课件17张PPT。课程名称:Conflict resolution听说课
学科:英语
年级:高三年级
版本:北师大版选修八Unit23第二课1. Can QUARRELING solve the conflict?
2. How do you solve the conflicts in
your life?What’s your feeling about the conflict?quarrelingfightingignoring After learning, we'll be able to:
1.Improve our ability of grasping the main idea in English listening.
2.Master the best way of solving the conflicts.
3.Properly solve some conflicts in our life.Learning aims:Listening: how can we solve a conflict?Questions:
1. What is the worst way of handling conflicts?
2. What does doing nothing mean?
3. When do we ask for help from somebody outside the situation?
4. What is the best way to deal with a conflict?
Listening exercise:1. What is the worst way of handling conflicts? Why?1. The worst way is to _________________________This is the worst way of handling conflicts, because the situation ___________ and can ___________respond to anger with more angerbecome violentgets worse2. What does doing nothing mean?
Why doesn't it work well in solving conflicts?2. This is when the person ______________ and tries to ______________________________......
This ________________________ and the person who withdraws feels ________________
with the other person. Holding your feelings inside can be very ________. says nothingescape and ignore the situationdoes not solve anythingmore and more angryunhealthyListening exercise:3. When do we ask for help from somebody outside the situation?
How does the speaker comment on this way?3. ……This can be useful, especially if the conflict is ________.
However, it’s usually better to______________________.
serioussolve the problem yourselfListening exercise:Listening exercise:4. What is the best way to deal with a conflict?
4. The best thing to do is to try to ___________ with the other person.negotiateListening exerciseSummarize the steps of negotiating in conflicts.
First, you should never ______________ the other person or act as if you are 100%....
Second, you should try to explain clearly_________________ and then try to find out _______________________________, and why.
Third, when you’ve found out what each of you wants, _______________________.
It’s important to be ________.
You should speak ________________, but you should never ______.
It’s always better never to ___________________the other people.look down onwhat you wantwhat the other person wantsput forward solutionscalmclearly and firmlyshoutstand too close toHold the correct attitudes!Analyze the needs of two sides!Put forward solutions!Hold the correct attitudes!Show time: Recently your parents find that you spend too much time on your cellphone, which they think greatly influence your study. So they decide to take your cellphone away. However, you don’t think that your cellphone has a bad influence. Instead, it sometimes helps you with some difficult questions. So you strongly disagree with it and are unwilling to hand it to your parents.
How will you negotiate to solve the conflict? (before and after)beforeafterLin Senhao
a postgraduate in Fudan Universitya criminalTragedyAt first, he quarreled with his roommate from time to
time.
However, he didn’t solve the conflicts properly.
At last, he killed his roommate by putting the
poisonous chemical into the drinking water.
His roommate died.
And also, Lin Senhao was sentenced to death(被判处死刑). Though it is cruel, Lin deserved it.Impulse?is?devil.(冲动是魔鬼!) To negotiateHold the correct attitudes!Analyze the needs of two sides!Put forward solutions!HomeworkIf you were Lin Senhao, how would you negotiate with his roommate to solve the problem and then to avoid the tragedy?
Please write an essay of 100 words.Thank you for your attention!