subject: Table Manners From: Steve
Dear ___________:
Here are some things you need to know about table manners when you visit Japan. First of all, you should ___________________________________________
___________________________________________
___________________________________________
___________________________________________ How much do you know about table manners around
the world? In the United States, you are not supposed
to eat with your hands. In Japan, you are not supposed
to eat or drink while walking down the street, and you
are supposed to make noise while eating noodles. It
shows that you like the food. In Korea, even the
youngest person isn’t supposed to start eating first. But
in China, you are supposed to pick up your bowl of rice.
Don't stick your chopsticks upright in the rice bowl.
Instead, lay them on your dish. And sometimes the
Chinese host use their chopsticks to put food in your
bowl or plate. This is a sign of politeness. Reading: About Table MannersAnswer these questions1.What are you supposed to do when you have dinner
in USA?
2. In Japan, are you supposed to drink while you are
walking down the street?
3. In Korea, is the youngest person supposed to
eat first?
4. What are you supposed to do while you are eating
noodles in Japan? Why?
5. In China, are you supposed to pick up your bowl
of rice?SB-2c ( extended activity ) What are you supposed to do when you have lunch at school?Culture shock
1. Lisa kept finishing all the food on her plate because she wished
to be polite, but she made a big mistake. Because in China your
behavior is to show that you appreciate the food and the host
would refill more food following. But in the west, the host gives
the guests the chance to choose what’s their favorite.
2. In the west if you were invited to have a meal at someone’s home,
there will often be only one or two dishes. Even if it was a
formal dinner, it would be usually just three courses: soup, main
dish, and dessert. But in China, an informal dinner would have
four dishes a soup, a formal dinner would have at least eight
dishes and a soup.A: Would you ______________a cup of coffee before dinner?
B: Yes, ______________
A: With sugar and milk?
B: Oh, no! I like coffee with nothing in it.
A: ______________ you are.
B: Thank you.
A: Dinner is __________ now. let’s have dinner. Today we have fish and beef.
B: It must be __________________.
A: Yes, I think so. ________________ _________________to some fish and beef.
B: Thank you.
A: Would you like some _____________ beef?
B: No, _________________. It’s really delicious, but I’m ______________. A:
Would you ______________a cup of coffee before dinner?
B: Yes, ______________
A: With sugar and milk?
B: Oh, no! I like coffee with nothing in it.
A: ______________ you are.
B: Thank you.
A: Dinner is __________ now. let’s have dinner. Today we have fish and beef.
B: It must be __________________.
A: Yes, I think so. ________________ _________________to some fish and beef.
B: Thank you.
A: Would you like some _____________ beef?
B: No, _________________. It’s really delicious, but I’m ______________.3aPre –reading:What should we pay attention to when having dinner in France?Read the passage fast and try to find the answer.Table manners
in Francenot to put your bread on the plate ( on the table )not to eat anything with hands except bread, even fruitsnot to say you are full ( it was delicious )not to put hands in you lap, to keep you hands not elbows on the tablebe (not ) supposed to do
rude / impolite / polite / should (shouldn’t)3aRead the e-mail and make a list of table manners in France!3a. Read the e-mail message and answer the questions.Why was Wang Kun nervous before she arrived in France?
Why did she have no reason to be nervous?
How has her French improved?
What is one particular challenge she is facing?
What does she find surprising? Because her French was not very good.
Because her host family was really nice.
Her French has improved quickly (because she speaks it every day).
One particular challenge is learning how to behave at the dinner table
You’re supposed to put the bread on the table ,but not on the plate.CULTURE1.When you are invited to dinner by Americans, the hostess expects you to be there on time or not more than a few minutes later.
2.When the guests sit down at a dinner table, it is common for the men to help ladies by pushing their chairs under them. Some families have a habit of offering a prayer of thanks before they eat.
3.Europeans keep the knife on the right hand, the fork on the left. But Americans use just one hand, and keep the other one on the lap. They constantly change their fork to the left hand when they have to cut meat.4. You should leave a spoon to lie flat. (a coffee spoon on the saucer, a soup spoon on the service plate beside the soup bowl.)
5.When Americans eat the bread, they hold it in their fingers, usually break it first.
6.If you have to leave during the meal, you should ask the hostess, “Would you please excuse me for a minute?” After the meal, you needn’t fold the napkins unless you are house guests and want to stay for more than one meal.
7.When you leave, it is a custom for you to say: “Goodbye. It was so nice of you to have me.” or “Thank you. I’ve had a nice time.” Then, maybe you can send a thank-you note.CULTURESelf Checkarrive meet spend behave imaginePeople in Japan and people in America ___________ differently at the dinner table.
You can ____________ how different the table manners here are from ours.
In Singapore, the trains always _________ on time. They are never late.
On Chinese New Year, people like to __________ with their families.
I usually ________ my friends in the library on Friday nights.behaveimaginearrivespendmeetSelf Check2. Read the passage and try to finish writing it. when I first ate in a western restaurant, I didn’t know what I was supposed to do. Everything was unfamiliar. I was used to eating with chopsticks and a spoon, but I had to eat with a knife, a fork and a spoon. And I had, not just one set to use, but two or three of each. Questions crowded my mind. Was I supposed to begin with the largest ones or the smallest? Was I supposed to start at the outside and work in or the inside and work out? Was I supposed to hold the spoon in my left hand or my right hand? What I finally decided to do was …… __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________Reading:
You're supposed to write quickly!Questions:
What is e-mail English?
When shall we use E-mail English?
How is E-mail English formed?
Give some examples of E-mail English.e-mail English is a new kind of written English that is being used to save time.What is …?When shall we use e-mail English? It is supposed to be used______________ .
It is not supposed to be used________. on a mobile phone in class abbreviations
homophone
punctuation markse-mail English Can you write an example of each on your own ?How…? How R U? How are you?
CU See you!
BTW By the way.
CUL8r See you later! BRB
CU2morrow
ASAPI’ll be right back.
See you tomorrow!
as soon as possibleOIC:
How RU:
ICQ :
BTW :
F2F :
CSL :
GR8 :
CU :
Cul8r :
2 :
4 :Oh, I see.
How are you?
I seek you
by the way
face to face
can’t stop laughing
great
see you
see you later
to / too
forThank you very much!（一）
A: Would you ______________a cup of coffee before dinner?
B: Yes, ______________
A: With sugar and milk?
B: Oh, no! I like coffee with nothing in it.
A: ______________ you are.
B: Thank you.
A: Dinner is __________ now. let’s have dinner. Today we have fish and beef.
B: It must be __________________.
A: Yes, I think so. ________________ _________________to some fish and beef.
B: Thank you.
A: Would you like some _____________ beef?
B: No, _________________. It’s really delicious, but I’m ______________.
Keys: like please Here ready delicious Help yourself more thanks full
（二）
Henry: Here’s a card _____________ you.
Susan: (Reads) Merry Christmas to you! (To Henry) What’s the date today?
Henry: December 20th.
Susan: oh, dear1 I didn’t ______________ Christmas is coming. Thanks for your nice card!
Henry: You ‘re _________________. Where are you going to spend the coming holiday?
Susan: No _________________. Maybe my parents are planning it.
Henry: Where did you go last Christmas?
Susan: We flew to Australia.
Henry: You traveled to Sydney?
Susan: Yeah. My uncle worked there and he _________________ us to spend the hiliday with him.
Henry: Are you going to Sydney _________________ this year?:
Susan: I don’t think so. I like skating, but it’s very __________________ in Australia.
Henry: What about Canada? It is supposed to be cold there! It’s always __________________zero in winter. You can skate and ski there.
Susan: You’re ___________________. I can tell my parents about it, because they decide all at last.
Henry: I’m sure they’ll ______________ with you.
Susan: I wish it will come true.
Keys: for know welcome idea asked/told again hot/warm below right agree
（三）
A: ______________ You look unhappy today.
B: I had a little accident yesterday.
A: Oh? _________________
B: I went to work yesterday afternoon. I rode too fast. When the traffic lights were red, I couldn’t stop my bike at once. I hit the car in front of me.
A: _______________________
B: No, I was OK. But my bike was broken.
A: __________________ I can mend it for you,
B: Really?
A: Of course. It’s easy.
B: Thank you very much.
A: ___________________________
How are you?
That’s right.
What happened?
It’s a pleasure.
What wrong with you?
Were you hurt badly?
It doesn’t matter.
Keys: a c f g d
School manners
Western manners are little different from good Chinese manners.
1. Greeting the teacher (向老师问好)
If you are in a very large class, it may not be necessary to greet the teacher on arriving, but it is always quite proper if you happen to catch the teacher's eyes as you enter. In a small class, the teacher will probably notice each one as he arrives, and you should smile and say, "Good morning, Dr Fenn."
2. Coming late (上课迟到)
It is bad manners to come late to class. If you are unavoidably (不可避免地) late, an apology should be made to the teacher either at the time or after class.
3. Talking in class (上课时说话)
It is bad manners to interrupt (打断) anyone who is speaking. And it is especially rude to the teacher, making it very difficult for him to continue the lesson. It is also bad manners to keep silent when the teacher asks you a question. If you do not know the answer, say so immediately; if you do, give it in a clear voice so that all the class may hear.
4. Looking at others' work (抄袭他人的作业)
One may not agree with the examination system, but at present it is basically the only measure to decide whether a student is qualified (合格的) in a certain line or not.
5. Laughing at others (嘲笑他人)
It is bad manners to laugh at others' mistakes or accidents. You can realize why if you think how you feel yourself when laughed at. It is very bad manners to laugh at any unfortunate student who has a peculiarity (独特) of walking or talking or any deformity (不足) of the body. Be friendly.
6. Thinking of others (为他人着想)
Good manners are especially important in the library. The general rule is: Do not do anything that might disturb (打扰) your neighbor. Pulling or pushing chairs and stamping your feet are impolite, as well as talking or laughing while others are trying to work.
7. Helping the teacher (帮助老师)
It is polite for the students to help the teachers when they see something they can do. Sometimes the blackboard needs to be cleaned, or the door or window closed or opened. Sometimes there are papers to collect or give out. This kind of help is always appreciated (欣赏的,感激的).
Table Manners 1) As soon as the hostess picks up her napkin(餐巾）, pick yours up and lay it on your lap. Sometimes a roll of bread is wrapped in it; if so, toke it our and put it on your side plate. 2) The Soup Course Dinner usually begins with soup. The largest spoon at your place is the soup spoon. It will be beside your plate at the right-hand side. 3) The Fish Course If there is a fish course, it will probably follow the soup. There may be a special fork for the fish, or it may be similar to the meat fork. Often it is smaller. 4) The Meat Course The main Course is usually served by the host himself, especially if it is a fowl(鸡禽） or a roast which need to be carved. He will often ask each guest what piece he prefers, and it is quite proper to state your preference as to lean or fat, dark（红肉） or light（白肉）. 5) Using Knife and Fork If you have English and American friends you will notice a few differences in their customs of eating. For the main or meat curse, the English keep the fork in the left hand, point curved downward, and bring the food to the mouth either by sticking the points onto it or in the case of soft vegetables, by placing it firmly on the fork in this position with the knife. Americans carve the meat in the same position, then lay down the knife and taking the fork in the right hand with the point turned up, push it under a small piece of food without the help of the knife and bring it to the moth right-side-up. 6) Helping Yourself and Refusing If a servant passes food around, he will pass the dish in at your left hand so that you can conveniently serve yourself with your right hand. Never serve yourself while the dish is on your right; it is then the turn of your neighbor on the right. It is polite to take some of everything that is passed to you. But if there is something you may not like, you may quietly say: "No thank you." 7) Second Helpings The hostess may or may not ask if you would like a second helping, according to the formality of the meal. If she does and you accept it, you should pass your plate to her or to the servant with?? the knife and fork still lying on it. 8) The Salad Course A salad is eaten with a fork only held in the right hand with points turned up. There is usually a special one for the salad, a little smaller than the meat fork. 9) Bread and Butter Bread is taken in the fingers and laid on the side plate or the edge of the large plate, it is never take with a fork. Butter is taken from the butter dish with the butter knife and placed on the side plate, not on one's bread. 10) Other Things on the Table When there are things on the middle of the table, such as bread, butter, jelly, pickles, nits, candies, you should not take any until the hostess ahs suggested that they be passed. 11) Leaving the Table It is impolite for a guest to leave the table during a meal, or before the hostess gives the signal at the end. When the hostess indicates that the dinner is over, she will start to rise from her seat and all the guests will rise from theirs at the same time. 12) Various rules and Suggestions Sit up straight on your chair; Do not put much food in your mouth at a time; Drink only when there is no food in your mouth; Try not to get into your mouth anything that will have to be taken out; Do not make any nose when you eat; Do not clean your teeth at the table or anywhere in public, either with your finger or a tooth pick(牙签）, not even with you tongue.
TABLE MANNERS
吃的礼节在不同的国家或文化里常存在着许多差异。你认为挺礼貌的举动,美国人见了可能感到很不文雅。下面我们来看看美国人餐桌上的礼仪吧!
When eating at home with guests or eating out, there are several table manners that are generally observed.
Most meals served in American homes are served “family-style”; this means that the food is placed on platters(大浅盘) or in large bowls, and passed around to each person at the table. Each person takes a little food and puts it on his/her plate, and then passes the food to the next person. It is OK to ask for second helpings.
If you are treating your lady friend to a meal at a nice restaurant, it is polite to hold the chair for her while she sits down. Each person orders their own food and drinks, and it is polite to order items that are similar in price to the host’s order. Before beginning your meal, place your napkin(餐巾) over your lap, and remove it when the meal is completely finished.
It is polite to wait until everyone at your table is served before you begin eating; in some instances(例子),it is best to wait until the host begins eating. It is not polite to rest your elbows on the table. Only one hand should be on the table for most of the meal, unless you need to cut meat or pass something. Americans do not chew with their mouths open, or speak when their mouths are full of food. When drinking alcohol, it is impolite to drink too much or get drunk. If you do not drink, you will usually not be pressured to do so, and you should likewise not pressure others to drink with you.
Some Common Manners in the West
It is a great help for the person who is learning a foreign language to know some customs and manners for the people who speaks it, because the language is very closely associated with them. I will tell you some common western manners. 1. Meeting and Greeting People 1) Greeting The simplest thing to say is "Good morning," "Good afternoon'" or "good evening." This greeting is given to one whom you know only slightly, or to any one you are passing quickly. "How are you" is usually used when you are not in such a hurry. No answer is expected other than " Fine, thank you." "hello' is the commonest form of greeting between good friends.? 2) When a Man Raises His Hat If you are wearing a hat which can be taken bold of easily, it is customary to raise it slightly off your head when you greet a girl or a woman. 3) When to Shake Hands It is customary to shake hands when you first meet someone. And usually friends shake hands when they meet after not having seen each other for some time. However it is not necessary to shake hands. 4) Use the person's Name It is always good form to use the name of the person you are greeting. You might say, "Good Morning, Mr. Moncrieff" or " Hello, Franklin.," A person's surname should be used unless he is good friend or school-mate. 2. Introduction 1) How to Introduce People In introducing two people, the general rule is: Introduce other people to the person you wish to honor. The old are honored in the West as in China. Women have been honoured in the West since the days of knighthood(骑士时代）. 2) Rising at Introduction? A man always rise for an introduction, except that it is sometimes all right for an elderly man to remain seated when a young man is introduced to him. The hostess always rises for an introduction. 3) Introducing Yourself If you want to meet someone, it is better to ask a friend who know him to introduce you. But sometimes at a meeting or gathering it is all right to introduce yourself to a fellow-student, or to one of the same sex and position. 3. Invitation 1) You Must Reply to an Invitation ?Foreign custom is much more strict than Chinese custom in the matter of replying to invitations. When you receive an invitation you should answer it immediately, saying definitely whether you are able to accept it or not. 2) Written or Verbal Reply If the invitation is given by word of mouth, in conversation or at a chance meeting, you should answer at once whether you can come or not. If you cannot give an answer at that time, you may say, "May I let you know this evening?" Or some such words. 4. In the Home 1) The Right Time to Arrive When invited to luncheon, dinner, or supper, it is very impolite to arrive late, as it is usually planned to have the meal at the exact hour given in the invitation. 2) In arrival When you arrive, the hostess or some member of the family will probably meet you at the door and take your coat and hat. In the winter time you should dress more lightly than usually, as you may expect the rooms to be warmer than in most Chinese homes. 3) In a few minutes the hostess will ask her guests to come in to dinner. She may or may not ask each gentleman to take a lady in. If she does, the lady will take the gentleman's arm as they walk into the dinning room. If she does not, the ladies will go in first, followed by the gentlemen. The hostess will either point out their seats to the guests as they come in or have? a place card at each place with the guests name on it.? 4) How Long to Stay After the meal is over it is not polite to leave for at least half an hour, lest you seem to have come only for the meal. An evening dinner invitation usually implies that you stay for the whole evening. The hostess often plans some after-dinner entertainment. 5) What to Say on Leaving When leaving any kind of a party, a guest always expresses his appreciation to the hostess. Some such words as these are appropriate. "Thank you so much. I've had a delight evening." 5. Table Manners 1) As soon as the hostess picks up her napkin(餐巾）, pick yours up and lay it on your lap. Sometimes a roll of bread is wrapped in it; if so, toke it our and put it on your side plate. 2) The Soup Course Dinner usually begins with soup. The largest spoon at your place is the soup spoon. It will be beside your plate at the right-hand side. 3) The Fish Course If there is a fish course, it will probably follow the soup. There may be a special fork for the fish, or it may be similar to the meat fork. Often it is smaller. 4) The Meat Course The main Course is usually served by the host himself, especially if it is a fowl(鸡禽） or a roast which need to be carved. He will often ask each guest what piece he prefers, and it is quite proper to state your preference as to lean or fat, dark（红肉） or light（白肉）. 5) Using Knife and Fork If you have English and American friends you will notice a few differences in their customs of eating. For the main or meat curse, the English keep the fork in the left hand, point curved downward, and bring the food to the mouth either by sticking the points onto it or in the case of soft vegetables, by placing it firmly on the fork in this position with the knife. Americans carve the meat in the same position, then lay down the knife and taking the fork in the right hand with the point turned up, push it under a small piece of food without the help of the knife and bring it to the moth right-side-up. 6) Helping Yourself and Refusing If a servant passes food around, he will pass the dish in at your left hand so that you can conveniently serve yourself with your right hand. Never serve yourself while the dish is on your right; it is then the turn of your neighbor on the right. It is polite to take some of everything that is passed to you. But if there is something you may not like, you may quietly say: "No thank you." 7) Second Helpings The hostess may or may not ask if you would like a second helping, according to the formality of the meal. If she does and you accept it, you should pass your plate to her or to the servant with?? the knife and fork still lying on it. 8) The Salad Course A salad is eaten with a fork only held in the right hand with points turned up. There is usually a special one for the salad, a little smaller than the meat fork. 9) Bread and Butter Bread is taken in the fingers and laid on the side plate or the edge of the large plate, it is never take with a fork. Butter is taken from the butter dish with the butter knife and placed on the side plate, not on one's bread. 10) Other Things on the Table When there are things on the middle of the table, such as bread, butter, jelly, pickles, nits, candies, you should not take any until the hostess ahs suggested that they be passed. 11) Leaving the Table It is impolite for a guest to leave the table during a meal, or before the hostess gives the signal at the end. When the hostess indicates that the dinner is over, she will start to rise from her seat and all the guests will rise from theirs at the same time. 12) Various rules and Suggestions Sit up straight on your chair; Do not put much food in your mouth at a time; Drink only when there is no food in your mouth; Try not to get into your mouth anything that will have to be taken out; Do not make any nose when you eat; Do not clean your teeth at the table or anywhere in public, either with your finger or a tooth pick(牙签）, not even with you tongue. 6. In School 1)Greeting the Teacher? If you are in a very large class, it may not be necessary to greet the teacher on arriving, but it is always quite proper if you happen to catch the teacher's eye as you enter. 2) Coming Late It is bad manners to come late to class. If you are unavoidably late an apology should be made to the teacher either at the time or after class. 3) Talking in Class? It if bad manners in the schoolroom, as elsewhere, to talk while anyone else is taking. 7. In Public Places 1) Traffic Laws The coming of the motor car made definite traffic law and regulations a practical necessity. To obey these law is not so much a matter of curtsey(礼貌） as a moral obligation（义务）. 2) For People Walking People walking should keep to the sidewalks and should keep to the right of the sidewalk. 3) The Theater The theater proper is more formal than the movies. At the theater best clothes are in order; evening clothes are often worn. 4) The Movies The movies are more informal. Any kind of respectable clothes may be worn, and small confection(糖果） may be eaten quietly as long as there are no objectionable noses to annoy one's neighbors. 5) In Church It is usual for anyone attending church to take some money along for the offering, as it is a regular part of every church service and is used for the work of the church. Good clothes, but never evening clothes, are worn to a church service. 8. Special Occasions 1) Birthday Birthday in the West, as in China, are considered occasions for congratulations and sometimes for gifts from near friends. 2)The Wedding If one receives an announcement of a wedding after it is over, a note of congratulation may be sent, but a gift is not necessary. 3) The Funeral Funerals, of course, are always sand, but the tendency in Western countries is against making any show of one's feelings at the funeral. The idea behind this is that the person dead would wish this last meeting of his friends in his honor and remembrance to be full of tender, happy recollections of his life. 9. With Strangers and Friends 1) Lending and borrowing are more matters of principle in the West than in the East. Things borrowed in the West are definitely expected to be returned, whether it is fifty dollars or merely a friend's pencil. 2) Don't Be Curious It is impolite to be curious about the private affairs of others, such as age, salary, religion and marriage. 3) Thanks for Gifts When some one gives you a present, it is very impolite to neglect thank him for it.? 4) One Hand Only In china we use two hands when giving something to a person, or when receiving it, if we want to be very polite. In the West this would seem awkward and impolite. 10. Personal Habits and Appearance 1) People judge you at first by what they see, so particular attention should be paid to your personal appearance. 2) Using a Handkerchief Always carry a clean handkerchief. Do not use it while it is folded, and do not fold it after you use it. 3)Spitting In the West it is considered very impolite to spit, even upon the street. 4) Smoking Smoking is very prevalent(普遍), both by men and by women. If you are a guest in a home where no others are smoking, it is better to refrain(忍住） from smoking, you may say, "Would you mind if I smoked?". 11. Some Points for Men 1) With a Lady Always allow the lady to precede you in places where one has to go before the other except in the following case: when getting off a street car, train, bus, or out of an automobile; when going up stair; when opening a heavy door. When you are walking along the street with a lady, always walk on the outside. 2) At a Dance If you wish to dance with a certain lady, go to her, bow, and say:" May I have the pleasure of a dance?"
Selected from Western Manners by Earl and Katharine Willmontt and translated by Wan Rongfang
西方礼仪
为什么打招呼？ 在欧美国家见面打招呼是很自然的，即使是不认识。打招呼的目的，并不是为了要跟你有进一步的交往，只是一种生活礼仪形式。其实不论任何人，面对有人微笑打招呼，都会受到感染，像是见到阳光心情跟着好起来一样，很自然会打招呼响应。因此，在西方国家旅游的时候，如果迎面而来的人对我们说哈啰，别露出一副莫名其妙的表情，甚至置之不理唷！那可是非常失礼的。 怎样打招呼？ 对方跟你说「How do you do ?」就是「你好」的意思，不用按着课本教的说「Fine, Thank you. And you?」，除非这是你的好朋友，或是你有比较多的时间跟他聊天，不然只要同样回答说「How do you do ?」就够了。如果怕自己英文不好听，至少微笑点个头。有时候他们会说「Hello !」，其实相当于我们的「嗨」，这是同辈或好友之间的应对方式，不适合用在对长辈或地位比较高的人。另外，他们也会问候「Good morning」，「Good afternoon」或「Good evening」，同样问候就可以了。 怎样吃饭？ 中国人吃饭比较随兴，很可能聊到开心处，就大声说笑，或是把餐厅当作自己家一样让小孩子跑来跑去，这在西方国家是相当不得体的喔！尤其如果我们是吃西式餐厅，而不是在中国餐厅，一定要注意餐桌礼节。餐巾应该要铺放在腿上，不是别在领口上的，更不可以拿餐巾来擦桌子或餐具！使用刀叉的时候，倒没有禁忌不可以拿着叉子讲话，因为在外国，放下餐具表示你已经吃完，准备请服务生来收走了。当然啦，如果要比手画脚的时候例外，毕竟拿着刀叉挥舞还是挺不安全的！ 享用食物的时候安静是基本的礼貌，像是喝汤、嚼食物都不应该出声音，打嗝的声音尤其会惹人白眼，万一打嗝发出了声音，应该对同桌的人说「Excuse me」表示歉意。千万不要塞得满嘴的食物，慢慢一口一口吃。发表意见时，应该等食物完全吞下去之后再讲话，不可以一边嚼一边讲话。如果有鱼刺或骨头，应该尽量先用刀叉挑出来或切除掉，再放到嘴里面，不适合嚼一嚼之后再用嘴巴吐出来，假如不得已必须要这样做，也最好悄悄地、稍微用餐巾布遮掩一下比较好喔。 西方的礼仪和我国有许多的相似之处。 零零总总谈了一些基本西方礼仪，其实最基本的还是爸妈平时生活教养的功夫。如果常常提醒孩子遵守礼貌规矩，让孩子懂得规范自己、尊重别人，相信在国外旅游的时候，也能很快就适应不同的礼节了！ ???中国自古就是礼仪之邦，西方的礼仪和我国有许多的相似之处。在当前国际交往频繁的形式下，不论是在国内接待外宾或出国访问旅游，不论是将要留学国外或常驻国外工作都有必要学习一下西方的礼仪。 ???礼节有两个方面：其一要从内心去关心他人的需要和情感；其二要以一定的行为方式表现出来，由此人们通常可以判断我们家庭教养的状况。礼节的实质就是处处为别人着想，这也就是要实行那条金笺：你想别人怎样对待你，你就该怎样对待别人。所谓考虑他人的要点就是要使自己的衣着和举止尽可能让人喜欢。一看到衣着雅致、彬彬有礼的人，你就会觉得日常生活增添了许多乐趣。相反，看到的是衣着不整，礼节不周的人，你就会有明显的缺少什幺以及不舒服和烦恼的感觉。 ??? 中国的礼节与西方的礼节有时差别很大。 如果你想同西方人相处和谐，了解西方的礼节是非常重要的。 ???最简单的问候是说一声"早上好"、"下午好"，或"晚上好"。这种问候可以用于你不太熟悉的人或者任何与你匆匆擦肩而过的人。 ???若你不很匆忙时，对不认识的人可说一声"你好"，回答你的也应该是"你好"。 ???当你第一次与别人见面时，通常要握手。此外，久违的朋友相见时，通常也要握手。然而，相遇时不握手也行,微微鞠一个躬,也是很有礼貌的。 ???如果谁要和你握手，你当然要同他握手--拒绝握手是非常不礼貌的。通常是由年龄大的一方或者女子先伸出手。 ???你在向别人问好时，直呼别人的姓名也常常是得体的。你可以说；"早上好，蒙克里夫先生"或"你好，富兰克林"。 ???有些问候在中国是合乎礼节的，而在西方却不被采用。如果你问候一个西方人说"你上哪儿去?"（Where are you going?）或说"你去哪儿啦？"（Where have you been?）他会想你在打听他的私事，实在是太失礼了。 ???而如果你说："你吃过了吗？"（Have you had your dinner?），他可能会认为你想邀请他与你共同进餐。因此，和西方人相处时，你最好使用西方通常的问候方式。 ???当你受到邀请时，你必须立即作复，明确地说明你究竟能不能接受这次邀请。如果对方是在谈话中或偶然遇见时口头提出邀请的，你就应该立刻回答能不能去。如果当时不能回答，你可以说?quot;我今晚告诉你，行吗？"或诸如此类的话。但不管是口头邀请还是书面邀请，都应当给予明确的回答。 ???通常来说，表示你的确不能接受邀请的客气的办法是说出你不能不谢绝的理由。只是说一声"我不能去"或"我不去"是不礼貌的。说一声"对不起"也是不够的。只说一声"谢谢"，那就只能使人莫名其妙，不知你到底是接受邀请，还是谢绝邀请。 ???如果你接受了邀请，忽然有事不能赴约。你应当把你不能前往的真实原因告诉对方，接受了邀请而又不赴约是一件极不礼貌的事情。 ???在经历了饮食习惯的历史沿革之后，当我们都围坐在铺着雪白桌布、摆着锃亮刀叉的餐桌旁时，吃饭已经从只为了充饥的需求而发展成为一种令人愉快在复杂的社会习俗。今天，在你应邀赴宴的时候，你对同桌进餐的人和餐桌上的谈话，大概比对饮食要更感兴趣。实际进餐时，应该尽可能少一些声响，少一些动作。 ???女主人一拿起餐巾时，你也就可以拿起你的餐巾，放在腿上。有时餐巾中包有一只小面包；如果是 那样的话, 就把它取出，放在旁边的小碟上。 ???在西方，汽车有优先通行权。几个人肩并肩地排成一行走是不礼貌的。因为那样会妨碍别人行走或耽搁别人的时间。 ???西方店铺，除极少数外，都对商品明码标价，没有讨价还价的习惯。店员们都很客气，尽力为顾客找到满意的商品。顾客也必须很客气，如果看了好几件物品以后，一件都不想买，顾客可以说: "恐怕这些都不是我所需要的，麻烦你了，多谢。" ???"谢谢你"（Thank you）这名话在西方比在中国用得要更加频繁得多。任何人替你做了一些事，不管事情多小，也不管他是你的上司还是佣人，你都应该说："谢谢你"。 ???你讲话完毕以后，千万不要向听众致谢。不要说："谢谢你们"，"我谢谢你们"，或"多谢你们注意听我讲话"等。讲话完毕时，略微欠欠身就够了，不必要多讲什幺。 ???当你给别人传递点东西或替人做些小事情而别人谢你时，你不必说什幺，只须笑一笑或点点头就够了。
