(共21张PPT)
M5 Unit1 Getting along with others
WHAT IS FRIENDSHIP? I want to find the answer to the question—what is friendship?
When it rains, I think friendship is a small u_______.
It can give me a piece of clear sky.
When I am crying, I think friendship is a white h__________.
It can wipe my tears dry.
Task1: Poem appreciation
mbrella
ankerchief
When I am sad, I think friendship is a w____ word.
It can bring me happiness again.
When I am in trouble, I think friendship is a s_____ hand.
It can help me escape my troubles.
arm
trong
Picture one
Friends are thieves of time.
The proverb means that when staying with a good friend, we feel happy and relaxed and almost forget the existence of time.
Task2: Proverbs on friends and friendship:
Picture two
The best mirror is an old friend.
It means that an old friend k______ you very well. He/She can help point out your s__________ as well as your w____________.
nows
trengths
eaknesses
Picture three
If you can buy a person’s friendship, it’s not worth having.
It means that true friendship is p________. It is i__________ for a person to buy it with money. It is b______ on t______, r______, loyalty, shared feelings and so on.
mpossible
ased
rust
espect
riceless
Picture four
True friends have hearts that beat as one.
What does this proverb mean?
A. Your true friend’s heart beats as fast as yours.
B. True friends can share one heart.
C. True friends are willing to share their happiness and sorrow with each other.
A friend in need is a friend indeed.
A life without a friend is a life without a sun.
A man is known by the company he keeps.
观其友知其人。
4. A friend is a second self. 朋友是第二个自己。
5. A friend to all is a friend to none. 滥交者无友。
6.A friend’s frown is better than a fool’s smile.
朋友的皱眉胜过小丑的微笑。
7. A good friend is my nearest relation. 好友如至亲。
Peter and Jim are good friends and they share a room in college. Recently they had a quarrel because Jim blamed Peter for spending too much money. In order to persuade Peter to make it up, you should say “_____________”.
A. A man is known by the company he keeps.
B. A friend in need is a friend indeed.
C. A friend’s frown is better than a fool’s smile.
D. A good friend is my nearest relation
Have you ever argued with a very good friend? For what reason(s)?
--- having little in common (with each other)
/lacking common interests/hobbies
--- lacking trust
--- being jealous/envious of each other
--- being indifferent(漠不关心的) to each other
--- misunderstanding
A fierce argument often leads to an e___ to a friendship. Do you know some good ways to mend a broken friendship?
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Task3:Discuss & Talk
She felt …
Detailed reading:
Why she felt so?
What can we infer from Sarah’s letter?
A.Not both Sarah and Hannah are pleasant to be with in their classmates’ eyes.
B.If Sarah had known the math quiz in advance, she might have achieved the highest grade.
Sarah envied her friend Hannah because Hannah did better in the quiz.
Sarah failed to get a good grade in the quiz probably because of her carelessness.
He felt awkward.
He felt really guilty.
He got angry with
Matthew.
Detailed reading:
How Andrew felt Why he felt so?
They lost the game because of Matthew’s carelessness.
He made some cruel remarks to Matthew.
His best friend Matthew has stopped talking to him.
purpose
reasons
lower
explanation
heard
Sarah’s 1)_______ for writing Asking for advice
Sarah’s 2)______ for feeling betrayed ◆Sarah only told Hannah her secret that no one in the class had received a(n) 3)_______ grade than her.
◆Everybody seemed to have known the secret the next day.
Hannah’s
4)___________ Their conversation might have been
5)________ by others in the washroom.
Difficult situation Sarah lost her best friend and felt being laughed at by everyone.
destroyed
Arguments
blame
responsible
Awkward
Andrew’s dilemma/trouble The quarrel after a football match 6)_________ his friendship with Matthew.
7)___________ about losing the match ◆In Andrew’s opinion, Matthew was to 8)______ for losing the match.
◆ In Matthew’s opinion, he shouldn’t be 9)___________ for
losing the match and it was natural to play badly for a player like him.
10)______________
situation Although they sit next to each other, they don’t speak to each other, and Andrew wondered whether Matthew and he are best friends.
Task5: Think and write
Most troubled friendships can be mended. The ways to mend a precious friendship are as follows.
First,__________________________________________.
Second, _______________________________________.
Third,_________________________________________.
Finally, ________________________________________.
Task5: Think and write
Most troubled friendships can be mended. The ways to mend a precious friendship are as follows.
First, don’t let your pride get in your way.
Second, apologize when you are wrong even if you’ve been wronged. Sometimes it may be best if the wronged person takes the lead and apologizes. When you apologize, you have given your friend a chance to admit that he is wrong.
Third, see things from your friend’s point of view.
Finally, accept the friendship’s change as our needs and lifestyles change.
A friend …
Accepts you as you are
Believes in “you”
Calls you just to say “Hi”
Doesn’t give up on you
Envisions the whole of you
Forgives your mistakes
Gives unconditionally
Helps you
Invites you over
Just be with you
Keeps you close at heart
Loves you for who you are
Makes a difference in your life
Never judges
Offers support
Picks you up
Quiets your fears
Raises your spirits
Says nice things about you
Tells you the truth
when you need to hear it
Understands you
Values you
Walks beside you
X-explains things you don’t understand
Yells when you won’t listen and
Zaps you back to reality.