(共25张PPT)
Task
A quiz about your relationship with parents
Do you and your parents take part in some activities together
A. Frequently B. Sometimes
C. Never
2. How often do you talk to your parents about your studies and personal feelings
A. Always B. Once in a month
C. Never
3. If you want to make a decision, will you ask for your parents’ opinions
A. often B. sometimes
C. Seldom
4. Have you ever quarreled with your parents
A. Never B. sometimes
C. many times
5. Do you give your mother or father a present on their birthday
A. always B. sometimes
C. never
(1).More than 14:
Congratulations! You did well in the relationship!
(2). Between 9 and 14:
You need to improve it!
(3). below 9:
You have to try a lot to change it!
Let’s see your results
What’s the reality
According to a survey on the Internet, among all the teenagers questioned, ________ of them feel they are close to their parents as friends; ________consider their parents act as strangers sometimes; while_______ of them always quarrel with their parents.
19%
50%
31%
ask for advice
Advice column
Father & Son
column
专栏
What’s the main idea of the letter
Para1: His son refuses to do what his parents ask him to do.
Para2: His son is wasting valuable time during this important period in his life.
Para3: He is worried about his son and wants to know what he can do.
1. Do not give advice for problems not discussed in the letter.
2. Offer comfort and support and write in a polite way.
3. Use modal verbs(情态动词) such as should or must
4. Use imperative(祈使句) to give your advice
Tips from the two letters
You should be prepared to listen to him.
Be patient.
Try to find out why he is acting this way.
You are Dr Fang now!
Write a letter of advice to the son!
① Offer comfort(安慰) and talk about the ______________ (Para1-2)
② give proper __________ (Para3)
③ express your ___________ (Para4)
Outline:
Discuss together
trouble/ problem
advice
wishes
List problems the son thinks his father has
doesn’t listen to his son
shouts at him when he refuses to talk to his father
makes him do things he doesn’t like
calls him selfish and unloving
forbids him from doing things he like such as playing foreign music, watching DVDs or meeting his friends at the Internet cafe
Writing work in class
part1:
Talk about the problem
(Using three or four sentences)
Talk about the problem
You say that he does not listen to you. Is this why you do not listen to him Of course, your father will be angry when this happens! It is true that you need time to relax yourself. However, study is most important as a student.
Group discussion: Give as much advice as you can
Your cooperation means a great deal!
See which group can get more in the shortest time!
heart-to-heart talks (communication)
respect
Calm down ; learn to listen to each other
get a better understanding of the Internet
responsible for the study
trust
… …
Valuable advice to the son
From the teacher
Dear students,
Growing up can be difficult, which is always
full of pains. Because of the generation gap(代沟), you may have some misunderstanding with your parents. However, you should not always oppose(反对) them but to enjoy their love and respect them. This is the attitude you should take.
Always remember there is no one in the world who will love you more than your parents. So express your love to them and try your best to work hard to repay(回报)them. You will be glad to see your father or mother’s big smile.
Good Luck! My students!
Tracy
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Homework :
Finish writing the letter of advice!
Dear Xiaowei,
Best wishes,
Dr Fang
Closing sentences (express your wishes )
. Opening sentence
Body
① offer comfort and
talk about the trouble
② give proper suggestions
Good bye!